Patience of My Husband

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"Darling, I'm first. You want to go to the office. Mah Arka stay first yes" Arka put her spoon on the plate. Then gulp water to the toilet.

"Yes" I answered.

After breakfast I accompanied the mamah to dismantle the souvenirs that mamah brought from the village. Rani goes to her room to rest.

"You bring anything?" My toot.

"You can see you brought anything with you. It's got rambutan, crystal guava, there's eggplant, carrot, and this there's also dragon fruit" Mamah took out everything in the basket. The word mamah is the harvest from the garden that is behind the house.

"Sir, the cardboard is out yet huh? You see there is a similar starfruit of long beans" Mamah asked Susi.

"Cardboard? I think it has not been opened, because I just brought the same bag basket only. Buk Mar is also like carrying a bag filled with clothes, is it not buk mar?" Susi's mom threw a question at buk mar.

"Let me see first buk, mumpung father has not left. Later even to the office again the card" Buk Mar laughed, then he walked to the garage.

"What do you want to do, bring this. There's also a lot of mah" Gerutuku.

"Many also in the market dear, must buy first. This is the harvest itself so there is no need to buy" Mamah said while arranging all the crops.

"But it's heavy, except bring your own car is okay. This is mama taking the train. Both women have no men" I'm still grumbling.

"But Mama didn't lift it. Just tell the pelvic porters, done" said mamah again.

Buk Mar came back in and followed Hadi with a large cardboard on his shoulder.

"Well that's it" Mamah pointed to the second that was brought by Mr. Hadi.

"Astaghfirullah Al Adzim" I shook my head with what I saw. In front of me alone there are so many various crops, plus this new one comes.

"Bring here sir" Mr. Hadi lowered the cardboard next to the mamah "Thank you very much sir" Mr. Hadi nodded and said goodbye.

"Your friend, what's this much for. There's no way we're eating all this" I said as mamah opened the cardboard.

It turns out that in it there is a large starfruit, chilies, tomatoes and also long beans.

"Look, honey, we don't eat everything. Mamah deliberately brought a lot of gini, want mamah share to neighbors. Let them also harvest crops in the village" said mamah with ease.

"Oh my goodness, bring this much stuff, nyampe here just want to be divided?" Ask wonder.

"It's okay baby, let our fortune continue to flow like water.Aamiin" said mama.

Gosh mama, rather than carrying heavy-heavy from the village here, if only you want to share it with neighbors you can buy it at the market. My mind just keeps grumbling.

"Darling I left first huh" Arka walked over to me. His clothes were neat with a black suit and a white shirt.

"Yes be careful" I said as I experienced his hand. He also said goodbye to Mom. Then I walked after him who was going to work.

"It's okay. Just pity the same mom. Bring that much stuff. Nyampe here even in share" I complained when we were on the terrace.

"Oh that. Don't think about it. If not brought will rot everything. That's why the same mom was brought here. That's a lot too. Better to share it with the neighbors here too. "

Ah, Arka and mamah are like mind.

"Why not share it with neighbors in the village?" Much

"Honey already. There are many more. Yeah, I'm leaving already, it's noon"

Arka's car passed out the gate, this time Arka departed with Faisal's father, Luna. Because Arka said, today Mr. Faisal started working again. Yesterday he still allowed a family event in his wife's village.

***

"Darling, you still get nauseous?" Ask Mom while we were watching TV in the living room.

"Sometimes mah, sometimes if you drink milk suddenly nausea, continue to vomit. Sometimes eating rice also nausea and vomiting. But sometimes not" I explained

"But Arka's always been a standby husband, right?" ask mama again.

"Yes, Arka always panicked if there was something about my pregnancy. He said he didn't want anything to happen to our future son. But lately Arka often makes me angry mah, often provoke emotions. Arka is also more talkative, anyway Arka now has changed. Sometimes I cry because of him" I put out everything in my mind.

"Darling, you're patient. Mamahasa Arka changed and talked more, it's because he did not want anything to happen with you and your child. That's the sign that he loves you both. And if you feel angry often, easy emotions. That's natural baby, it could be a hormonal change, if people say that the baby is born. Moreover, the age of the womb is still young, it is still the fussy stage"

Mama explained at length. What is true what Mamah said. Is it just me who overreacts to Arka's attitude. Is it just me who is easily emotional despite the cause of trivial things.

If that's true, what a pity my husband has, he's always been targeted by my anger. And he never returned my anger at all. He always faced me patiently.

'My husband, I'm sorry. I can't be a good wife....' My inner

"That means I've been overdoing it all this time, huh mah?" I asked mama.

"If people don't understand, they'll say that. Not all pregnancies are equally innate. Some are fussy, some are ordinary, some are even acting stupid"

"I'll try to control my emotions. Pity Arka if I keep venting my anger at her. Sometimes the trigger is just a trivial thing. But it makes it a big deal. My speech

"The point is that you should still complement each other" Mamah gently rubbed my hair.

Calm down if you have heard advice from a mother like this. I will try to be nice to my husband. He has treated me very well, after all.

Mamah who has not had time to rest since his arrival this morning I ask to listen to all my complaints. I am glad to hear it. My mother gave me good advice.

'Thank you, you have become my in-laws and my best friend'

How happy I am, to have such good in-laws. Unlike the soap opera story, drama or other stories. Most in-laws are cruel to their daughters-in-law or perhaps vice versa daughter-in-law is cruel to their in-laws.