What's Wrong Pa

Vacationing with 3

Perhaps today is no stranger to us when we hear the term pregnant out of wedlock, because most of it is considered commonplace by everyone, because it is already considered commonplace by everyone, even though men say that they will be responsible, what is responsible? Caring for a child born out of wedlock? Responsible to the girl to support the girl who has been pregnant out of wedlock? Or to be responsible before God?

Like a balloon, lust is water that is put into the balloon, if the balloon is filled with water continuously, then the time will come it will erupt in the end, likewise with courtship, if done continuously, does not rule out the possibility of inviting an adultery.

According to Islam, dating is illegal. However, what if the courtship has been allowed by both parents. Because, according to Islam, for parents who give permission or allow their children to date, the parents will get torture in the afterlife later.

Making adultery will feel so beautiful when without a husband and wife relationship among them because it is embellished by the seduction of the damned devil, but the sin they get is like water that continues to flow.

If not dating how can you get to know each other? There is ta'aruf, meaning of taaruf can be traced from the origin of the Arabic language, namely ta'arafa - yata'arafu which means to know each other before heading to the marriage stage. In accordance with the Great Indonesian Dictionary (KBBI), the meaning of taaruf is an introduction.

In practice, taaruf is performed before the sermon. The meaning of the sermon is to propose, propose, or offer to marry. Taaruf can be called one of the important processes to a marriage.

In the meeting of two prospective brides in taaruf must also be accompanied by others, such as parents or relatives. Therefore, taaruf is recommended even an order of the Prophet SAW for prospective brides to know each other to get to the holy bond of marriage.

Responsible for marrying a woman who has been pregnant out of wedlock is a mandatory thing for a man to do but how can a marriage done while pregnant look legitimate in the eyes of God? While God himself forbids his servant that pregnant women are forbidden to marry or to be exchanged, even though marriage or divorce is legal in the eyes of religion but what if before God?

What kind of responsibilities before God should they do? Do I have to say that I am responsible before God? No, because accountability occurs when we are already on the shiratal mustaqim bridge that is not able to be easily passed by adulterers or sinners.

It seems so trivial to say, but do they realize that the sin they bear is so great before the divine rabbi? Not only in the eyes of men they look despicable, but in the eyes of God as well.

"You know? Women who have active sexual intercourse at the age of under 20 years, have a higher risk of contracting infection Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) causes cervical cancer. In addition, those who often have sex in adolescence are also susceptible to venereal diseases, such as syphilis that can cause blindness in infants, or the death of mothers and fetuses". Susi said to everyone who seemed like they would be real doctors.

"Yes, doctor". Answer them in unison.

"Aamiin, pray for a friend I can be a real doctor". Susi said grimacingly to all of them.

"Sure, you're all our friends, we'll always pray our best for you and everyone". Nadhira.

Their relationship is much closer than brothers, indeed they are not siblings and so on but their affection is so great for their neighbors, there is no word to distinguish between them, there is no difference between them, although Rifki is their superior, but Rifki's attitude and nature do not distinguish at all that makes his men so respectful and offensive.

"Listen to yes, I will explain about the dangers of ****free which is often circulating in the surrounding community".

"Doctor Susi started crawling into teachers". Sayu while chuckling softly.

"Rather than you Bay, bodyguards crawl into blind love pursuers". Vano Eject.

"Concerned **** free can also be exposed to HIV disease, which if not known from the beginning of pregnancy can cause problems in infants, women who get pregnant in adolescence are at high risk of giving birth to premature babies". Susi said while explaining to her friends about the dangers of getting pregnant at the age of teenagers.

This happens because the uterus is still not fully ready for pregnancy. In addition, lack of knowledge about nutrition while pregnant can also cause low newborn weight.

And because of the age of adolescence, is still the age of growth, nutritional struggles with the fetus usually occur so that the baby or Mama is likely to be deficient in nutrients.

"Isa... It's really scary, but why is it in the present age there are so many girls who get pregnant outside marriage like that, their age is still much smaller than the minimum age to get married and even smaller than ours". Nadhira Gerrutu.

"Yes you're right Dhira, because when adolescence is usually the height of curiosity, maybe it can also be the main cause of many teenagers who do that". Rifki.

"Maybe it could be".

"Maybe they think it's good after the marriage hehehe, but after the marriage the mind and the burden of life increases, about how to support the family, the tingling out of the money, the rush of money, and not even a problem yet". Bayu.

"Tumben you're Bay's wise, I love your style". Answer Rifki.

"Nye nye nye".

Rifki is not at all offended by what Bayu did, for Rifki now is the time to take a vacation so there is no term Young Master and men, for Rifki, Bayu is Rifki's men but at this time Bayu is also his best friend.

"So, let them know how dangerous it is to get pregnant at an early age".

"Wokeh Muda Rifki, Pregnant women who become pregnant at an early age are indeed susceptible to high blood pressure or preeclampsia, even if previously he did not have a history of high blood pressure even though hormonal changes that occur in pregnant women are what trigger blood pressure to be higher, according to research health experts, according to research, women who are pregnant under the age of 20 years, the tendency to get preeclampsia is much higher than women who get pregnant at the ideal age of 21-35 years". Susi.

Pregnant at a young age is very risky because basically the body of women under the age of 20 years is still not fully ready to reproduce and go through the labor process.

This coupled with hormonal changes that occur during pregnancy, can make teenagers under 20 years of age vulnerable to postpartum depression.

"Listen Van, don't just tell people to get married, you yourself are not married even tell someone else to get married". Syndir Bayu.

"I'm different from you, you've met your soul mate but I haven't". Reply Vano cynically.

"Withnya nyari dong, do not be single and continue to be good for your health because you see others already have a partner, hahaha". Bayu's laughter mocked Vano.

Rifki and Nadhira could only shake her head just hearing the conversation from Bayu and Vano, because from the beginning Bayu got into Gengcobra Bayu look closer to Vano and Reno so that despite each other insinuations quipped the three so compact if getting a task from Rifki.

Rifki considers his men as his own friends when on vacation, will still if Rifki is doing the task of considering them as his men, as his men, ready to standby they carry out the task that has been given by Rifki to him without any objections and complaints.

"Haha... You're right Bay, listen to Van". Reno's laughter is laughing at Vano.

"Mending me singles a lot of love, than you're single anymore". Ejek Vano on Reno.

"Who loves you the same? A rat with ants? Or worms with caterpillars? Could be a beetle with a lizard, Haha". Reno Laughter.

"There's dong, Surya Jayantara's son". Vano answered proudly.

"Eihh who? The vita? The saqila? Sarah's? The aditi? Or Ratih? Do they want to be with you, Van?". Bayu asked while calculating the name using his finger.

"Heyyy.... In Surya Jayantara is not only Bay, there are many times, many girls in it".

"Who is Van? The guy over there is a pretty girl, is your pellet working out to them? So that makes you so sure to reach them?".

"Boro Boro gave pellets, went to the shaman aja Muda already angry ngak clear".

"Emang you want to do the shaman ha? Want to do idolatry? Want to associate God like that? I absolutely do not forbid you to do that, but remember after that do not enter Gengcobra or set foot there!". Rifki said casually to Vano.

"No Young Master, I don't dare to do that". Vano with a wave.

"Basic weak". Syndir Bayu.

Nadhira and Susi could only shake her head, so the man even though his words looked rude but there was no word of hostility between them.

"Continue Si". Nadhira

"What's continuing?". Susi asked who was confused about Nadhira's words.

"She's calm getting pregnant out of wedlock, let them understand what the danger is".

"Oh that one, I can".

"Listen to a friend".

"In addition to the psychological of children under the age of 20 years, also still tend to be unstable so that the level of stress and depression is much greater, especially if the pregnancy is not supported by the family, especially if the pregnancy is not supported by the family, they are most likely to experience baby blues or postpartum depression.

In adolescence, the uterus and pelvic organs are not yet fully capable of accommodating the fetus. This can cause problems in pregnancy and difficulties during labor.

Things that usually occur in pregnancy at a young age are miscarriage, bleeding, preterm labor, and the occurrence of problems in the placenta. Because of this, women with young age are threatened with serious injury during childbirth, and can cause death to the mother or prospective fetus.

What kind of good man can ruin a woman, no matter how much he loves a good man he will never want to ruin a woman just because of his lust because he will come to ask parents for blessing to justify the relationship.

While is there a good woman who wants to be seized her property so easily? No, a good woman will only guard her property for a man who has become her mahram, remember and do not approach an adultery it is a heinous act and a bad path.

A good man is only for a good woman as well as a bad man only for a bad woman too, then fix yourself then your partner will be good with you, along with you, because the soul is a reflection of ourselves.

No good man is able to damage or snatch a woman's most precious property easily because tempted by his own lust, he said, and no good woman could afford to give away her precious possessions so easily.

Maybe if you look at it seems so trivial in this day and age because of the many young women who often do it so that it makes it look so trivial in the eyes of teenagers, which is very small, but it is a sin that can never be forgiven.

Most young women do that just because the relationship is not sanctioned by their parents because their age is still below average, respectively, so they do that in order to immediately marry a person who looks so meaningful to him.

"What kind of man are you, Bay?". Ask Rifki.

"I am a responsible man, sholeh, kind, honest, do not like to play with women, loving, and many more". Saying Bayu arrogantly in front of everyone.

"But why can single until now Bay? No good behavior, huh?". Vano Eject.

"You yourself have been this big still mengejomblo emang ngak bored ya jomblo continue, or do not ngak no one has a crush on you huh Van". Ask Susi back to Vano.

Vano is much older than the four of them, because before Rifki was born, Vano was able to run with his friends when he was a toddler, maybe now he has reached 22 years old while Rifki is still 18 years old.

"If I meet my soul mate later, don't be surprised ya". Vano said with pride.

"We're not surprised, it's just a fantasy, so you don't have to worry that we'll be surprised". Saying Bayu in response to Vano's remarks.

Everyone laughed together at their hilarious words, while Vano looked so furious at the words that had cornered her like that.

After that, they rushed to the beach today happily, the Rifki's men also played on the beach but some of them remained standing on the beach to watch over their Young Master on the orders of Rifki himself.

Nadhira, Rifki, Bayu and Susi play water on the beach, the four of them look so happy and laugh together, Nadhira has never played beach before so this time he looks so excited especially when he sees the waves that connect to each other towards the edge.

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