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Happy Re is a happy-go-round
Love in the view of the Quraysh Shihab is the inclination of the heart towards something pleasant. So it is considered good even though something is viewed by others as something that is not good.
In reality, love is the work of the faint heart. This is a complicated work because of its nature and existence which is known only by the perpetrator and his loved ones.
Concerning love in domestic relations, Muhammad once complained to Allah about his love. In a story from Sayyidah ‘Aisyah;
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ يَقْسِمُ بَيْنَ نِسَائِهِ، فَيَعْدِلُ، وَيَقُولُ: اللَّهُمَّ هَذِهِ قِسْمَتِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ، فَلاَ تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلاَ أَمْلِكُ
From Aisha, ‘Truly the Prophet SAW spun his wives fairly, and said, ‘Yes Allah, This is the limit of my ability, so do not condemn me regarding what You have but I do not have’”. (CHR. Tirmidhi)
From the above hadith, we can know that even a Prophet, has a problem in the matter of love. He complained to God about the difficulty of doing justice in love with his wives. However, this does not mean that this is a justification of the dislike for the husband to give up, or even make the reason for divorce.
Because God is the owner of the heart, which turns the heart upside down. So a wife keeps trying to love her legal partner. Continue to pray to the Owner and the Heart-Turning.
Even if this has been done but still can not love the husband wholeheartedly, then should keep trying and hushnudzan with God on its terms, and bermu’arah well to his partner. Because in fact we do not know what will happen in front, then continue to be prejudiced, wheeled, and hard. Allah SWT says
……وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِنْ كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰ أَنْ تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَيَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا
Meaning:
“Relieve with them appropriately. If you do not like them, (then be patient) because maybe you do not like something, whereas Allah made him a good many” . (QS. An-Nisa’ [4]: 19)
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After his dealings with nature were over, Khansa felt bad about the mess he had made as Ramadan spoke out about all the things he wanted to know.
Khansa walked to Ramadhan, which is now resting her shoulders on the edge of the mattress.
"I am Reza's older brother" the statement prompted Khansa to stop her actions.
The test! Unpermissive tears just come out.
Khansa really doesn't know who her husband is.
"Everything else are you hiding from me, O man who is my Imam?" With a slightly vibrating voice Khansa ventured to ask and solve everything.
"I loved you so much 10 years ago, God made us meet and mate again after all this time. Would I overdo it if I asked my wife to open her heart to this despicable husband? Is it too presumptuous of me to ask for 1% of the love in your heart for your husband?
Our marriage has been almost a month, and I haven't touched you at all." Ramadan speech bowed languidly.
"I have no love for a liar" said Khansa.
"O my wife Khansa, I'm just an ordinary man who has not escaped sin. But I repented and tried to fix all the mess I had made of Khansa.
Even the Prophet Adam and Siti Eve also denied the command of Allah SWT by eating kuldi fruit that was forbidden.
As a result, they were both relegated to earth in separate conditions. And I don't want that to happen to me, Khansa, I don't want us to be apart. I will try to make you love me as well as a wife who loves her husband Khansa so much. Till whenever I'm gonna wait it feels like 10 years ago it's back to me again."
"Don't expect beyond reality too much, I'll only serve my standard obligations as your wife. There will be no love in it! Before things get any longer, please divorce me. I want to live in my solitude Ramadan!" With fiery speech Khansa stared intently at the look in the eyes of Ramadan.
"Until I die, I will never divorce you my Khansa. My heart has passed you 10 years ago 100 years to come and until my death comes. I've gone through my heart that far with you. Early in the month of entering Ramadan later Abi and Umi will come to Indonesia Khansa. Please, we both learn to look good in front of my parents."
"All will be well if we part before your parents come yes Ramadan,"
Khansa was about to go to the doorknob of her room, she wanted to end this debate because of her hunger. Worms have been doing mass demonstrations to voice their opinion that they are all hungry.
"Then will you let Aisha face my Abi and Umi alone?
Abi is not a person who easily accepts the presence of his daughter-in-law in his heart, You do not see the psychic condition of Aisyah? Not completely he forgot the sadness of the accident that happened to him, then you will let him face his two in-laws alone?
And have you also forgotten Abah's will about our marriage? Are you going to disappoint Abah again, even after she's gone?" These words are more appropriate a threat to Khansa.
Khansa lowered her gaze as if there were no more answers she had in her mouth.
"Honor and forgive me, Khansa, we tried to water our household noses from the beginning. I'll negotiate leaving my duty and take the steering to start my own business not far from Abah's hut Khansa." Ramadhan is still trying to seduce.
Every time Abah's name is spoken, Khansa's heart trembles.
"Marriage is perfecting half of our religion Khansa, it is the longest worship in all our lives. Marriage is not a game that can be contracted in a tenor of several years, or can say the word divorce as easily as turning the palm of the hand at any time.
This is not a game that if we get bored we can immediately end Khansa. We are both religious scholars, but we can both learn from each other in achieving the love of God.
I will wait until you love me, so allow your heart to accept all my shortcomings and love even without a promise to repay."
The light but piercing words of Khansa's heart were thrown from the mouth of Ramadan.
All that Ramadan said managed to silence Khansa's mouth and heart just like that.
Kruuuuuk the sound of worms from Khansa's stomach seemed to give a clear alarm that he could not hold the hunger anymore.
Smile at the knot from Ramdhan's lips. "Oh Allah, Robbi, my wife is holding her hunger back from earlier."
Khansa hid his shy face from Ramadan, he has twice done foolishness before Ramadan today. Even to look at her husband's face, she couldn't.
"Immediately put on your headscarf, let's eat out. I know a restaurant place that you will definitely like dear, may I call you dear? Adiba Khansa Az-zahra?"
Khansa's lips pursed, "As for big brother, I'm hungry." Khansa immediately grabbed her Hijab and then used it neatly, as if it added to the beauty damage of a Khansa in the eyes of Ramadan.
"This time I'm the drive, brother Ramadhan is still not healed." Khansa snatched the keys to the car hanging behind the door of her room.
Just as Khansa and Ramadhan step out of his room, Bude is seen standing in the living room doorway.
"Assalamualaikum Bude" Ramadan tried to remain friendly to the rest of his wife's family.
"Wa'alaikumsalam, Khansa-you want to go? Bude come with dong, then go down Bude at the intersection of the end of the block there." Bude asked as if he knew that his nephew was going to leave.
"Yes, Khansa wants to go to Bude. Where is Bude going? Usually Bude ride his own bike?" Khansa.
"Ah-today is hot Khansa, Bude wants Faisal first. You're gonna take the car so Bude ain't gonna get the sun hot,"
"Faisal? Who is Bude? O Allah Bude, the sun is the Mercy of the Untied God lo Bude,"
"Khavansa's time doesn't know Faisal in the salon. Our faces are cleaned blackheads, and acne is also cleaned lo Khansa, you if you have a holiday Bude also invite for treatment to be more beautiful."
Khansa and Ramadhan held back his laughter,
"I mean Bude Facial face time, not Faisal Bude kasian the Faisal Bude said that his ears will be buzzing, hahahahaha. Astaghfirullah Bude makes Khansa have a stomachache."
"Hehehehe, yes it is the same anyway. Come on, Khansa hunt. Ba'da Ashar later Bude there is a study so must look beautiful."
Khansa could only shake her head at Budenya's absurd behavior.
Ramadhan did not really allow Khansa to drive, Ramadan still forced himself to take over the wheel of the car.
After driving Bude to the intended salon, Ramadhan stretched the car to a rice field-side duck restaurant.
Unexpectedly, Fitria and Boby were also there just sitting there waiting for the food they had ordered to arrive.
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