Marriage Dilemma

Two Families

"People, no..!" The voice of someone shouting called Bang Angga.

"Why Mas, bang Angga is not at home, anymore work," I said approaching Mas Ilham.

Mas Ilham was the eldest of three children. He's the brother of the Angga bang, suddenly coming home with his screams that make me quite panicked.

"Mas wants to talk to you, Ra,"

"Speak what Mas?"

"You are not insolent with Mother, I cry-nangis came to Mas' house he said yesterday you were insolent, no courtesy as parents. Inget Ra, whatever my mom is, she's your mom, too, your husband's mom. Understand a little not too hard with Mom," said Mas Ilham lectured me.

"Why should everyone ask Mother who knows Dira? While they don't want to understand Dira at all. Mas Ilham did not know how hard Mother, ngurusin him was wrong Mas. Even more so, the turn to volunteer is said to be insolent. Dira is also human Mas, has a sense of tired of having pain," said I defended myself.

"But no need to talk in a high tone like Ra, not polite his name. Mother is a parent, must be respected!"

"High tone?"

Seeing Mas Ilham nod, I clenched my hands irritated by my in-laws' behavior.

Again he said something I did not do.

With the arrival of Mas Ilham to this house, it is certain that the incident yesterday Mother complained to Mas Ilham. It is only natural that Mas Ilham scolded me.

"Mas and your mother will stay here for a while to help take care of Mom. I don't believe you are the same as you who are not so good as a ghost," said Mas Ilham after that left.

'Good, at least my work will be reduced. Let them know how hard Mom is with her super wah mouth. I want to know how long Mas Ilham's family takes care of his mother' I murmured.

***

Sure enough, Mas Ilham's speech yesterday really did. Boyong family at home.

Madam Lala, Mas Ilham's wife looked at me so cynically as she had just entered the house.

While their two children were so enthusiastic to meet with Rama and immediately invited him to play.

Of course I said them very politely and potluckily considering my husband only gave me a very minimal shopping ration.

When two families are together, all of a sudden..

"From now on, you can't use Mom's stuff! Starting from the stove, plate and so on. It's up to you to cook where, the important thing is not to touch any of Mom's stuff!" my in-laws' words made me stroke my chest.

"You're all witnesses here, now Dira will no longer touch Mother's belongings. But, Dira also will not cook or prepare a meal for Mom. All those responsibilities, Dira divert the same as Mbak Lala!"

Very annoying, isn't it? Live one house, but kitchen each. This is how the family is too happy. So happy that I was not allowed to enter the territory that had become the border. As if it was his territory.

But I was quite fond of it, I finally got rid of my super-fussy in-laws. Now it's time for me to drift and relax and watch Mbak Lala who will be the victim of the next Mother's slander.

And that's for sure, I'm sure! It's just that I don't really want to advise, just watch without intervening anymore.

For almost 5 years I lived at home with my in-laws. During that time all the sense of life I have experienced until now. Including the bitterness of living as a wife, not just a daughter-in-law.

***

As the day wore on, I always spent my time relaxing with Rama.

It seems like Mbak Lala is also starting to feel something hihi...

Let it go, enjoy your life..

If you are able to speak to lecture me scolding me for not taking care of your Mother, then now prove your skill and perfection in taking care of your parents.

"Where's mbak?" Tanya was quite curious about Lala's mother.

"Where's what?"

"Mother's Skin,"

"It's a habit, even mothers are never weird. We also often chat while joking, just not like you say it," replied Mbak Lala?

"You're the only one who is not care about Mom, so the ghost has no understanding at all, it's natural that Mom is always angry with you," continued Lala again.

I smiled wryly,"Oh, huh? Yes, I've been living here forever, let me and Bang Angga find a contract"

My words turned out to make Mbak Lala speechless. Why Ma'am? No need to chat with a lot of alesan to cover up the bad in-laws. In reality, everything I experienced, everything I said was true!

I left Mbak Lala with a satisfied smile seeing how his face looked.

"Ra, shouldn't you be the one who takes care of Mom?" bang Angga said suddenly as I sat down to play with Rama.

"Why should Dira bang? Not that Dira is not careless about your mother, Dira always snapped at her, then why tell me again? After all Dira even more seneng like this, my life feels calm and peaceful," I said proudly.

"You don't want to take care of Mom anymore?"

"There is Lala" I replied.

"Lala Ra's parents, she has to take care of two children, plus take care of Mom, she must be tired. You're the one who took care of Mom!" Pinta bang Angga to me.

"Wow, you need to be taken to a hospital deh bang, so the doctor can surgical fill the head of the brother. Realize not, Brother cares so much about Lala, kasian tired, do not take care of the child, Brother did not think of Dira for almost 5 years? Still got a heart, no bang? Dira who has been more tired bang, ngurusin Rama plus your favorite mother. Tau thank you for the mending, which was even insulting," I said trying to resuscitate my husband's thoughts are very very very wrong.

"Your mother was a little young Ra, now she is old, so please be aware of all her treatment,"

"Hahahha please understand, okay Mom is now old, then Brother? Are you old too, and you never want to lose? Your son just lost to Mother Bang, your mother like a queen whose request must be obeyed, while your son, always asked for understanding when wanting something. What kind of father ?"

Bang Angga was silent, maybe he was a little aware of what I had said. But I'm pretty sure, he realized it only lasted a matter of hours.

I know how his attitude is. By Allah, if it were not for Rama and the son I am holding at this time, I would have been very excited to leave the two cruel men behind.

"Sorry Ra, you can't be a good father and husband to you and our children,"

"And Brother can never be the best especially superhero, as long as you don't change. At least he was the establishment and a little firmness as the head of the Bang household. Inget yes bang, our little family is only wife, husband and child. While Mom, not included!"

Gemesss, furious, of course I always feel when talking to Bang Angga.

I feel like I'm being punished by God, having a husband like bang Angga.

TBC.