Marriage Dilemma

Marriage Dilemma
Julid's In-laws



Today my patience is really tested. After I revealed my pregnancy to Bang Angga yesterday, of course my mother-in-law will not stay silent.


I have known so much about his attitude and disposition that what I think always happens.


Exactly when I walked home after buying rice from Marni's shop.


"Ra, Dira, come here for a second!" Call RT's mom and I'll come to her.


"What's wrong mom?"


Ms. RT slightly pulled my hand and spoke in a whisper, "Are you pregnant again, Ra?" Ask.


"Dira's in-laws said mom?" Apparently true, my mother-in-law had spread rumors to some neighbors about my pregnancy.


"Yes ma'am, Alhamdulillah, Allah loves the same trust Dira and bang Angga to have another child" I replied with a smile.


"Patience to Ra, pregnancy is sustenance. God willing, every child brings his own sustenance. Just ignore the words of your in-laws, long time mother was also angry with her horror."


"Yes mom. Yes Dira continued again ma'am, must hurry to cook, pity Rama."


I said goodbye to RT and continued my footsteps. But again and again...


"Dira, here!"


I can already guess with what Ratna bude will ask.


"Do you want it like RT asks?"


"Emang ma'am RT ask what?"


"Bude, what do you want to ask?" I've been very lazy to answer every question from people who have just had a gibbah with my in-laws.


"Are you really pregnant again, Ra? Your mother-in-law said the same bude, if she was embarrassed if she had another grandchild, what else Rama was a child."


"With these circumstances, do you think Dira can refuse? If only Dira could choose, Dira prefers to be independent first bude, then add a child," I replied.


"Yes Ra, you really are. Uh, but you're pregnant with my husband, aren't you?"


"What do you mean by Bude? Yes it is Dira pregnant with Anga bang, have you ever seen Dira wandering here and there with other men? Don't want to wander, make a nap break just hard," my voice began to rise. It's good to ask without thinking, I have a husband, obviously I'm pregnant with my husband.


"That's not what Bude meant, but your in-laws said..."


"Bude knows how Dira's in-laws, people who are not sane kertemepin, clear nonsense ngacok. But wait a minute, there is no way that bude nanya is not from Dira's in-laws," I said staring at the bude Ratna full of investigation.


Bude Ratna nodded, "Yes. Your in-laws said they were ashamed to have another grandchild. She also thought that you were pregnant with another man. I swear you too, he said hopefully died during the snack later," explained Bude Ratna.


"What's? Dira's in-laws talk about bude?" I made sure to get back this hearing. My chest tightened and began to heat up hearing the gossip my in-laws were spreading.


I want to scratch my face and tear off his dirty mouth. What kind of parents is he? Instead of supporting her son-in-law, this even makes her son's life more chaotic.


Brakes...


I opened the door and slammed it. My patience was completely toyed with, I was getting disrespected as a daughter-in-law even too despicable in her eyes.


"The door should not be targeted. Why are you so upset?" Tanya bang Angga approached me.


"Abang just ask everything the same Mother. What less am I as a son-in-law bang? Why with the heart of my mother slandering me here and there spreading gossip," I shouted. I couldn't stand the attitude of my mother-in-law who looked at me so despised.


"Why mother?"


"Would I be pregnant? If I can choose a bang, I also do not want to get pregnant now, when my husband and mother-in-law never appreciate me one bit," continued me again with a sharp gaze bang Angga.


"Don't convolve. Why, what's wrong?"


"Your mother was spreading rumors to people, saying she was ashamed of having another grandchild, while another grandchild was a child. Even your mother also thought I was pregnant with another man, and swore I died at birth later," I said loudly with the accompaniment of sobs. Let my mother-in-law hear from behind her room. That was my goal, so that his son would know and realize that his mother was very cunning.


"That's what doang dibributin. Let what people say not be shunned. Some neighbors will also know if you are pregnant again, long your stomach will grow. Naturally if I tell people about your pregnancy, surely she will like to have more grandchildren. And not like you said it," replied bang Angga lightly making me even more furious to slap him.


"Just ask yourself," I smiled wryly at my husband's distrust of his mother.


"Wait a minute, you'll make sure."


Bang Angga really wanted to make sure that what I said was all wrong. He met his mother in the room.


"Mother, did you really have a bad rumor about Dira out there?"


"You're accusing me of spreading bad gossip? Your wife who wants to come out because of it, always makes trouble. You are the son of Mother Angga, you should trust Mother more than your wife! Kualat just knew the taste," said my in-laws and was seen leaving his room by slamming the door.


'Basan stealth snake scaly fish, julid's in-laws have no heart' My mak is so furious after hearing his confession.


After my mother-in-law went somewhere, bang Angga approached me.


"You heard what Mom said to herself. Don't talk about the neighbors, let them say what, don't take heart."


"Enak ya bang if just talking doang. Keep going on your hard mother. Until whenever you're with your mother it's never gonna change, neither have feelings!"


"Say what are you, huh? Are you still living with me?" Bang bang Angga.


"Yes bang, I'm bosen. I'm sure I live with you who are constantly being interfered with by your mother. I am tired of living a household that is like this," I shouted back to yell at the Angga bang.


"Hope to know why? My mother is old, you know that people who are getting older are her attitude even back again like a child. Don't be extended!"


"Cih, tell me to keep giving. When is bang? Just when do I keep cowering to your mother, until when do I keep silent berated your mother, until when huh? I'm also a man bang, have a heart have feelings. My body is not a robot that can be pulled here and there endlessly. I'm tired bang, I'm tired!" I let out all my complaints with bang Angga about his mother.


But then again it's all free, because in my husband's eyes his mother is the most perfect. It's a mistake that he praises, let alone the truth, and just lies that he believes what else is honest.


TBC.