
At night, when Evan and baby Elkan were both asleep, Sara used a little time at night to chat with her husband. Telling his activities at home, telling the growth and development of his sons, this is a new habit for Sara. Because, when Evan was a baby, Sara never did this. Now, Sara has time at night for a story with her husband. In order for the atmosphere to seem different, the two sat together on the balcony of his room. Enjoy the breeze of the night, and see the flickering stars that are not much in the night sky.
"Where's Mama Darling all day? Kiddos secure?" belva asked his wife. It was as if it was a routine agenda that Belva asked his wife. Regular questions asked by Belva from Monday to Friday.
Because, by hearing stories from his wife, at least Belva knows what happens throughout the day. Belva knew all day, he was in the company, which is why he asked about the daily activities of his sons. At the same time he can listen to the complaints of his wife who is still in the adaptation period to take care of his two sons.
"Do you want a little story?" sara asked her husband.
"Of course ...you want any story, I will definitely listen to your story," Belva replied accompanied by a nod from her head.
"So that Evan tantrum, that cry in the morning. Jealous of the Brother and his sister" she told her husband.
Belva looked at Sara's face, wanting to hear more about why her son Evan could be jealous of the baby Elkan.
"Can't you, honey, why was it all day?" ask again.
"First this morning Brother Evan woke up crying. Initially do not want to take a shower in the morning, want to watch children's channels. I waited, I talked a few times. Finally I chose to go back to the room right, apparently Evan followed me, and with the state of bathing Evan still did not bathe. Well, then she said she wanted a good mom" she told her husband.
It was clear that there were heavy breaths from Sara and also her eyes were already glazed over.
"Said Mama just playing with sister ... Evan wants to read a book, play lego, play robot with Mama. Her sister just broke down and asked for her Mama's breast milk to continue," continued Sara.
Noticing Sara's slightly trembling voice, and teary eyes, Belva carried her hand, clinging to her fingers between her fingers.
"Then, how's my dear?" ask Belva again.
Sara sighed for a moment, then she started talking, "Yes, I explained well to Evan that his sister was still a baby. Later if Elkan gets older, can be his friend Evan at home, can be taught to play," Sara's story, he seemed to repeat his words to Evan this morning.
Belva nodded her head, believing Sara had given the right answer and explanation to her son.
"You look sad, honey?" ask Belva this time.
"Yes .. When Evan said to ask for a good Mama, my heart hurt .. as if I were a bad Mama. But how else, my time will be divided as well. If Elkan is spoiled, I will play with Evan, just play in the room now. So, if Elkan wakes up and asks ASI will stay in love," the story goes.
Belva looked at Sara, now the man was carrying his hand to embrace Sara's shoulder. She slowly leaned Sara's head against her chest. "Here, I hugged ... Just tell me, it's okay," Belva replied.
"You're a good Mama, honey. Evan may not have been able to choose the right sentence. So, don't put the heart well. Or do you want to wear a babysitter?" bargain Belva to his wife.
He thought that by using a babysitter, Sara could manage the time well. The affairs of his children were arranged. In addition, Sara was also not exhausted.
"No need .. I'm happy to take care of them both. I love Evan and Elkan. The only attention I give is also according to the portion. The sister is his attention is overwritten, given ASI, and so on. While the Brother wants to be accompanied by play. Evan becomes possessive" explained Sara this time.
"You sure? No problem with babysitters, I can pay them, "reply back Belva.
However, at the same time Sara actually shook her head, "No need. Primary and first education for children from their mothers. So, I want to educate them, nurture them, love them. It's okay, Mas," Sara replied confidently.
Belva nodded her head, for her this decision of Sara was a great one. In her eyes Sara was a great mother and could put her children first regardless of herself.
"You are a great Mama, my dear ... I feel sorry for you, you don't care about yourself. Sometimes, give yourself time, baby," said Belva.
Belva asked his wife to make time for herself. Housewives also need time to relax themselves.
"Thank You Darling .. You're great. I know taking care of that kid isn't easy, let alone taking care of two kids. Now it might be better because Elkan is still a baby and not active. However, later if Elkan starts to be active, surely you will be exhausted" said Belva again.
"It's okay Mas .. I will babysit them every day. They let him grow up in the supervision and care of his mother directly," Sara replied.
Belva then gently rubbed his wife's arm with a movement of hands up and down, then he landed his kiss on the top of his wife's head, "Love, has always prioritized Evan and Elkan. You are so great, darling. Patience, Evan also needs an adaptation. There was no time when his sister, all her affection and full attention for him, now had to share with Elkan. Later Evan can understand kok," replied Belva.
In this problem, actually, it takes time to adapt not only parents, children, especially those who are firstborn also need time to adapt. To share time, share affection, and attention from his parents with his sister. Evan also needs time to adapt.
“Makasih ya Mas, already want to listen to my story,” reply Sara who brought her hands around her husband's waist.
“Sama-sama Darling .. This is our bedtime stories. The night before bed. I'm glad to hear your story too. Although sometimes I can't give advice or anything, I hope that with me listening to your story can make you a little relieved. Want to tell again? Mamas ready to hear the story Mama Sara,” reply Belva.
A smile also appeared on Sara's face, “Nggak .. already, it's been relieved. Gini alone is very sad. Thanks Mamas Darling already want to be horrified grievances this Housewife,” reply Sara.
Both of them laughed, raising their faces to the vast sky. Staring at the dark sky and also hugging each other together. The light breeze of the night felt so fresh, and there was also a story shared together.