Love Seasoning, 100% Halal
Enchanted, I'm fascinated
The El family is very well done. Dressed in matching color is Blue dongker.
"Maa Shaa Allah, the Son of Papa is very beautiful" El praised, to Alexa.
"Thank you, papa still looks young" Alexa hugged El, swaying spoiled. Yes so Alexa, he is still spoiled even though it is quite old.
"Mommy isn't this pretty?" Afifah looks envious, see her husband who just praised, her daughter.
"Mommy beautiful dong, the most beautiful woman in this house" Now Exel who hugs Afifah.
Afifah laughed "You are also the most handsome man in this house" said the afifah
"Then let's go" said El
"Yuk pa, we join" Ask Alexa
"Okay princess"
Exel and Afifah also did not want to lose, Exel immediately guided Afifah's hand to circle in his arm. They're walking towards the car.
Upon arriving at Andi's house, they all got off the car, and were immediately greeted by Andi's family.
El and afifah join hands, behind them Alexa and Exel.
Everyone who was there immediately saw a large tall figure that went hand in hand with Alexa.
"Who is he?"
"Is he Doctor El's son-in-law?"
"It's very handsome"
"His face is very similar to Afifah, is he his son who studied abroad?"
"It's impossible"
"Not the same as the afifah"
The mothers immediately gossiped, as all men of his likeness had forgotten, that El had a Son.
The event was started, Exel who really felt bored with events like this, could only be silent. Fortunately, his HP could be used now. He prefers to chat with his beloved lover, Michella..
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Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi…
...إنَّ الـحَمْدَ لِلّهِ نَـحْمَدُهُ وَنَسْتَعِيْنُهُ وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ، وَنَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا وَمِنْ سَيِّئَاتِ أَعْمَالِنَا، مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اللهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ، وَمَنْ يُضْلِلْ فَلَا هَادِيَ لَهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَن لاَّ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ الله وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيْكَ لَهُ وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُـحَمَّداً عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُه...
There are several suggestions that are important to note by every husband and wife, both newly married and long married :
1. It is obligatory to establish the household above the religion of Allah
This means that initially he is obliged to fear Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala, obligated him to fear Allah, so build a household above the religion of Allah, on the Quran, on the Sunnah, and on the Sunnah, upholding Tawhid, upholding Sunnah, keeping the family from shirk, keeping the family from doing bid’ah, it was from the beginning of marriage. From the beginning of marriage, so antum early marriage, reminded a wife to fear God, husband also to fear, then remind wife “your greatest obligation is to obey the husband, husband, first time out of marriage contract, your greatest obligation is obedient to the husband, your husband your heaven and your hell !” , remind him (wife), it is reminded.
Then she was ordered to obey her husband, obey Allah, stay away from Allah, shirk, then perform the five prayers. Notice that his prayer, then invited him to pray sunnah especially midnight.
Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam prayed :
...رَحِمَ اللَّهُ رَجُلًا قَامَ مِنْ اللَّيْلِ فَصَلَّى وَأَيْقَظَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَصَلَّتْ فَإِنْ أَبَتْ رَشَّ فِي وَجْهِهَا الْمَاءَ رَحِمَ اللَّهُ امْرَأَةً قَامَتْ مِنْ اللَّيْلِ فَصَلَّتْ وَأَيْقَظَتْ زَوْجَهَا فَصَلَّى فَإِنْ أَبَى رَشَّتْ فِي وَجْهِهِ الْمَاءَ...
“May Allah grant the mercy of a man who wakes up at night and prays, then wakes his wife and then prays. If his wife refuses, she splashes water on his face. And may Allah grant the grace of a woman who wakes up at night and prays, and wakes her husband up and prays. If her husband refuses she splashes water on his face.” [HR.Ibn Majah :1336]
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God loves a man who wakes up in the middle of the night and then prays, then he wakes his wife, God loves a woman who wakes up in the middle of the night and wakes her husband up. The hadith is in this book (Sakinah Family Guide – Chapter:12.d), which is asked for what ? to wake the husband, wake the wife.
2. Building on the right character
It means we are obliged to uphold noble character in our household. This is important, because many wives or husbands do not uphold this morality. This morality is important, because mu’min perfect his faith is the best moral.
Nabi Shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam said :
...أَكْمَل الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهمْ خُلُقًا، وَخِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ...
“The most perfect believer of his faith is the best of his deeds and the kindest of you is the kindest to his wives”
[SV. At-Tirmidhi, 3/466; Ahmad, 2/250 and Ibn Hibban, 9/483. Hadith was declared shahih by Imam at-Tirmidhi, Ibn Hibban and Shaykh al-Albani].
Antum see on pages 180-181, so it is mandatory that we uphold this household above noble character, or are obliged to uphold noble character in our household.
So how's it ?
Like a husband coming home from work, commerce, business, to his house a smile to his wife, enter the house of greeting, a smile to his wife, asking the good to his wife, the wife welcoming the good to her husband, the wife welcoming the good to her husband, please help and others.
Because there are also people who do not have morals, go home with his friends, with his co-workers he can smile, laugh, be friendly, go home to his wife in disobedience, do accuse, scolded, scolded, is there nothing like that ? There's !.
Can't do it ! How he should be gentle to his wife, he (husband) good to his wife because the Prophet links faith with morality
...أَكْمَل الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهمْ خُلُقًا، وَخِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ...
“The most perfect believer of his faith is the best of his deeds and the kindest of you is the kindest to his wives”
[SV. At-Tirmidhi, 3/466; Ahmad, 2/250 and Ibn Hibban, 9/483. Hadith was declared shahih by Imam at-Tirmidhi, Ibn Hibban and Shaykh al-Albani].
Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam said :
...خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِهِ وَأَنَا خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِي...
“You guys are the best for his family and I am the kindest person to my family”
[HR At-Thirmidzi no 3895 from the hadiths of Aisha and Ibn Majah no 1977 from the hadith of Ibn Abbas and is narrated by Shaykh Al-Albani (see As-Shihah no 285)].
So if antum to friends, to others it is good, can smile, can offer all kinds, to the wife as well as it should, to the child as well, so it is mandatory to uphold morality. This morality is important, and we must try to improve our morals, because this morality has a heavy scale on doomsday.
The scholars first learn morality (civilized) before studying science, try to learn this, morals are important, how our household is good with our noble character, wife is also so.
3. Mutually understand
That each of us has flaws, giving in to each other, forgiving each other. Watch that !
God tells us to associate with the wife in a way that ma’ruf :
...وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِنْ كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسٰىٓ أَنْ تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَيَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا...
“... And get along with them in a proper way. If you do not like them, (then be patient) because you may not like something, but Allah made a lot of good to him”[An-Ni-saa’/4: 19].
A husband cannot vilify his wife, he cannot ! If there is one bad habit or trait, there must be another good one.
Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam said:
...لَا يَفْرَكْ مُؤْمِنٌ مُؤْمِنَةً إِنْ كَرِهَ مِنْهَا خُلُقًا رَضِيَ مِنْهَا آخَرَ...
“Don't a believer hate a believing woman (his wife), if he hates an attitude (sacred) his wife then he will be pleased with his attitude (his master) another”[HR Muslim II/1091 No 1469]
No husband can vilify his wife, if there is one bad character, Allah makes the other good, it is a Muslim history.
4. Help each other in the household
Help each other in the household, help each other, in the household it can not be lust, shoulder to shoulder, take care of children together, in obedience also so remind each other, please help.
For example, her children are many, her husband wants to pay, yes alternately later her husband najai, later his wife najai her husband who holds her children. Please help in kindness, help each other or her husband wants to pray, the wife who holds his child, the wife wants to pray the husband who holds his child.
And this should be able to understand each other, though,
...وَتَعَاوَنُوا عَلَى الْبِرِّ وَالتَّقْوَىٰ...
“And please-help you in (working) virtue and piety .” [al-Ma’idah 5 :2]
5. Race in goodness
Husband and wife must continue to compete in goodness, giving much, doing much good, diligently in worship to God.
6. Much remembrance
Read the Qur’an and useful books, husband, wife, child are recommended for much remembrance. Morning and evening dhikr should memorize it. Read the Quran, a husband should read the Quran, wife too, children too, at least a day 1 juz read the Quran is minimal.
Anyway in that house should be a lot of remembrance to Allah, especially in our homes do not leave reading Surah Al-Baqarah, because the devil ran from the house recited Surah Al-Baqarah.
7. Many prayers to God
Do not leave praying for our good, our wives, our children, our parents, keep praying day and night praying.
Among his prayers :
...رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا...
“Our Robb, bless us and our descendants and our wives our eye conditioners. Make us priests to those who fear Him.” [QC. Al Furqon: 74]
...رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِى مُقِيمَ الصَّلٰوةِ وَمِنْ ذُرِّيَّتِى ۚ رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَآءِ...
“Yes my Lord, make me and my grandchildren the ones who keep praying, O our Lord, please allow my prayers.” [QC. Ibrahim 14: Verse 40]
Yes, that is all I can say because it has entered the time of Dzuhur, hopefully what I say is useful for me and antum all of you and more or less I apologize.
“Hopefully our household for the unmarried, facilitated his soul mate by a God of prayer and shalihah.”
“Wedded ones may be given Sakinah Mawaddah Warahmah by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala, given blessing in his household and also given the children who are shalih and shalihah.”
“And also that for those households who are still getting trials, trials, problems, difficulties, there is commotion, may Allah reconcile between them, settle between them, make up among them, Allah gave them ruju’ to goodness. And we ask God that God give us Sakinah Mawaddah Warahmah”
“And also repaired the houses of the houses that there is lack or commotion or dispute, may Allah give them it united their hearts, returned it to the Quran and Sunnah, he said, granted mercy and blessings by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala”
...وصل نبينا محمد صل الله عليه وسلم...
...رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا...
“Our Robb, bless us and our descendants and our wives our eye conditioners. Make us priests to those who fear Him.” [QC. Al Furqon: 74]
...رَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ...
“Yes Allah, give Us good in the world, give good in the Hereafter and protect Us from the torment of hell.” [QS. al-Baqarah :201]
...سُبْحَانَكَ اللَّهُمَّ وبِحَمْدِكَ ، أشْهَدُ أنْ لا إلهَ إِلاَّ أنتَ أسْتَغْفِرُكَ وَأَتُوبُ إليكَ...
“Holy You, O Allah, and by praising You, I testify that there is no god but You. I ask for Your forgiveness and I repent to You”
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After the lecture was over, the event was closed with prayer. Now the guests are taking turns to take the food that has been prepared.
"His word is just a proposal?" el asked his Assistant.
"That plan sir, only from the men want her to marry directly"
"Your son is like he just graduated High School?"
"Hehehe. Yes Sir"
"Why not go to college?"
"Let his little brother just go to college sir. My son-in-law is TNI, heheh"
"Basic..."
"Hai Om Andi" Sapa Exel who had just approached El and Andi who was sitting near the pelaminan.
"Exels? Is this Exel sir?" Andi made sure to go straight to El
"Yes, this is my hero"
"Wow. is now big. Last time before going to America, was still small and often fat. Now, can dong change, om who's in a cradle"
"Hehehe. om Andi could have" Exel chuckled.
"Gini's big boy, how many girlfriends? This good time has no boyfriend"
Exel glanced at El, who was like her El was also waiting for that answer.
"No one, just look for a local girl"
"Why don't you, there's nothing pretty in there?"
"A lot of om, just complicated if the marriage is different countries"
El smiles "Udah, speaking of marriage? want to get married too?"
"No, pa, Alexa first"
"Don't look here El, just look for one in town. Here's just your pretty little sister"
El and Exel immediately chuckled by saying Andi.
"Come, eat Exel. There's rendang lo"
"Yes om, there are still many people.berta again Exel take it alone"
"Oh, I'm staying first"
Andi and El walked together. They both approached Afifah who was talking to Andi's family. Yes, even in the past, the Andi family did not like afifah. However, since Afifah and El helped Andi get married, they all immediately threw away the hatred towards Afifa. They are convinced that El and Afifa really love each other. Not like what was rumored in the past.
"Hi, Alexa's teacher"
Alexa turned her head, she saw the figure of the dentist who had visited the school this morning where she taught.
"Sorry, who is it?" Alexa pretends she doesn't know him.
"Reihan ma'am guru" said the man, who seemed annoying in Alexa's ears.
"Reihan who yes, sorry not know" Alexa immediately left the man.
Alexa is very upset with Raihan. His first impression this morning, really pissed Alexa off.
"White teeth like this, he could have said I never brush my teeth. You crazy dentist" Alexa now glazes in Andi's bathroom. He saw his teeth from the mirror. He wanted to make sure his teeth were white. He didn't want to be like this morning, the doctor commented on his teeth.
On the other hand, Exel was enjoying rendang.he enjoyed once every chew.
"Truly very different at all in New York" Gunam Exel when feeling how delicious rendang seasoning.
After spending it, Exel immediately took the fruit soup. But unfortunately, when he turned around, Exel instead hit someone.
"Uppp... Sorry" Exel immediately wanted to clean the clothes of the person.
"Don't hold it" stop the girl.
"Okey" said Exel
"I'm sorry I didn't see"
"No problem, I was in a hurry too"
Exel was still watching. The girl smiled as she nodded her head at Exel, then walked away leaving Exel there.
Due to his smile, Exel instantly fell silent, his heart racing. Exel's perverted brain immediately works, thinking about things that are not-no.
"Goddessa. This must be because of Michella's nude photo" Exel said..
Exel walks in search of his family, he sees Alexa sitting down and next to her there is El and a man. Exel was not interested and refused to approach them. Then when he saw Afifah, Exel was more uninterested, because the afifah had a conversation with mothers.
Exel walked out, approached his car and sat in the car.
📱 Kangen baby
📱Sabar ya baby, I just stayed two days
📱but I'm already missing
📱Emang the latter is less satisfied yes
📱Satisfied, but I would love to
Exel was busy making vidio calls with Michella in the car. However, Exel's attention is suddenly distracted, when he sees a girl standing in front of his car.
The girl waved her hand, certainly not to Exel. Before long there were some girls approaching her.
"It's a long time ago baby, I'll call again" Exel immediately turned off his phone connection unilaterally. He went straight down, and wanted to make sure straight away.
After descending, Exel sat on the hood of his car, still watching the girl.
Before long, the girl laughed.she covered her mouth with her hands. So that the clothes on his hands are slightly exposed. Exel's eyes instantly noticed the circular object on his wrist.
El ventured to approach the girl, after her friends left. Exel ran a little, when the girl had turned on her motorbike.
"Rabbit" Call Exel.
The girl who was about to gas, stopped immediately, then looked back. Seeing a foreign figure that he did not recognize, he intended to leave immediately.
"Wait, you're a rabbit, right?" ask Exel who is already standing in front of the girl's motorcycle.
The girl just shut up.
"I'm Exel, who gave you the bracelet" Exel pointed at the wrist, but the girl immediately pulled her hand and hid her behind her body.
"Don't hold it"
"I'm sorry, don't you remember me?" ask Exel "I'm Exel, who loves you a bracelet" Exel again reminded.
The girl looked at her wrist, she felt unsure, that the figure in front of her was the man who gave her the bracelet.
"i taught you English near the mosque. You also taught me Arabic at that time. Remember not?" Exel continued to nyerocos, because looking at the expression of the girl in front of him that was like his mistrust of her.
"Remember me" the girl replied softly. Hearing that, Exel immediately breathed a sigh of relief.
"How are you?"
"Good news, yes. I want to go, if anyone sees anything bad" The girl bowed, as if embarrassed.
"Eehhhh. wait" Exel stopped Sabrina's bike.
"Request your number" Exel thrust his expensive cellphone.
Sabrina turned her head, watching her surroundings.I don't know why she was so afraid, like a person who had stolen and was afraid of being caught.
"Yes already if you don't want to" Exel who was about to put his HP back in his pocket, suddenly immediately picked up by Sabrina. He immediately typed his number there, after it was done he immediately gave it to Exel quickly.
Exel smiled, he immediately saved her by the name of Contact Rabbit.
"Oh yeah, I'll go first. Assalamualaikum" Sabrina went straight from there. whereas Exel bum finished saving his number.
"Why so shy it, he used to be not like that. his face did not change, still cute" Exel smiled, recalling the face of the girl "It's so beautiful, anyway, didn't expect me to meet him here" Exel lowered his head with a smile.
Enchanted, I was fascinated.
Look at your sweet face.
Exel was shocked, when his phone accidentally opened a contemporary application that immediately issued an enchanted song.
Exel immediately saw the screen of his phone, he pressed the Back button, to exit the application. Then open the gallery. He was looking for a photo located at the very bottom of his own. Exel looked at her picture a few years ago with the girl, her lips smiling. Exel immediately sent the photo to Sabrina.
Hello my rabbit.
Write Exel in the message. Hoping to get a reply, but in fact Exel got a tick one. The number is inactive.
"Exel" hearing his name on the call, Exel immediately turned his head.
"Mommy?"
"Gapain over there, son, let's go home"
"Ehh. yes mom" Exel walked over to her mommy. He got into the car and sat in the steering wheel.
"where's Alexa?" Ask Exel
"He stopped by bella's house"
"Ohh, so we go home first?"
"Yes, papa wants to talk about the company's problems. let Alexa later go home between bella" replied El who sat next to Exel.
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