DUDA IMPOTENT DESIRE
Khutbahs
Bismillahbornrohmanirrohim...!'
"Sir, even though this marriage was sudden and seemed forced. But, I really hope pak penghulu advises us before marriage." I asked politely. I want to, sir Penghulu advise me and Roses.
"Oohh yes, this is if there is no orderly event. Wants to be made the order of the event first." Said pak penghulu.
Everything should be in his rules. He has experience in this. Koq he was also confused and did not arrange the orderly order of the event.
Seen Mr. KUA recorded something in his binder. Then he gave it to his friend. And finally in this marriage contract event, led by the host. After the host opened the show with a long muqaddimah. Then the next event The recitation of the holy verse of the Quran.
"To the bridegroom to read the Holy Quran." Said the host. Mr. Penghulu smiled devil looked at me, I don't know what the meaning of his smile was. It seems he underestimated me, maybe they think that I am a man who can not read the holy verse of the Qur’an an.
"Yes sir, ready.. That's right." Reply politely.
Uncle Danu prepared a Qur'an in front of me.
Huuff..
I took a deep breath back, and exhaled slowly. I need a lot of oxygen stock in my lungs, so that my breath when chanting the holy verse of the Qur'an maximum.
I opened the Quran and will read Arruum verse 21 before I read it
Bismilbornrahmanirrahim
Bismilbornrahmanirrahim
وَمِنۡ ءَايَٰتِهِۦٓ أَنۡ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنۡ أَنفُسِكُمۡ أَزۡوَٰجٗا لِّتَسۡكُنُوٓاْ إِلَيۡهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيۡنَكُم مَّوَدَّةٗ وَرَحۡمَةًۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَأٓيَٰتٖ لِّقَوۡمٖ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ٢١
Meaning: And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives of your own kind, that you may tend and feel serene toward him, and made him among you of love and affection. Verily in this are signs for a people who think.
When reciting the holy verse of the Qur'an, the atmosphere was suddenly silent. Even the sounds of crickets and frogs that are mutually unpretentious are not heard anymore. Though usually the sound of crickets and frogs is very noisy around the house of his parents Rose. Because behind and beside the house there is a fish pond.
It turns out that the silence that was created when I read the Qur’an, occurred because they were swept away in the holy verse of the Qur'an that I chanted. It seems that my reading had hypnotized them, especially Rose, until I finished teaching, she still stared at me with a blink.
Eemm....
I became a little bragging, because everyone in that place was hypnotized. May the judgment of the Pengulu change for me.
"Thus we have heard the prospective bridegroom scrambling the holy verse of the Qur'an with fervent and melodious. I got goosebumps hearing the melodious voice of the bridegroom. I'm sure this man will be a good priest to his family." Said the host father with an expression of his astonished face to me. I just put on a thin smile, because I get compliments.
They do not know that when I was 21 years old, I had won the Islamic religious festival competition in Indonesia, the champion of 1 Musabaqah Tilawatil Quran or MTQ, the national level, from the results of the race I can reward pilgrimage to mecca and cash.
"No, the wedding sermon. Read the bride only. I see her groom-to-be knows a lot about religion." Answer Pengulu fast. He stretched out his hand, pointing at me.
I smiled in response to his words. Yes, it's fine for me to read that long, wide sermon. Even though his Arabic writing was bald.
I actually got the title Hajj. But I never added that title to my name. Hajji Akram Wijaksana, hadeuhh.. I lack confidence, if called Haji sir. Because I still feel like I do a lot of things wrong and wrong. Not suitable yet, so hajj sir. But I've been hajj.
I also began to read the Khutbah Mikah. Honestly, I'm very nervous, right now. In the past when married with Sisil who read his marriage sermon was Pak KUA. Although I have done a kabul ijab event, somehow the ijab kabul event, this time it is very thrilling.
Alhamdulilahilladzi khalaqa minal m`i baseraran faja’alahu nasaban wa shihran wa kana Rabbuka qadran. Wa asyhadu al lalha ilalah wahdahu laharikah. Wa asyhadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhu wa rasulahu. Allhumma shalli ‘al' sayyidina Muhammadin afdlalul khalqi wal wa ‘al' llihi wa shahbhi shalatan wa salman katsran.
Amma ba’du's. Fa ayyuhal hadliru, usshikum wa nafsi bi taqwallah faqad fazal muttaqu. Qalallahu ta’la fi-bihil carim: Ya ayyuhalladzna manu ittaqullha tuqqa tuqatihi wa l' tamudunna illa wa antum muslimun.
Wa’lamu annannikha sunnatun min sunani Rasulillahi shallhu ‘alaihi wa sallam. Wa qala annabiyyu shallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam: Amal wallhi inn la`akhshikum lillahi wa atqkum lahu, lakinni ashmu wa ufthiru, wa ushalli wa arqadu wa atazawwaju an-nis`a, faman raghiba ‘an sunnati fa laisa minni.Wa qala aidlan, ya’syarasy syababa man istatha’a minkum al-ba`ata fal yatazawwaj, fainnahu aghadldlu lil bashari wa ahshanu lil farji, man lam yastathi’ fa ‘alaihi bish shaumi fainnahu lahu.
Wa qala aidlan, khairun nisanda`a imag`atun idzarta ilaihatka, wa idza amartaha atha’atka, wa idza ghibta ‘anha hafadzatka fi nafsiha wa melalika.
Wa qalallahu ta’la, ayyuhan'su inna khalaqnakum min dzakarin wa untsa wa ja’udu wa qabila li ta’arafu, inna akramakum ‘indallahi atqatum.Wa qla aidlan, wa ankihu al-ayyama minkum wash shalihna min ‘ibdikum wa imoikum in yaku fuqara`a yughnihimullha min fadhlihi walla wsi’un ‘alim.
Barakallu lakum fil qur`nil ‘adzim. Wa nafa’ani wa iyakum bima fhi minal yati wadz dzikril hakim wa taqabbal minn wa minkum tilawatahu innahuwat tawabur rahim.
A’udzu billahi minasy syaithnirrajim ya ayyuhanasu ittaqulla rabakumulladzi khalaqakum min nafsin wahidatin wa khalaqa minha zaujah wa batstsa minhuman rijlan katsran wa nis`. wattaqullatha alladzi tas`alna bihi wal arham. Innallha kana ‘alaikum raqiba.
Aquelu qauli wastaghfirullha al-‘adzim lakum wali lidayya wali masayikhina wali sairil muslimna. Fastaghfiru innahu huwal ghafurrahim.
It means: “All praise be to Allah who created man from a drop of water, then He made him a descendant and kinship, and is your Lord Almighty. And I testify that there is no God (who has the right to be worshipped) but Allah, the Most Merciful, no ally to Him. And I testify that the Prophet Muhammad is His servant and messenger. O Allah, bestow upon us the mercy of Ta’dhim and the welfare of our Prophet Muhammad, especially the creation of creatures and of his family and friends with the abundance of mercy of ta'dhim and abundant welfare.
After that, O you who are present, I commit to you and myself to fear Allah, for it is indeed a (great) victory for those who fear Allah. Allah says in His glorious book: O you who believe, fear Allah with the truth, never die except in surrender to Allah (the religion of Islam).
Know that the marriage is the sunah of some of the sunah of the Prophet. The Prophet said: I, by Allah, am the one who fears Allah the most among you, and also fears Him the most. But I fasted and also broke my fast, I prayed and also slept and married women. Whoever hates my Sunnah is not of my class
And he said: O young men, whosoever of you has the ability (to endow the family), then let him marry, let him marry, because marriage is more able to subdue the views and more able to keep *******, and who is not able to, and who is not able to, let him fast because it will be more able to ease his turmoil.And he said again: A good wife is a woman who pleases your heart when viewed, if you command she obeys you, when you are gone he is able to keep his honor and your treasure.
And Allah SWT said: O mankind, We have created you from a man and a woman and made you nations and tribes so that you may know one another. Verily, the noblest among you, by Allah, is the most pious among you.
And Allah SWT said: And take care of those who are alone among you, and those who are worthy (married) of your men and of your women servants. If they are poor, God will enable them with His gift. And Allah is All-Mighty (His Gift), All-Knowing.
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