You're Not the First

iddah

When delivering Sofiyah home it turns out her mother Babas is also in the family residence of the girl who these days stopped in her heart. The very simple house is now the resting place of both.

Perhaps Sofiyah did not know about it but her mother Basofi who most understood the habits of her son was very grateful for the change of Basofi who did not like to play girls anymore.

"It's been a long time, ma'am?" Basofi asked the woman he loved very much.

"Must. Just now the muters were looking for perfumes are not anxious" replied the mother.

"Why not just go online? "

" It's more fun when shopping is offline. Directly come to the store, can hold the goods. If there is a defect it can be immediately returned or not so buy also papa. Especially if you buy perfume. If you can't smell it online, how does it smell?".

Basofi knew his mother must be looking for a diversion in her mood because yesterday her father had just had a wedding anniversary party with his madam, Daniel's mother.

"Eatya mama here to ngajak jeng Sora with this mama's daughter-in-law for shopping on Sunday tomorrow. Would you love to?" His mother Babas tried to appeal to his son-in-law.

But Sofiyah did not answer

he looked at his mother, asking for an opinion.

" Same with Fiyah, yes. I can't go anywhere yet... " Said mami.

" Jeng Sora will have to find fresh air as well so that fresh.... Eliminate tired also that eat away at our souls...."

"The poet....." Mami Sora seduces women of her age. Perhaps those words did come from his friend's heart but he was trying to melt the atmosphere.

"You ya jeng.... We hang out with kids like today. Just ladies...." Persuade his mother Babas.

" It's not that I refuse to cry. but I'm still in iddah..." Mami Sora.

"Huh....? Ida's? What is jeng?" Ask Basofi's mother exactly like her son.

" Iddah that... um... a moment yes jeng..." The middle-aged woman said as she walked into her house and returned with a book.

Meanwhile, the three people who were there were patiently waiting for an explanation from him.

Sofiya had not had time to explain about iddah to Basofi because there were guests who had made an appointment with him.

Basofi was very enthusiastic to listen to him properly.

"Iddah means language is count. As for the understanding of iddah syar'i is the waiting time a woman should not marry because to know the cleanness of the uterus for other than small women and women who have not menstruated or because they only follow orders for women a young woman and a woman who has not menstruated or because of the distress of the wife for a wife who died by her husband.

Mu'tadah (a wife who is iddah) is divided into two kinds of a wife who died her husband either he had been in jim*' or not and a wife who broke up in the state of her life the husband.

Then a wife who died her husband there are two kinds, namely

A wife who is pregnant then her iddah until the birth of the womb.

A wife who is not pregnant then her id until 4 months and 10 days.

A wife who is pregnant then her iddah until the birth of the womb.

A wife who is not pregnant and can still menstruate then her iddah up to three times holy from menstruation.

A wife who is not pregnant and can not menstruate (still small or or no longer menstruate) then her idahyll is three months.

As for a wife who broke off marriage with talaq or fasakh and has not been in j**a' it does not exist therefore he is also allowed to marry again.

As for the obligation of women in the period of iddah because of the death of her husband, she is obliged to ihdad (leave decorations for grief) during the iddah period.

So he is either day or night prohibited from wearing clothes that are colored for ornaments such as yellow, red or other colors even though the fabric is low value.

As for the fabric (clothing) that is allowed for him is a fabric that is not colored even though it is of high value and the fabric is colored to hold dirty such as black.

And he is forbidden by day to wear gold or silver jewelry or other jewelry commonly used by his people while wearing jewelry at night his law is treacherous.

And he either day or night is forbidden to use fragrant odors on the body, clothes, and , food or drink and prohibited also use oil on the head hair and powder on the face and prohibited also use polish on the members that look like the face, feet, hands and nails.

For those who do not carry out the ihdat at all or carry out at some predetermined time the law includes a great sin.

For him is allowed to decorate the bed, home appliances and so on and he is also allowed to shower shampooing, combing hair, cutting nails, cutting feather kem*l*an pull out armpit hair and so forth that are cleansing the body.

For the mu'tadah for being left dead and mu'tadah because in the talak Ba'in (talak that can not be referred back) in a non-pregnant state they are forbidden to come out of the house they occupied at the time of the death of their husband or in his mental time until the end of the iddah period unless there are udzur for example want to buy food, sell his work and so forth then they are allowed out during the day.

As for mu'tadah because it is ingested roj'i (talak which can still be referred back) and mu'tadah talak Ba'in in a state of pregnancy they are also forbidden to come out unless they get permission from the husband who has been mentally or because it happened emergencies such as his house to collapse or fear of unwanted things happening to themselves or their property and so forth.

Wallahu a'lam bisshowab.

So as stated in our I'anatun nisa' "Obviously mami Soraya after reading at length the book that is in his grasp.

"I also do not understand completely but according to Umi Zainab, his wife Abah Fani I this iddahnya 4 months 10 days"

Sofiya, Basofi and his mother just silent because they have not been able to fully digest the new science they just heard.

"I'm sorry now why not from the first I teach and seek knowledge so as not to fall too far like that time. You are still young Nonik.. seek knowledge as much as possible and try to practice it so that you can help papi and mami later!" He said, holding his daughter's hand.

"Please guide Fiah ya ko...! Maybe sometimes he'll defy but he's actually easy to tame...." Mami Sora said with a smile.

"Mommy....!!" Sofiya sulked making the two middle-aged women laugh.

While Basofi even bravely looked at Sofiyah while smiling mocking the girl, "Calm down... Aya will definitely stick to the stamps later..."

Sofiyah glanced at Basofi with a look of hate.

'This humiliation' inner Sofiyah.

So here first, friends. Insya Alloh tomorrow on the line again. Tomorrow Aya will meet her past that still makes her stunned and fascinated.