Ramadhan Imamku (Accomplishing the Love of Allah)

Don't Like To Force

Assalamualaikum reader's

Sorry for some of these chapters the author is presenting a light chapter first.

In the real world the author is being pursued overtime because here the Hindus are holding their feast day for a week, Galungan and Kuningan. So the author of light love first.

For those who expect action from a former mafia has not been too author show. Because here the author wants to explore the household world of an ex-mafia (Ramadan) who loves Khansa from a long time ago, first. Later there will be time I will present a deeper action. So, stay tuned read the continuation yes.

You can break my wings

But not with my dreams and Asa

You can shackle and imprison my body

But not with my heart

Happy re-show, happy-tu

Exhausted,

I really feel that

Not tired of my body, but my heart

I don't know, I can't explain

In essence I'm tired

I'm sure people close to me are tired too

"How not to get tired, you force things that others cannot give you." Azka's heavy voice cut through the protest of a Kinara sitting in the hospital's garden.

Kinara turned to the source of the voice but again looked at the green grass.

"May I sit here?"

Kinara simply fell silent, "Are you deaf?" Ask Azka again.

"Please," Finally Kinara opened her voice.

"I'm sorry, we haven't met before. Because of this problem, even I hated you before I met you. My name is Azka," Azka stretched out her palm.

"Kinara, Kinara Larasati Wijaya. It's common, many hate me without knowing who I really am." Kinara smiled wryly.

I didn't even ask her full name. Azka Mumbles

"You should know my full name, won't you marry me tomorrow?"

Now Kinara looked closely at the owner of the face with dimple dimples on both cheeks.

Ck! I really have no shame like this female model.

"I'm here because I have to straighten things out with you." Azka started to open up the topic of serious conversation.

"Please."

"I'm willing to marry you, not because I like or love you. This is all I'm doing for the happiness of Khansa, the happiness of the woman you'll take for granted." Kinara turned her head towards Azka, two seconds later she looked down again.

"Khansa, it's part of my life. I can't be with him because he loves Ramadan more. So if you hurt Khansa, you will also face me. One more thing, our marriage only lasted for two years! I've been thinking about this maturely. Later my lawyer will make a written agreement in detail. Don't ask for more! Because those two years have already cost me dearly, excuse me!" Azka immediately got up from her seat, leaving Kinara alone.

Kinara could only stroke her flat stomach, "Hallo dede baby, who just talked here. Will be your papah tomorrow, don't be naughty huh. Your new papah is a doctor, so I hope you don't mind having a papah like him. At the very least, the new papah dede is not as evil as the one who made the dede in the belly of mama."

"North,"

Kinara looked up, looking at the figure who called out to him.

"Father," He immediately wiped the tears that had soaked his cheeks.

"Do you accept this marriage, son? It is not Ramadan that you love that will marry you. But that doctor, does Kinara still want to?"

"Kinara must be willing to accept this father, at least when this child is born he has a good father."

"I'm sorry Dad failed to protect you son." Mr. Wijaya hugged his daughter tightly. After this we go to a hotel near here, son, we have to take a break to prepare everything tomorrow.

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"Assalamualaikum," Reza and Aisyah arrive

"Wa'alaikumsalam,"

"How are you doing, brother?" Reza looks anxious to see Ramadan wrapped in casts everywhere.

"It's been better" replied Ramadhan with a floating smile towards Khansa.

Reza pushed Aisyah's wheelchair towards Father and Mother who were sitting on the sofa, enjoying some of the incendiary to cancel her fast.

Reza and Aisyah kissed Ali and Fatima on the back.

"It's aiding Ayesha's mother, Reza?" Mother asked gently, "Right mom," Reza replied with a sweet smile.

"He's paralyzed?" The question from Ali's father was very interesting.

Aisyah could already guess that question would come up. Reza, who saw his wife surprised by the question, tried to divert the direction of the conversation.

"Later Reza told me Dad," Now Reza is pushing Aisyah's wheelchair towards Khansa's bed. "Aisha was here with Khansa yes, let Reza tell Dad everything."

Khansa held tightly to her sister Aisyah's hand.

"Aisha, I want to eat. Aisyah wants to feed my sister?"

"You brother, Aisyah's a bribe." Khansa knew that her sister was hit with the question. Khansa tries to keep Aisyah busy bribing her so that Aisyah does not focus on listening to Reza's conversation with her father.

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"Love also needs Za logic, if the model of Dad's daughter-in-law is like this. How can I hold your wedding reception grand in Jakarta? Daddy's corporate relations will laugh at a joke like this. It seems my children are not good at finding the right wife. When you're done playing talk to Dad. I'll find you the perfect wife."

"Astaghfirullah Dad, I'm not playing around. I do love Aisha for who she is."

"Dad, I don't want to argue with Dad as a leader in this family. But a good leader is happy and reassuring to his children and wife, not to hurt and torture their children and wives slowly. Heaven is on the soles of the mother's feet, but the devotion of a wife is on her husband, Fatima does not want to be devoted to a husband who is negligent of his leadership. Later in the afterlife we must take responsibility for every action of ours Father." The sad eyes, the radiant face, describe how much sadness Fatima went through today.

The happiness of his son was always nullified by his own father.

"They've grown up Well, not our little ones anymore. Let them decide who will be his life companion until the end of life. Times are different well, we can no longer curb. Our job is to steer in a direction we think is good. Not forcing."

"Huh-yeah, saying that the same mother must be the father who is always wrong. Pack mom's stuff immediately. We're just sleeping in a hotel right now. I'm tired."

"No, I just want to be here with the kids and Mom's daughter-in-law."

"The husband's order, his wife must do. Is asking to sleep or rest in the hotel against religious observance?"

"Follow your father's will, let Reza and Aisyah take care of Kak Ramadhan and Khansa. Tomorrow morning I can come here again."

"Dad,"

"Yes" Ali replied as he was on the doorstep with Fatima.

"Don't fuck around, Dad, you look so tired."

"You mean what Reza, I don't understand." Elak Ali's.

"Sera's grown up well, she doesn't need a sister anymore. Dad's habit of asking for it at the hotel."

"That's what Za is?" Ramadan also does not understand Reza's intentions.

"So don't ask me yourself, Dad,"

Reza replied.

"Aish! You're Reza, you never changed. It happened decades ago. Why do you still remember it," Father Ali's face flushed with embarrassment. Position in the room there were both children and his two daughters-in-law.

When Reza was 10 years old, Ali took Fatima, Reza and Sera for a trip to Malaysia. In the evening when they were staying at a hotel, Sera was already sound asleep. Reza was agitated and could not close his eyes. In addition, Reza was honestly also scared. Because the hotel room is so spacious but there is only Reza and Sera there.

Slowly Reza got off the super-large bed, walking down the aisle. The room that Dad ordered at that time was 2 rooms and du bed but was blocked by one door in the hallway, the room lighting was so dim. But Reza still heard clearly the conversation of his parents when farming crops. "Dad, I'm afraid later that Reza or Sera will wake up here."

"No ma'am, they're asleep. We're at the hotel. Enjoy a new atmosphere and a new style of course."

Bruk! The door finally closed Reza. Intentions want to sleep with Mom and Dad because he was afraid, just another thing he found.

Since that incident, Reza has maintained a distance from her father. Not as familiar as before, because according to Reza. Dad always took his time and Sera to get close to Mom.

"Don't you ever talk about it again in front of Father Reza's son-in-law, or do you want your name Duck Daddy from KK?!"

Seriate...

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Every person who has been or who will be married, must want that later the household relationship runs harmoniously and becomes the Sakinah Family, Mawaddah, Warahmah. Not just for 5 or 10 years, but forever, a lifetime. Not infrequently, there are obstacles that also affect the Household relationship. Because the household means there are two heads (husband and wife), then the two-duanyah who must be able to understand each other and complete so built Harmonious Family. Because the purpose of marriage in Islam is to achieve the divine riddho to always be on the straight path to His heaven.

So, how does the Happy Family According to Islam to keep household harmony awake? Here are some Ways to Maintain Household Harmony according to Islam:

Good Treatment and Obedience

The obligation of the Husband to the Wife in Islam is to treat the wife well, be patient, and patiently face the wife in accordance with what is recommended in sharia. And also know how to Bless a Loved Wife. While the Wife's Duty Against Husband in Islam is obeying the husband's orders (during that order in terms of goodness)

Mutually Understand

The background and environment in which the couple grew up may be different from yourself. As a good wife/husband should be able to understand that it should not affect behavior or interaction in the household, especially to influence in decision making for an action. The obligation in the Household for the husband/wife is to understand each other such circumstances in order to achieve harmony in the household.(Read: Women's Obligations After Marriage)

Being Honest to Each Other

In married life is not spared from the name of differences of opinion and disconnect in various things. The key to a Happy Household that is harmonious is to understand each other and must be able to be open and honest about what is thought and about to be done. Honesty is an important foundation in building trust in each other.

It is difficult to understand a partner if there is no sense of trust between the two. If a husband or wife makes a mistake, do not hesitate to apologize first. Courage in admitting mistakes will certainly increase trust by the couple (Read: How to Choose a Life Companion in Islam)

Mutual Respect

Every individual feels the need to be respected and appreciated, including for married couples. The wife is obliged to obey and obey the husband, in other words she must also respect the husband as the head of the family. The husband must respect the wife. To create mutual respect for each other (.Read : Duties of Men After Marriage)

Trying to Fun Couple

Pleasing couples there are various ways, including when the wife dress up beautiful (which is supposed to be done only for the husband) and cook the favorite food of the husband, the husband, or the husband who praises the wife's cooking because basically humans are happy when they get compliments.(Read: Beautiful Women in Islam)

So, praise each other but in order to be able to please each other. Especially when praising is done in front of others such as family or friends by mentioning the goodness of husband/wife. Prioritize each other to foster love between couples.

Finding Solutions Together

Getting married means building a life together, sharing with each other, as well as when there are problems or Conflicts in the Family that hit should be discussed together to find a solution together. A husband or wife is a partner in many ways. Even if it is only a small matter, it never hurts to ask the couple for an opinion to find a solution. That way, the relationship between husband and wife will be closer (.Read: How to Eliminate Stress in Islam)

Qana’ah

The name is living in a household, meaning that you have to try to be independent in order to meet the needs together. Do not compare with the circumstances when before marriage that anything can be obtained from parents or by their own income.

When changing must be able to divide exactly where personal needs, where needs are shared. Being grateful for what God has given for the sustenance received will make married life feel more blessed.

Calling with a Call of Love

Guided to the Prophet when he called Aisha RA as Humaira, which means Red Pomegranate. There is no harm if the husband also gives a favorite grill to the wife as well as done by the Prophet SAW. A wife can do the same for her husband. Therefore, choose a call that is really good and couples also like it.

It is not right to demand perfection from husband and wife because basically no man is perfect (perfection only belongs to Allah SWT). Both husband and wife certainly do not escape from the name of making mistakes. Therefore, it is important to have a sense of tolerance in order to avoid confusion, especially violence.

If each of them does not want to budge, then all that happens is revenge and the household becomes a mess. How to Eliminate Revenge in Islam is by strengthening each other is a real form of caring. Trying to always be able to stand beside your partner when there are problems that afflict will foster a deeper sense of trust in your partner

what is meant by sacrality here is where in the household everything must be based on obedience to the Shari'a of Allah SWT. Building a household if only viewed in terms of material will certainly feel heavy. Therefore, remember that the purpose of Building a Household In Islam is to get good with the blessings of Allah SWT. That way, any problems faced in the scope of the household insya Allah can be faced.