My Love is Blocked by the Holy Promise

Chapters. 55. Marriage Advice

(POV) Ivory

I who was born as the firstborn in my family often feel sad when remembering the fate of my youngest brother who has not been lucky in terms of romance. His name is always in every prayer I hope he gets a husband who loves him as sincerely as has a firm stand so as not to be easily consumed by the sedition of the people around him.

When she called me saying that there was a man who was kind to her and she was interested in him, I felt happy and worried. Happy at last he was reunited with the man he loved and loved. Worried that the man would betray him and leave him as he had been.

"Fira, you are ready to return to life as a wife because for the last few years you are a free woman. You are free to do anything without having to ask your husband for permission. Remember when you marry you must be able to release your ego because you no longer only belong to your father and mother, nor are you yourself but belong to many people, yours, your husband's, belongs to your children that you must take care of, you are accompanied in joy or sorrow, rich or poor, healthy or sick and difficult or happy," said I who was replied to a nod by my sister Fira.

"Yes, brother, this time Fira is better prepared to wade through the household life back with mas Galih. Mas Galih has never been married, but God willing, he is an adult and older than Fira" replied Fira.

"That bethel is Fira, look at my beautiful wife Ranti Prahesti, she got married at a young age, she was not satisfied to enjoy her youth. now he's the innate ngajak mother - mother complex for playing chess while

ngerujak," Angkasa my sister chimed in, Ranti his wife also directly humored his head using the tip of his index finger and the others suddenly laughed out loud.

"Mas also came home from work directly to take a shower, eat directly to the patrol post to play chess. Though Ranti and the children have been waiting for this from noon, kangen loh!!, Lagian Ranti likes to play chess because of the Angkasa mas who taught finally yes Ranti also teach complex mothers," said Ranti.

"Well that's it. her husband who gave an example is not real. His wife instead of reminding instead of following along, you should be angry at him Ran!! " i said while laughing. Long time no gathering and joking with them fun too. So remember the days of adolescence, me, Angkasa and Fira, we were compact brothers, compact, skipped school time, compact lie, same mama, same mama, papa even if one of us has a mistake we are always compact to cover it up.

"You guys, your mama's children, if your mother's rich husband does not dare to advise, afraid to offend him, later can not be given rations" papa immediately hugged mom from behind while we were just as comfortable as a smile, without daring to open the voice, understand the queen mother again talk.

"So the husband must be understanding, must understand what is a favorite of the wife, as long as she does not forget her obligations. Playing chess occasionally is okay. The origin of home affairs is in order, do not play chess because children are not taken care of. A wife also needs me time, needs to please herself, after tired of struggling with the affairs of children, husbands, and households. But remember the young mothers do not miss. Like this old mama, sometimes mama wants to do this, want it, when the physical is old. If we realize it's all just a test and lust. So we don't have to follow all our desires, we have to be able to control and control them" Mama's advice at length.

"For my mom, my dad was the best husband. Because papa wants to accept all the shortcomings of mama. Papa remains patient even though the mother is sometimes emotional, papa is patient with all complaints mama even papa is patient when mama is chatty again. because there are many husbands out there who do not want to accept his wife's shortcomings and tend to demand his wife to always look perfect. Papa is also always enough to give a living with mama, as long as mama is a wife papa, mama never feels lack of anything. There are a lot of people out there who just eat hard. In addition, what you admire most from papa is the typical papa loyal man. Papa has never been interested in another woman besides mama, papa's love is very sincere with mama. Even some times beautiful women come to papa, wanting to be papa's second wife. But your papa doesn't want to marry again. She said only mommy loves." mama told me while wiping the corners of her eyes wet with tissue.

"Thank you mom, I thought you were good. In the future papa will be more trying to be a good husband for papa's wife, a good father-in-law for papa's children, good in-laws for papa's daughters-in-law and good opa for papa's grandchildren," papa said to his wife, son and daughter-in-law.

"Hopefully in the future our family is more harmonious yes Pa, according to Ivory household papa and mama should be an example for us children papa and mama, Papa is a protector for us, Papa is a protector for us, papa is very loving and thoughtful, he always sets a good example for us. Hopefully later we can also be like papa to be a wise husband and father" I said.

"Rena is also amazed by mama, mama is a woman who is good at being grateful, whatever the husband gives is always grateful by seeing others whose fate is not as lucky as mama. Indeed, if Rena sees the mother is very loyal, obedient and obedient to the husband. And the most admired Rena from mama, mama is good at pleasing the husband, it seems papa more and more love with mama. Mama must share her knowledge with us women to be a wife who is good at soothing the heart of her husband," said Rena with my smile. I also replied by rubbing his head.

"It is not in vain today that I come together in this house, many knowledge and life lessons that can be imitated and practiced in everyday life so that we can live happily in the world and the hereafter. Thank you, Mom, because your home life has inspired us so much. May I be a husband who patiently faces the hobby of a wife playing chess. I'm grateful he's a hobby of playing chess is not a hobby of fun-loving like my friend's wife," said Angkasa while hugging his wife.

"Yes rich I also have to be grateful because my husband is just a hobby of playing chess at the patio.not playing with jablai, " said Ranti who invited laughter all.

"How about we make a routine family gathering event, we will work in our own company, of course it is better to adjust the time, " proposed Fira.

"That's a good idea, then you should start looking for a confidant to take care of your company in Paris. Papa wants to settle in Indonesia so that he is close to his children and grandchildren, "said

my mom and dad agreed.

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