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God has dropped three types of people in our lives
The first
people who are present only for a moment in our lives, just knowing, almost keep disappearing somewhere
usually this type of person is not so we worry right. after all, the presence is only as a figurant only, leaving no scars.
a figure that only likes not to be a favorite in the heart
The Second
people we meet for a reason
at least this type is more common in the heart than the first.
this figure is present and stays longer and also usually this figure is able to create a memory in memory..
a special figure must then go for a reason, whether it does not fit right again, not as thought again or go with other causes such as infidelity for example...
this second figure is sometimes able to damage our mental and heart..
which results in heartbreak, pain or trauma
The third one
the figure that God sends to the end of our lives, can be said he is our soulmate, the last heart barrier, partner to live life with a deeper meaning emotionally and spiritually..
yes this third figure is present after going through 2 phases of struggle, meeting with people who are present only for a moment and meeting people who destroy common sense
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Al wrote down his view of life on a piece of paper on his desk...
his heartbreak has made him understand the meaning of life
I thought Sandra was in the third category, could be a life-long companion.
Apparently..
The affection and pain are in different areas of the heart, sometimes we can feel together or separately depending on which is more dominant
How much our love if hurt by happiness can not be the part that covers or patches his wounds.
Happiness may reduce the pain caused by injury to our loved ones, but it cannot heal
To treat a wound is not enough just with compassion alone, it is impossible.
It takes a sense of sincerity and also acceptance of the wound more precisely
" MAKE PEACE WITH HEART"
I used to think that loving yourself was a real selfishness.
It turns out.., after going through all these wounds I realized that we also need to love ourselves to stay sane, and peaceful body soul.
So a reminder that one day if someone hurts, we can still stand strong without having to feel down because we realize we are also valuable and very dear to us.
Saving the energy to love ourselves to specialise in ourselves first so that we have more energy to love anything around us.
So that we can give love to family, spouse, job or whatever it is that requires our affection wholeheartedly
Don't be the one who sacrifices himself for the happiness of others.
While we are injured
they can't do anything.
this is not selfishness but the necessity to keep our mental awake
"Al resumed scratching his pen
Sometimes we have to take a little heart to let go of something we love so much.
something too deep in the heart
before we blame the heart for all the wounds left behind
Batam june 3, 2017
that's what Al made
many ways to be able to calm the heart including by making simple writing
great tips from Al
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Neta was caught running towards Reception
called the officer who was on guard at the time
"please...
"please....
his breath was hunting because he was running
" please "he said again
*sejurus then set his breath slowly which seemed to hunt irregularly because of shock and ran as hard as possible
the hotel officer who saw neta running was no less panicked
they immediately ran over to the guests at their hotel
" good evening, sorry, can we help you ? ask the officer who has the face
"ii yes"
neta is still trying to calm herself
"take a drink"
shouted the reception officer gave orders to his colleagues
the officer swiftly gave him a bottle of mineral water
" I'm sorry for drinking first
" let brother be calmer
Neta immediately gulped down the water
"huh..
his relief of gradually tightness in his chest began to normalize
Neta was still panicking
"please please, call an ambulance
" the occupant of room 204 I saw bleeding seemed to want to be born
" my sister was there accompanying him
" so soon mba.before something happens that we do not want.
say neta with a panicked face back
"Good brother....
quickly they move
One of the officers instructed to look at the state of their guests in room 204
others contacted the security and medical teams
Neta went back upstairs
tergopoh followed by several other hotel staff who followed the steps of Neta
"ayo mas cepet" orders a panicked Neta
they do not answer in a swift motion
and sure enough once in the room the blood has soaked the bed linen and floor
Wawa who accompanied the woman was no less panicked
" patience mbak.sabar* while holding the hand of the young woman in pink hijab
"gold how he shouted when
one of the officers entered room 204
" we wait for help, brother, already heading here replied the officer
not how long Neta came in followed by some of his other staff
'how the deck yells at the wawa
" the bleeding is getting worse, replied the wawa whose clothes were already red because they were held by the woman
"ay Allah
Neta staggered to see a lot of fresh red liquid flowing from the thigh, the young lady's breast
"uh sick..sakitt"
"please.....
"sickness* cried the woman with a strong strong handwringing reflex
"patience mba.
wawa tried to master the state of calming the woman.
"this is how 'em ? ask neta to panic
"we lift it down or how" he asked again
"patience to mom..
"we wait for the medical team first how the next action so that the authority is instructed
once the answer of one of the security first arrived
neta just nodded
then stepped in to help his sister to hold onto the woman
"patience mba.
"patience yes
"breath regulation
"don't panic mba
neta instructed
sakiiiit.
ahhhhhh.
the woman kept on messing.
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