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119. Days as parents.

...There is no exact theory...

...being a parent...

...which we do...

...keep learning and trying...

...gave the best...

Photos of his birth and aqiqah have been posted on social media feeds but the faces of their sons. Unseen. Her face was a fusion of Bian and Orchid, Fat and adorable.

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After the discussion with the family was finally decided to give birth in Jakarta, Considerations were taken in order to be closer to Bian.

I submitted the work to all of Miepa's teams, and checked the reports sent by them every day. For boutiques with Meidina, A&N boutique products run normally. I don't have to worry about this.

Bian had prepared himself as a standby husband. Like this morning, Bian approached me at the desk with a glass of milk in his hand. I miss coffee but he forbids drinking it.

"Not done yet, dear?" bian asked while kissing my cheek gently.

"Awhile more... Oh yeah, baby mama and papa will come with Dewo. He graduated High School this year,"

"It doesn't feel like my sister has finished school" Bian said.

"Your allies," cut me down on the rectifier. He chuckled, Of course Dewo has a hand in our relationship. Bian 'spoils' beyond my treatment of Dewo.

I even had to seduce many times, in order to cancel buying a motor sport for a graduation gift. I don't want Dewo lulled with ease. "You're worried about giving up Danar" said Bian.

"Today, what are you going to do?as long as I go to work?" Bian asked while gently rubbing my hair.

He noticed the report on the laptop screen, "Don't be too tired, darling,"

"Yoga for pregnant women and take lactation classes, so that ASI smoothly seems like the material today about massage to facilitate ASI."

"Didn't I do it often? why different? What it takes... Haha," replied Bian who I replied with a pinch, Sucks. He just teased me.

"You are excited when pregnant, later do not need KB only yes. Let's get another grandpa,"

"Darling....!" Bian laughed, Ah she always made me fall in love with laughter, silence and idle. Everything in him is my favorite.

"Dear, I'd like to get ready to go to yoga and lactation classes first,"

"Kiss used to be with your husband" She thrust out her reddish-white cheeks, which I bit with anxiety.

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Apparently not all mothers after giving birth, directly issued a lot of ASI. There are some who get constraints on the process of spending ASI. Today there is also knowledge regarding the baby blues as well as postpartum care.

I nodded at all the explanations, This class advised Natasha. I told Mama Lusy who was quick to find information, about Lactation class in Jakarta. It's actually on the internet but my in-laws want to take part in welcoming their future grandchildren.

"Know? All this time I thought after giving birth to ASI we'd squirt out because of my brother. Her breast milk was so plentiful that she had to buy a special refrigerator" says Nanie, a yoga and lactation classmate.

"That's it, even this kind of knowledge we get when we are married" said I who is asserted by several other pregnant women.

We bought back the equipment for the Jakarta dj house. Including baby cribs, especially here Bian more thorough. He wants to follow the concept of his house, I then check the equipment that will be under to the hospital.

Diandra has given the best hospital recommendations. So did Tasya, he came with a bunch of baby equipment. Grandpa Danny and Denny, took the time to come home.

Two more days my family will come, while Grandpa and Grandma plan to come after I give birth. Extraordinary physical grandparents who are still strong, will even meet their great-grandchildren.

I asked the mother at home to prepare for my family's needs, Bian added two art and additional baby sitter to give birth. Although I know, as many assistants at home, mama will still clean. It was like an instinct in my mom.

Sure enough when mama, papa and Dewo came. After lunch, I had to wash the dishes. Geez, how gutsy if you see something messy. While Dewo has been swimming in the pool with his favorite brother.

The Bian family came to visit, and they fought each other with my family. Give our baby a name. Finally after the discussion alot was decided. Our son's name will be given to me and Bian.

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The condition of pregnancy and the position of the baby is ready, the day of birth prediction is getting closer. Photos of the results of the USG during control in pregnancy, has been arranged neatly. Bian arrange photos into an arrangement that has artistic value.

The results of the 5D photo of our son have similarities with his father, Iya finally Bian decided to use the call 'papa'.

Now it's just a matter of waiting to see our baby boy. I was predicted to be able to carry out a normal birth.

Bian has prepared birth photography, the photographer who will document my birth. His name is Wulan, he belongs to the Bian studio team.

The hospital and the doctor who handled us have given us permission, documenting the birth process.

Bian immediately asked the driver to bring the car, He was too limp to drive. Even mama had to remind Bian many times not to panic. Samar I still hear he's calling Wulan to the hospital.

Hour after hour of testing all my limbs, the excruciating pain began to grow with time. Until finally the perfect opening, opening 10.

All the medical team began to prepare with his tool, Instructions for straining sounded in the room. . By the time the sun came out of the contest, Not long after that our son's first cry echoed in the room.

...Deniz Bumi Prasetya's...

Deniz is derived from the Turkish word for ocean. Like the meaning of 'sea' that we often liken in my relationship with Bian.

"I told you, the baby is a boy and his om all," said Dewo proudly.

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If you imagine a nursing mother smiling like a billboard, we're the same. That doesn't happen to me. When I gave my first breast MILK, I grimaced in pain.

Oh no. I can't smile like an ad. Especially when both of them harden and Deniz is still sleeping, it's time I pump ASI.

Home Care services that we take for postpartum care, Provide guidance. Finally Deniz sucked ASI greedily after his position was right.

Grandma was astonished to see two midwives helping me give the briefing. The babysitter who stood between us.

"The time of the grandmother first, babies born directly snacked on ASI," he said astonished. Yeah, I'm just as good.

In addition, I also have to routinely pump for three hours, Deniz who is not familiar with sleep patterns makes us awake all night. Fatigue during the day. As soon as his 'favors' become parents, my eyes also rival the pandas.

Mama Lusi and mama have prepared Deniz aqiqah event. The aqiqah event. Makes the atmosphere in my heart. Finally, Bian and I officially became parents.

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Days with Deniz who is getting used to sleeping patterns. Mama and papa who have returned home, Dewo who is busy preparing for the test. Bian is back at work.

To make me more sensitive, I once sobbed alone in the bathroom. Bian who heard my sobs, immediately hugged.

"What's up, Nggrek? is anyone sick?" ask Bian to worry. I shake my head.

"I'm afraid I can't be a good parent to Deniz, all day he cries,"

"It's still the process of Deniz starting to feel his senses, Be patient, baby" He hugged me tightly. Makes my smell breathe in her soothing scent. I'm back in peace in Bian's arms.

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We just arrived from the re-control to the doctor, Deniz who had fallen asleep was taken over by the babysitter and taken to the room. I was just following both of them when Bian pulled my hand and directed to follow him.

"What's the matter, baby?" ask me wonder.

Bian looked at my netra, "I miss baby, we're both rare,"

"Oh papa Deniz, it hasn't been spoiled in a long time, huh," I tickled her waist.

"Yes... It can be, right?" hope Bian with plain boy eyes asks for something.

I did not answer but gave a warm and intense kiss to Bian's lips. That pair of clear netra sparkled happily.

"So you can now, honey? deniz's mump is sleeping."

"Waiting for your next visit? we haven't put up a KB yet,"

"Why did you kiss me?" tanyanya with gawking lips.

"That's 'down payment', the next rest after KB yes dear," I ran while laughing about to go to the room.

"I'm not an installment! Wait, you think you can get away with it easily," he pulled my hand and carried it to the bed. This time Bian laughed triumphantly.

"Udah ah baby, we're parents,"

"But it's not old, is it?"

Bian was just about to kiss me, when the baby monitor from Deniz's room indicated he had woken up and cried.

"Papa Deniz's patience is time to give in,"

"There's a mbaknya,"

"Deniz needs his mother" I laughed at Bian's face. The young papa gemesin.

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