Can't Have You
Chapter 19's
In living everyday life problems always come in turn, one problem solved comes another problem. Life as pursued by problems, even sometimes not finished the existing problems have come again the problem of storming or even terrorizing? If you experience so maybe you need anti-terror forces so as not to be constantly invaded by problems ...
Why is it a matter of kayak***** yes? Woles aja sob whose name is alive there must be a problem that is most important how we respond to every problem that exists and recognize whether it is a problem or just something that you problem yourself. Is there a problem, isn't it a problem? Yes there is even though it is not a problem but it could be because it is considered a problem then becomes a problem.
Actually it is easy to recognize that the problem or not every PROBLEM must have a solution, a solution to solve the problem, if there is no solution/ the solution to solve it is most likely not a problem but only you consider it a problem.
A lot of kok in everyday life that is actually not a problem is actually considered a problem as a result of you will be dizzy yourself sob because there is definitely no solution. What is not a problem but is considered a problem? Gini aja simple sob you never fight with close people, say the people you love only because of massaalanya? Of course, have you ever worried about mass? Masalalu it is not a problem so if you are concerned that there is no solution way out it is something that you are concerned about, you want to look for until the apocalypse will also not find a solution.
Then it's just a trace of time travel, something that has happened is unlikely to be eliminated, which has happened still happens the most important if it is considered wrong fix that was for the future. Sometimes I myself want to laugh when there are people who fight/noisy because of mass and want to laugh again the same person who started the fight
Back again to the topic of discussion Problems in life are diverse there are easy to solve there are also complicated. In dealing with problems it is also necessary to sort out which ones should come first or which ones should be resolved later. Irresistible because many problems oang be difficult to be happy, it is difficult to get excitement in his brain that there are only problems and problems.
If you have experienced such things said psychologist buddy has started to enter the stress stage carefully man! I myself also sometimes also feel the crush like it feels very pressing.if such a feeling starts approaching usually I will just forget/ choosing not to think about it for a while until I feel like I have a solution to get it done.
Like we carry a burden, the problem is a burden of life, the name is also a burden must be very unpleasant, painful, troublesome anyway make us so difficult to achieve happiness man. Usually, religious leaders recommend praying a lot to reduce the burden.
And more importantly if I myself let go of the burden for a moment until we have the strength/fresh back and able to carry the burden again. Sometimes trivial things but often we forget to remember instead of running from the problem loh yes .. This just put/release the burden for a moment until we are able to think again. Therefore, if you feel so much of a burden that is squeezed to the point that it is difficult to be happy, it is better to LET GO OF YOUR BURDEN FOR you to regain that happiness and you are ready to take it back.
I don't know why, it's so hard to let go of that burden. You guys must have felt it a lot, too, right? That burden seems to be a reminder of the pain of the past that we do not want to leave behind. Perhaps, there are some wonderful memories from the past that we have felt.
But a painful event we have experienced, and we unconsciously think, by remembering the pain, we can retain some of those wonderful memories, because that is the only connection. But unfortunately, it is only pain, pain, and pain that we feel. That's because we're focusing on the pain.
When focusing on pain can make us feel pain that is so extraordinary, to be able to cause depression, it means we should be able to use this focus to get us out of the depression.
Try to feel how extraordinary when we can focus on the beautiful things we want to achieve. It's fun when we can focus on solutions, right? All this time we've been stuck in the past just because we've been focusing on the past.
A guy who broke up with his girlfriend, just focus on the pain he felt after the break up. Not the bad memories that make him depressed, but because he knew that he could not feel the good memories he had felt when the former was still the idol of his heart.
The focus on loss made him even more hurt. So why torture yourself? Don't we logically want a good life without torturing ourselves?
The most unique phenomenon that occurs in everyday life is, when we are hurt, we usually listen to melow songs and throw themselves in sadness and drag on 'enjoy' it'.
Why not listen to fun music that makes us excited through events that have made us hurt? Apparently our focus is more attracted to the pain of the heart, because the sensation we have felt.
How do you focus on the solution? Ask yourself questions that are solutions, or at least provoke us to think and focus on the future. In the case of a breakup I described earlier, we can ask :
"Am I comfortable with this pain?"
"Am I going to feel this forever?"
"How do I get out of this?'
"What steps should I take to neutralize these emotions?"
"What is my greatest hope for myself?"
Why change focus on the future? Because every day that we pass is time. By changing the way we think, we can change our lives now, and for the future. When we focus on solutions, we have more energy coming out of hope.
Remember, this hope is a dream that we really want to achieve, and it becomes your fuel to solve the problem. Keep lamenting fate or start making small steps as a solution, all is your choice, my friend..
When focusing on pain can make you more helpless, change your focus to a sense that can make you more resilient
Don't bear the burden that makes you sick
Unleash
Liberate
Don't bear the burden that makes you sick
Unleash
Liberate
Inhale the air inside, then release along with the load
Stretch out your hands, then throw out everything that stifles your chest
The twilight continued to creep away from the beach happily
I see you have also begun to be able to spell the meaning of the smile on your lips that began to fade
Recall
Tomorrow there is still a different morning sun for you to see the color. Toast before you go home.
My reflection today is not about diet and fitness, but about the other burdens we carry everywhere, such as: Sexual sin in the past, a history of violence, an affair, an old secret, a sexual act, hidden sins. The loads that we do not want to let go are in the “kantong” that we always take everywhere. The items inside were too dark to reveal and acknowledge. The problem is that the longer we carry it, the heavier the burden feels.
I know a man who has been carrying his secrets for over a decade. When he confessed it to me, it was clear that he wanted to be freed from the burden of his charitable deeds. A woman is hurt by her mother. When he finally forgave his mother and she soon experienced freedom from that burden.
Are you carrying a burden now? If so, do you want to throw away that burden by cleaning it up, talking about it and starting to process it? Seek the Lord, as husband and wife, for His help and restoration. When you talk about it, and it opens up then the burden will come off. The Word of God says, “Therefore you must confess your sins to each other and pray for each other, that you may be healed.”
Discussion: I know this is serious, not easy. But if you carry the burden of past sins or experiences that bind your freedom, what is the benefit? Talk to God and your partner. The burden is like garbage in your life, it must be thrown away.
Prayer: Pray for openness pray for understanding and forgiveness. Pray that God will give you forgiveness and peace.
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