PREMARITAL

Compliments to Wife

The atmosphere this morning feels very different, now Shara is undergoing her new activities as a wife. All the needs of the husband willingly prepared, not least the clothes that will be worn by her husband.

"Good morning, baby." Sakha greeted as she hugged her wife from behind.

Shara, who had been tidying Sakha's clothes in the closet, turned to face her husband.

"Good morning, too, my dear." Shara returned her husband's greeting.

"We have breakfast now" Shara asked.

"Come on." Sakha nodded and now they walked towards the dining room.

"Good morning, Umi, Abi," said Sakha to Shara.

"Morning, Ra, Sakha. Let's have breakfast together, "take Umi Merry to the son and daughter-in-law.

Sakha and Shara nodded obediently, now they all enjoyed breakfast quietly.

***

For the next few days, Sakha decided to take a day off from work. He wants to enjoy being with his wife, and also more familiar with his in-laws.

Every day the family always took the time to just chat, Sakha also felt no trouble to get close to her two in-laws.

One week he has enjoyed the warmth of togetherness with his new family, now Sakha is back on his activities. He returned to work, reworking his delayed work.

Sakha enjoys her new role so much at the moment, she works with her spirit. Both in-laws and his wife did not mind the work of Sakha who really likes the field of photography, his studio is also much in demand, they like the results of his shots.

"Kha, how's Shara going to help Airin?" ask Bima.

"Oh, about that I haven't had time to talk about it with Shara yet" Sakha replied as she placed the camera on her desk.

Bima fell silent, "are you going to undo your intentions?" tanyakanya.

"You mean?" sakha asked he felt confused by Bima's question.

"I mean, aren't you going to allow your wife to help Airin migrate?" clarify Bima.

For a moment Sakha sighed, that was not what she thought. However, he was only a little anxious about the situation between his wife and his ex-girlfriend.

"It's not like that, Bim. From here, I'll talk to my wife again." Sakha reassures her best friend.

"All right, thank you." Bima smiled.

"Together" answered Sakha.

***

In the afternoon Sakha had just returned to work, her steps hunting the wife.

"Assalamallaikum, deck?" sapa Sakha while circulating her gaze looking for the wife.

"Wa'allaikumussalam, Mas. I'm in the kitchen" Shara said, slightly raising her tone.

Sakha walked quickly to the kitchen, when she saw the figure she was looking for she immediately rushed to embrace the wife.

Shara grabbed her husband's hand, kissed by the hand that every day worked to earn a living for her. Sakha replied by kissing the wife's forehead, a warm atmosphere was instantly created between the two.

O wife, can you welcome your husband after he works to please him? Is it during the day, evening, and even night?

Really, a wife who is able to spread the fragrance of her affection, her attention and her love for her husband is a priceless gold warehouse.

"It's not finished cooking yet?" sakha asked when she saw his wife's activities in the kitchen.

"Already, really. Just wash the cooking marks," replied Shara.

"Let Mas do the dishes" Sakha rolled up her sleeves to wash the dirty kitchen utensils.

Sakha smiled, no she nodded her head. He left his wife and hurried to clean his body.

Shara resumes her kitchen work, and prepares food for her husband.

Finished with her work, Shara rushes to her room preparing a change of clothes for Sakha.

Sakha came out of the bathroom, finding the wife preparing her clothes. She was so grateful for the favor God had given her, that Shara was indeed the woman she had so desired.

"Mas, here's her clothes. I'm waiting downstairs, Dad." Shara.

"Yes," Sakha replied with a smile.

Shara returned her husband's smile, then she left the room and headed for the dining table.

***

Sakha is now enjoying the food prepared by his wife, he eats so voraciously.

"How Mas? Like the cooking?" ask Shara.

"Maa, God, that's delicious. Thank you" said Sakha sincerely.

"really? You're not lying?" ask Shara again.

"For what reason did Mas lie" said Sakha as she put the last mouthful into her mouth.

"Thank God if Mas likes," said Shara, he felt relieved.

The moment that always makes Sakha will never stop being grateful, as much as possible he will always try to please his wife.

One that is forgotten in a husband and wife relationship is to praise each other. Wife forgets to praise husband and husband forgets to praise his wife. Because compliments like this can evoke relationships that may be getting dimmer.

“And hang out with them (your wives) well.” (QS. An Nisa’: 19).

Compliments to the wife are a good sign of a husband to her. Moreover, seeing the struggle of the wife at home by educating children and taking care of various household affairs such as washing, cooking and paying attention to the needs of the husband.

Ibn Katsir rahimahullah said of the letter An Nisa’ verse 19 above, “Bless you are good to your wives, good practice and conduct to your wives. Do good as you like if your wife behaves like that.”

(Tafsir Al Qur’an Al ‘Azhim, 3:400)

***

At night finished praying, Sakha was laying her head on the lap of the wife.

"Dek, do you remember Bima's request of Airin?" sakha asked carefully.

Shara, who had been stroking her husband's hair, stopped her activities.

"Emm, is that so?" ask Shara.

Sakha nodded, she looked at his wife's face.

"How's it?" ask Sakha.

"May, but I'm not good at it either. But if only to invite in kindness, in the Lord I will help as much as I can" Shara replied.

"You're sincere, deck?" ask Sakha to make sure.

Shara nodded, "in the Lord."

"Yes, later Mas talk to Bima," said Sakha.

Shara smiled, in her heart she still felt worried.

"O Allah, if You do not accept Airin's good will to emigrate. Set his intention only to improve himself, and protect the family from the bad." Shara in her heart.