Wrong Khitbah

60. DEC : ISLAM GLORIFIES WOMEN

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1 month passed...

Since the talk at the hospital park. No more talk of marriage. Everything is going properly.

Zahwa returned to his activities. Azzam to his company. Zahra on her education. And Fatih returned to Cairo. He chose to leave Indonesia to heal his heart.

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It appears that a hally newspaper was teaching in the Ma'had he used to teach. Now the firing is over and when he gets home.

"Fahim?"

"Fahimna...Ustadzah"

"Alhamdulillah..."

"Chairman of the class, Tafadhdhol (please) at the ready of his class"

"Na'am Ustadzah "

The class leader went forward. The entire santri was silent and sat in an orderly manner.

"Ista'in Qum (please stand)" exclaimed the class leader.

The whole santri stood up straight. When all was ready the class leader continued

"Sallim (salam)"

"Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh" cried all children with enthusiasm.

After that they took turns to crucify the Ustadzah and then left the class and went home to each other.

Krek..

The sound of the door in the lock.

The Ustdzah locked the classroom door and walked back to a mosque.

"Alhamdulillah.until" he said smilingly staring at the mosque in front of him.

A mosque with a million memories. His head looked up at the sky.

Trying to stop the tears that come back urgently. Kala remembered all the events and his flashback first.

Until a pat on his back resuscitated him.

"Allah Kareem" he said in shock.

"Eh...Rifa Ustadzah.."

"There's pa Na? Why haven't you come in? Umi was waiting for you from earlier tablets" Ustadzah Rifa told him

True, his arrival has been awaited by Umi Alya. Which all this time can be said like Umi Alya's assistant because it always follows him wherever Umi Alya goes to fill out studies.

" Afwan Ustadzah's. Beik, ana into first yeah"

"Tafadhdholiy Na"

After that, he hurriedly entered the mosque.

"Assalamu'alaikum"

"Wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh"

"Aseef jiddan, Umi. Ana is late and has made Umi wait" she said politely after copying Umi Alya's hand.

" La ba'sa(it's okay) Son. The study will also start "answer Umi Alya smiled

Surely not for how long. The mosque has begun to be full of worshipers.

He sat down near Umi Alya to accompany him.

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🌹 ISLAM GLORIFY WOMEN 🌹

Women are one of the creatures created by Allah SWT. It has a very great position in Islam. There are so many hadiths and even verses in the Quran that explain the specialness of a woman. There is even a special letter in the Qur’an in which the theme of women's rights, namely An-nisa, the fourth letter in the Qur'an’an.

As women we should be grateful, so noble is a woman in Islam. Allah SWT created women and their beauty from head to toe. Beauty is not only judged by the physical, but also the beauty of the heart and mind.

So noble women, until Rosul SAW put women as the best jewelry in the world

A hadith says,

الدُّنْيَا مَتَاعٌ وَخَيْرُ مَتَاعِهَا الْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ

Even the angels of heaven will lose from the privilege possessed by the pious women in the world. All the good deeds done by women in the world that make women more glorious than the angels of heaven.

As the Prophet said:

إن الآدميات من نساء أهل الدنيا أفضل من الحور العين سبعين ألف ضعف

"Verily, the woman of the human kind from the world is more important than the angels of heaven 70,000 times."

How Allah SWT gives infinite love to women that can enter heaven from any door.

As a hadith says:

إِذَا صَلَّتْ الْمَرْأَةُ خَمْسَهَا، وَصَامَتْ شَهْرَهَا، وَحَفِظَتْ فَرْجَهَا، وَأَطَاعَتْ زَوْجَهَا، قِيلَ لَهَا ادْخُلِي الْجَنَّةَ مِنْ أَيِّ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ شِئْتِ

"If a woman performs five prayers, fasts in Ramadan, keeps *********** and obeys her husband; it will be said to her: “Enter into heaven from whichever door you want.” (CHR. Ahmed)

3 GREAT FEMALE ROLES

Three great roles that Allah has bestowed upon Muslims:

📌 1. Woman as sholihah's son

Women as children have an obligation to always try birrul walidain, birrul walidain is not just a suggestion, but is a command of God that we must carry out. Although married, the obligation of girls must remain obedient and devoted to the parents. Parents want the best and advise the best for their children. For that, the parents of girls are not changed and still have to respect.

📌 2. Woman as wife

One of the sources of happiness for a man, it is in a wife and is the center of happiness like a heaven of the world especially when the husband comes home from work in a state of fatigue the wife also welcomes him with a smile that cheerfully soothing heart.

A righteous wife will always be devoted to her husband. Because wives are aware that in order to get ridho of God, they have to make their husbands ridho to him.

Shallallahu 'alaihi said :

" أَلاَ أُخْبِرُكُمْ ....بِنِسَائِكُمْ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ؟ الْوَدُوْدُ الْوَلُوْدُ الْعَؤُوْدُ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا الَّتِي إِذَا غَضِبَ جَاءَتْ حَتَّى تَضَعَ يَدَهَا فِي يَدِ زَوْجِهَا، وَتَقُوْلُ : لاَ أَذُوْقُ غُمْضًا حَتَّى تَرْضَى"

“Will I tell you about your women in heaven? The woman who is loving (to her husband), who is fertile, who always benefits her husband, who if her husband is angry then he comes to her husband and puts his hands in his hands while saying, "I cannot sleep until you are pleased with me"

Which woman does not want to be a woman resident of heaven.O Muslims, rosul has promised us to be experts of heaven with us continue to strive to be a loving woman, always appreciating others, always appreciating others, who always humble and try to avoid the sense of pride, who always look for the husband.

Akhlaq against the husband will we sharpen if we always attend the science council, we must learn continuously in order to become the wife of sholihah.

May we Istiqomah become sholihah women who claim knowledge, aamiin

"aamiin" exclaimed the entire congregation

📌 3. Women As Mothers

The mother is home to the child before the child is born. Nine months pregnant mother, then gave birth, nurture and care for her child. A mother's struggle for her child is not an easy thing, even life is a bet. A child learns new things in his life. Learn to speak, learn to wear your own clothes, learn how to eat, train gross and fine motor. It all started with a great teacher named Mom.

⁇ ️ A child always craves a good mother and also sholehah.

The ideal mother in Islam is a mother who has a noble ethics, ta’at in worship running shari’at religion of Islam and also the mother who provides benefits for her child.

An ideal mother according to the view of Islam also, a mother who understands, how to teach the values of monotheism to her child while still in the womb, until the child is born a mother must understand how to educate children with Islamic values, teach things about religious issues.

By teaching and familiarizing children from childhood prayers, reading the Qur’an, introducing children with the names and traits of God, the histories of the Prophet and Apostles, and the, imitate the personality of the Prophet and give examples of good character and Islam in child️

Forming the child's personality is the responsibility of the mother. Not only educating children when they are young, the role of the mother is also needed when the child enters adolescence.

It is appropriate as a good mother, the mother always provides assistance and guidance to the child when entering adolescence. There is no doubt how important a mother's role is in educating her child.

Evidently since she was a mother girl has prepared her to equip herself with the values of kindness, in order to be a good mother for her children later. Regarding this, the famous poet Hafiz Ibrahim revealed the following:

الاُمّ مدرسة الأُولى اذا اعددتها اعددت شعبا طيّبا

"mother is the first madrasah (School) for her child. If you prepare it well, then similarly you prepare the good generation of the nation"

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" Can I be a good mother to my children? Allah Allah...

Zuad has not, have thought of your son Wa..Wa...

O Allah, if it is best for me, it is my soul mate." Zahwa

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