Heaven Under Husband's Foot

Inner Child's

Orange stared at a crossbar that read the room of psychiatrist Gilang Ariyandra up there, finally he decided to come to that place after thinking a lot about whether this is the right way or not.

It had been two days that he had waited until there was a chance for him to meet Gilang, and now all that was realized. Gilang told him to come today, and now he was starting to feel very nervous.

Orange can come to this place certainly without the knowledge of Arkana, he went secretly from home when Arkana was still in Solo. Everyone at home has been talked to so they do not tell about the departure of Orange today.

Yesterday he had arranged an appointment first, and who would have thought today there was no full schedule so that Orange was the first person to enter the room.

Tok.dok..

“ Login.” There was a voice from within that had just made the orange pull the knob and let itself inside.

“ Welcome Orange.” Excited Gilang after seeing his old friend come to be one of his consultants today.

Gilang moved from his place and chose to sit on the sofa so that Orange felt more comfortable, the two sat facing each other at this time and it seems that there will be a lot of discussion going on between them.

Gilang himself was a friend of Orange High School first, and now the man has become a psychiatric doctor or commonly called a psychiatrist. The reason Jingga met her was clear to know the condition of her husband, she felt this had something to do with the psychology they would discuss.

“ Hi lang, you what's up.?”

“ I'm good, you how are you? “

“ I'm good too kok.”

“ About Nawa, I'm so sorry. And your marriage, I congratulate you. Sorry I couldn't attend.”

“ Relax aja.”

“ Hmm, light. Can you go straight to the core of the conversation.?” Pinta Orange suddenly.

“ Sure, please. I'll be a good listener for you.” Reply Crossed.

Orange began to tell about Arkana which he disguised as his acquaintance, he told Gilang that his friend had a very strange nature and often changed depending on the conditions he experienced.

Then Jingga also explained that her friend was happy to lie in front of everyone to get compliments, and when she feels sad or angry she will only hurt her lover violently without any pity at all.

After that Jingga also explained to Gilang about his life when he was a teenager, where he always did not get more attention from both parents. Demanded to be perfect without any form of appreciation, or rather the life of his friend was arranged by his mother until now.

“ So what do you think? Does my friend have mental problems?”

“ Wait a minute Orange, actually I was very surprised to know you came to see me to discuss mental health. And I didn't expect that you came all the way here just to talk about your friend, why didn't he come to see me? That would be much more helpful, you should know that psychiatrists and patients who interact directly will make it easier for us to handle it.” Said Gilang staring at the orange that looked puzzled at this moment.

The orange was still silent, he was at a loss as to what to say. He could not tell Gilang about his household matters, even Diana who was his best friend was not told by him.

“ Well, if you don't want to tell me it's okay. From what you explained just now I can draw one conclusion.” Connect Gilang later.

“ So what happened to him.?” Ask Orange curiously.

“ This could be the problem of your friend's inner child who has been hurt by his past, from his constantly changing attitude, thirst for validation, emotions, feeling the most right. All because of her injured inner child.” Clearly Crossed.

“ Inner child ?” The orange seems to have summed up all of these answers and began to believe that it was true that Arkana did indeed look so traumatized in her past.

“ Personality formation of a person 20 % is determined by inherited traits and 80 % is determined by environment or parenting. Well, this parenting pattern that can affect a person's inner child. You said that your friend was always demanded by his parents since childhood until now, and the impulsive attitude and temperament he did was only released to his lover only. your friend's character formation is still undeveloped, she is still stuck with her past as a child. That's what we call the inner child in adults. “

“ So you mean he experienced such conditions because of the past he used to experience?”

“ Of course, the results of past experiences that make up the inner child can be seen in a variety of traits. Inner child can be good and bad if he feels angry then he will vent his emotions without thinking long, whereas if he feels happy usually they will look very excited and energetic.” Clearly Disappeared again.

The orange now understands why sometimes Arkana's attitude is fickle, as Gilang says that Arkana has an inner child who is hurt because of her past.

“ So how? After you heard my answer, can it help you.?” Ask Gilang.

“ I don't know, but now I understand.” Answer Orange.

“ If you really love your friend, you can bring him a consultation with me. I can help him heal from his past trauma, with you coming to see me like this actually won't be able to help him heal at all.”

“ I'm honest with you can.?” Speak Orange who finally decided to tell Gilang.

“ Can, you can be honest with me. Precisely it will also be good for you, not just others.” Reply Gilang later.

“ The friend I was referring to just now, was actually my husband. We married because of an arranged marriage, and I didn't know that she married me because of her parents' coercion. She's changed since we got married, which is why I'm curious about her attitude. Until I finally thought to you, and asked about this.”

“ Thank you for being honest with me, I promise this problem will not be known by others. With you honestly can also overcome the problem in yourself, we can both find ways to fix everything.”

“ But how lan? Can my husband recover from his inner child.?”

“ Of course can, all can be done by asking him for therapy.”

“ But it's impossible, he definitely won't want.”

“ I have an idea, we can use this way to make him realize the problem first.”

“ What is your idea lang.?”