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A few days had passed, and Olivia had not heard her husband offend her new friend, who turned out to be Nathan.

It makes him able to breathe a little relieved, although it is undeniable Olivia was still guessing what Nathan's plan was actually approaching Alzam at that time.

Today, Olivia has a weekly study schedule at the An-nisa press conference, so she carries the rectangular hijab that Alzam bought the other day and keeps it in a bag.

When he returned home from college, Alzam took his wife to school. When she was about to enter the courtyard, Olivia first pulled out a rectangular veil that was bent into a triangular shape.

After that, he wore it on his head and both ends of his front only he brushed it to the shoulder. Even her front hair can still be seen, what else is the back that is longer than the hijab.

It could be seen by everyone passing by, including the pilgrims who had just arrived, because Olivia was wearing it right in front of the gate. However, the girl did not seem to care about the cynical views of others.

Seeing the wife who wore a hijab even though it was not perfect, made the heart of Alzam rustle. There was a strange feeling in his heart, and made him want to do something to his wife. He even threw away his gaze and tried to avoid staring at Olivia.

“I go in first, Mas,” say goodbye Olivia.

The girl as usual would kiss the back of her husband's hand before they parted.

“Ehm... You saw the real well,” sahut Alzam kaku.

“Assalamu’alaikum,” greetings Olivia.

“Waalaikumsalam,” says Alzam.

The girl then walked into the courtyard. When his wife was away, Alzam turned his head and saw Olivia walking behind him. A faint smile emerged from his lip line, with a blushing face.

“Ehem!” a deheman voice sounded and made Alzam turn to look for the source of the voice earlier.

As he looked to the other side of the fence, he saw Nurul who had just parked his bike on the canopy terrace, which was provided as a congregation parking lot.

“Ciehhh... Who really see his wife,” Goda Nurul.

“Apaan anyway, Nur. Ordinary time,” argue Alzam.

The young man's face still seemed to be blushing about the charm of the wife, plus blushed embarrassed by being caught looking at his own wife from afar.

“Oliv beautiful yes if you use hijab,” said Nurul.

“Iya, beautiful,” sahut Alzam instantaneously.

PPPFFTT!

Nurul also restrained his laughter, hearing the speech of his best friend.

This made Alzam even more misbehaved, and decided to leave immediately.

“I went to mom's house first, Nur. Assalamu’alaikum,” greetings Alzam.

“Waalaikumsalam. Hehe.. Alzamese... Alzamese. Kayak ABG fell in love aja,” kekeh Nurul saw his friend leave after successfully he seduced.

He then walked into the school.

Inside, Nurul sees Olivia sitting next to him and no one is sitting next to her.

He came in and took a seat in the empty chair right next to Olivia.

“Assalamu’alaikum, Liv” greet Nurul.

“No papa, Liv. As long as you don't bother me rival again, it's very good kok,” replied Nurul.

Olivia is upset to hear Nurul's answer, which she thinks is calm. A few moments later, the chair gets full as the closer the study begins. The worshipers were almost entirely present considering the time was getting late.

This time, as Umi Fifit said last week, that Umi Afiyah will fill the tausiah on the occasion of this afternoon. Soon after, a new figure appeared, a woman who can be said to be no longer young, but still remain energetic and have the appearance of a contemporary Muslim, with a patterned robe and also a brightly colored hijab.

“Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,” slam Umi Afiyah.

The entire congregation answered the greetings from the female cleric. He then conveys muqodima, or opening words before entering the main material.

This time, the ustadzah conveyed marriage advice, because there happened to be a worshiper who will soon have a wedding in the near future.

“In married life, there needs to be a sense of belonging, love and respect, then can reach a family that is sadinah, mawaddah, warohmah. As a Muslim woman, we are obliged to follow what our husbands say."

“Because of the importance of the role of the husband in the household heresy, it is important for us to choose a good life partner. In Islamic law, everything is regulated both in the Quran and the hadiths of the Prophet.

“As proclaimed by our Prophet Muhammad SAW, that women are married for four things. The first is because of her wealth, her two descendants, her three beauties, and the fourth is her religion. Then choose a woman who is religious, you will be lucky.

“Although in this hadith mentioned about women, but this also needs to be a consideration for women in choosing a husband. In this Hadith it is very clear that the Messenger of Allah recommends that we choose a partner based on his faith, as well as his fear of Allah."

“Because whoever obeys his rules, he will be careful in living life. He will cherish his wife, love her, and protect her. He will never take care of his wife and do wrong."

“Therefore, it is fortunate that all of us who have a spouse of faith, because he can be with us to reach God's paradise."

“That's the first, which is choosing a life partner. The second is to be open with each other. In undergoing a domestic relationship, there needs to be communication between husband and wife, which can minimize misunderstandings."

“According to the words of people in the community, no household is one hundred percent smooth. That is true. However, if we open up to each other and try to solve the problem together with a cool head and a calm heart, then any obstacle can be overcome."

“The third one is patient. We all know that no one is perfect. Therefore, we in addition to accepting the advantages, must also be willing to accept the shortcomings. Early in the marriage period, there must be a time when we will be surprised by the other side of the couple that we have never seen before. In this case, our patience is necessary."

“The fourth, husband and wife relationship. As stated in the letter of Al Baqarah verse 223 which means 'your wives are a field for you. So come to your fields at any time in a way that you like, and give priority to the good for yourself. Fear Allah and know that you will (later) meet him, and give glad tidings to the believers'"

“In this verse it is said that the husband is allowed to have sex with his wife in any way, but it is necessary to underline that it must also be in accordance with religious guidelines. Men are forbidden to beat his wife in the back, or when his wife is coming to the moon. And as women, we must also be willing to fulfill these obligations as long as we do not stray."

“And the fifth, as a wife, we should not insult, compare and even demean our husband, either verbally or in deeds. Because after all, men are leaders for us women as set forth in the letter an-nisa verse 34."

"The task is so heavy, which is to lead us to the right path, to be a protector from the heat of the fire of hell, to meet the needs of our board food cages, to give inner sustenance and to give peace to his wife."

“Therefore, as a good Muslim, take care of your household, create jannah in your respective homes with your partner. Do not ignite the fire of division between you." explained Umi Afiyah at length.

After that as usual, the ustadzah will give the pilgrims a chance to ask questions.

Olivia, the curious one, raised her hands high and prepared to launch her question.

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