My son My spirit

Advice to Nandi

In the parking area of a simple restaurant looks Nandi is parking his motorbike accompanied by Niqy.

They both entered the restaurant. And one of the waitresses approached their occupied table while giving a food menu.

"Nih his menu Nandi wants to eat what, today is a happy day Nandi also mama so it's up to Nandi want to eat anything" said Niqy

"Nandi wants to eat spicy sour crab, kale cha vegetables and drink orange juice".

"The same menu is two servings yaa, mbak" Niqy told her waitress.

His waitress recorded their order and passed away.

While waiting for the order to come, Niqy took the time to give a message to Nandi.

"Nandi.." call Niqy.

"Yaa Maa." answered Nandi.

"Now that Nandi has become a student of SMK, Nandi must learn well, keep the faith guard the heart because of the temptation when the High School is another time from Junior High. There will be puberty and others".

"Puber is what Ma.", asked Nandi

"Puber is a time of physical change. For example, because the male Nandi will grow later whiskers, or feathers in other parts, there will also be a name for the maturity of sexual function, such as sexual function, so when we have the same feelings of the opposite sex will usually appear evil passions that will usually interfere with the concentration of children to learn. So as much as possible keep the heart also keep the faith, improve prayer so that all can be controlled" explained Niqy

"So Nandi can't date Ma?, hehehe" asked Nandi

"Friends Di.. school is fine first, if later it has been work and can be independent new can. A friend who can influence our learning or make our learning achievements improve must be maintained. So don't date but be friends" Niqy said.

"Yes Mama.", answered Nandi.

"And about whatever it is mama hope Nandi can open with mama, mama can be a place to confide Nandi. If there are active study friends invited home for later study groups, yaaa!?.", explained Niqy again

"Yes Maa.", Nandi understood.

"Maa...Can Nandi ask one thing?!",

"Would Nandi get the answer now why you should part with papa?!", asked Nandi

"Nandi.doesn't you ever say mama will say everything when Nandi is 17 years old, because according to mama at that age Nandi is an adult" explained Niqy.

"Maa.Nandi is now an adult, Nandi is ready to receive any explanation from mama", pinta Nandi again.

After that Niqy began to explain everything from the beginning of the meeting with Jon, to why and why he had to choose to divorce. Nandi bowed his head hearing all that there were tears dripping, Nandi propped up his head with both hands, not expecting the inner birth suffering that his mother experienced like that.

Niqy then stood hugging her son.

"I'm sorry, son, you must be a victim of this divorce" Niqy muttered, as she continued to tighten her arms to Nandi.

"Now we no longer have to look back, yes, may the past be a foothold for us to be strong people facing the twists of life, ayoo already sad....we ate the food first, it was prepared" Niqy said

The food is ready to be served. All menus are on the table. Nandi and Niqy started enjoying it.

On the sidelines of the dinner Niqy then told her son Nandi.

"Nandi..., at the school there are also still some teachers mama, so mama hope Nandi studied hard, not to be embarrassed mama yaa, because mama is also an alumni of the school".

"Yes mama, take it easy, you don't have to worry, Nandi will show that Nandi can carve achievements at school" said Nandi to convince his mother.

"And one more thing, Nandi should not demand that we have to eat at the restaurant at all times, because mama's finances are limited. If there is more sustenance mama will definitely invite Nandi again, okay?!", explained Niqy again

"Yeah mama.".", answered Nandi who still continues to enjoy the spicy sour crab that is served it.

"Good then", Niqy's smile widened upon hearing the reply from her son.

There is pride in seeing Nandi already a student of SMK, but there are concerns for Niqy as a parent. Given the days of High School is the most seductive times, influenced by the environment, especially worrying that his son Nandi will be involved in the love of monkeys. Or the influence of free association etc. But the hope and prayer for the child just the wayangnya continues terpatri dianubari.

Dinner was over and Niqy invited Nandi to stop by the Mall to buy some of Nandi's clothes, school bags, shoes, books and other school supplies.

Happy must be felt by the mother and child because spending time with Nandi is very valuable, considering Niqy's busy activities.