
A bright morning, decorated with the scorching morning sunlight illuminates the earth. I walk out of the house to carry out my daily routine. Take the kids, go to school on a motorcycle.
My daily routine is almost the same as other housewives. Not much different! Taking care of the house, cooking, taking the children to school and taking care of the husband.
What is different is just my busy life at the school and school activities at my little child's school.
Domestic abuse is common. Angry after that will be back in harmony again! Even then our relationship became more harmonious.
For more than a dozen years, I was living in a household. Likes and sorrows that I experienced never told with parents or relatives. I keep my house secrets. Big or small, and we can both solve the problem.
I enjoy everything I do with gratitude. Gratitude for the blessings that Allah SWT bestowed upon me over family, health and happiness is priceless with anything.
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The 15th year of my marriage and Abim..
After Abim was known to betray my household that I lived could not return to harmony! There is a conflict about the third person!
Day by day, month by month. An Abimanan cannot change his decision! He stays in his stance! Maintaining his ego to not be willing to let go of both!
But I stayed on the decision. Not to be polygamous! Being betrayed is enough to make me sick. Especially if coupled with receiving a marriage that I do not want from an Abimanan with another woman.
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A dozen years of maintaining a household is not that easy. Moreover, Abim is a man who is rude and light-handed. I accept Abim's shortcomings, iklas! Always pray and hope to the Khalik, that my husband may turn into a meek and patient man! But in reality, Abim betrayed me. Make all my hopes ruined, lost!
The pain has not gone away, for Abim's treatment of me and the children! Now added to the problems he was doing!
It felt like the expression had fallen down the stairs.
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Abim, several times left the house leaving me and the children! Because we often quarrel over the issue of his sir's marriage.
He lied several times and did not admit that he was cheating. Several times he made up a hoax about the marriage of his sirens that had ended and left the woman, but in reality he still had a relationship with Reyna! Sir's wife!
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I kept being patient and holding on. He gave her many times the opportunity to think. But the opportunity I gave you was never thought of. It is becoming even more.
Abim continued to defend the woman, the woman he had just met. As for me, who has lived with him for quite a long time since getting married no longer cared.
Abim remains on the decision. Want to keep both. He said he would put my interests and those of the children first. And Reyna lately. But whose name lives dipoligami does not wear. Feelings will be the stakes.
Mouth said sweet while in reality, ehmmm.not necessarily!!
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Until the time, where I really feel tired of all his actions so far. Persisting continuously without clarity is free.
Crying moreover.is not the solution that is obtained! And the problem remains.
I have to be strong.I have to be able to solve my problems. No one can solve my problems but me.
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Abimanan POV
Abimanan Effendi is the only child of Rizal Effendi and Ainun Effendi.
Rizal Effendi was a civil servant in the local district. While Ainun's mother worked as a teacher at one of the high schools (SMA).
During Ainun's teaching, Abim was raised by Laras' grandmother by Ainun's mother. From a small request Abim always obeyed by his parents. Because Abim is an only child, even to adulthood Abim's wishes are always obeyed by both parents.
Abim is a quiet and non-talking child and very stubborn. Especially when you have problems with him. He prefers to stay quiet and keep it to himself. It is rare to be able to tell all the problems to the closest people though.
The other nature of Abim is easily provoked emotions, rough and light hands!
There are also advantages to the nature of Abim. He is very attentive and cares about others or those closest to him!
After graduating from college Abim worked in one of the famous hospitals as the head of administration at the hospital.
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Until one day Abim met me, who at that time also worked in the same hospital with him.
At that time Abim did not know me very well, just often met and passed by the hospital.
Secretly Abim often watched me from afar and occasionally liked to ask about me to his friends!
One day Abim and I met and met in person for the first time.
When I was standing alone, Abim greeted me first.
"Hi, you're Manda, right?" Ask Abim stiffly. Then raise his right hand to shake.
It turns out that Abim has been looking for a long time about me! Starting from my name, home address and to be more specific about myself.
"Yes I'm Manda! Who's mas?" My mouth is astonished. Because they don't know him. I shook hands and began to introduce myself.
"I'm Abimanan, I see you often! Don't mind if I take you home." Take Abim to me, when I have a conversation with him.
New to know already want anter home, not very clear! Where might I want to! My inner!
"Ok, maybe next time."
Abim's conversation with me is over, ever since Tyas came to take me home.
Abim just kept looking at my departure at that time.
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Since Abim's first introduction to me. From that moment on, Abim met me in the hospital. Often also when we meet each other greet. Sometimes Abim also invites me to lunch together or just take me home.
Five months later..
Abim's relationship with me is officially dating. The time we spent together was always together. Abim always drove me home.
Abim found a cure for his heart wound after meeting me. He smiled again and was excited.
Abim feels very compatible with me. Then he dared to continue the next step. I also accepted Abim's proposal.
Even though my relationship at that time was opposed by parents and family. They didn't explain what the problem was! But, as my mother felt at that time, something was stirring about my relationship with Abim.
Abim and I remained clean, and continued forward until the guarantee! Eventually, my extended family also blessed our relationship.
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Three months later, Abim's parents came to talk about his intention of asking for me.
There was a dispute between my extended family and Abim's extended family.
My family doesn't want an engagement, and Abim's family wants it!
Long-running talks finally led to an agreement that the engagement would still be held in my house!
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After the return of Abim's family.
Atika told her big family.
"I agree karo event fiance Abim karo Manda. mbuwang dhuwit only! Luwih becik ngirit dhuwit kanggo nikah."
"Yes, Ma'am." Bude Eno from mama.
"Nyatane, I'm ora seneng Karo Abim. Do I know what I might feel for what? Brain twitches."
Accidentally, Atika and Eno's chatter sounded in my ear. I was shocked by what my mother said. Women who give birth usually have maternal instincts and never get it wrong.
But I kept trying to convince my mom that what she felt was not right.
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When the engagement day comes..
The engagement is simple and attended by the family only. Abim pinned my ring on my sweet day. And vice versa I also pin the ring in Abim's day.
The ceremony is also planned to be held for the wedding of Abim and I, three months from now. There are already calculations or good dates for planning a wedding. Which will be held at my house and then a week's lapse will be held at the groom's house.
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Monday, 15 January 2006
The bride Amanda Princess's
At exactly nine in the morning, I became the wife of Abimanan Effendi. Ijab qobul has been pledged. Various custom processions we both direct, then the wedding reception.
A smile of happiness flashed across both of us. It felt like it was the happiest day for us, for the king and queen a day.
Congratulations came from colleagues, family and friends. The music sounded very loud at that time, which enlivened the event.
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I am tired of receiving guests all day. Just walk into my room and rest my tired body.
After I finished cleaning, I fell asleep in bed. I don't know what time I don't see the clock. When I opened my eyes, I saw Abim near me looking at my face very close.
Until finally, Abim tried to bring his face so close to mine that there was no distance.
Abimanan begins by kissing bi**rku. It slowly descended to my twin mountains. Slowly with love!! I also followed every beat played by Abim. Until the pain is gone.
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