MUZACHA (It's Love Or Obsession)

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"Start brother?" said Cilla.

"Na'am, tafadholly's started" said Shilla.

"Assalamu'alaikum warohmatullohi wabarokatuh." Cilla said.

"Wa'alaikumussalam warohmatullohi wabarokatuh." everyone answered.

"Begging everyone's permission, Cilla here will tell you about APOSTULLAH'S ROMANTICISM WITH HIS WIVES."

"Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wasalaam behaved tawadhu (humble) in the presence of his wives, to the extent that the Prophet shallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam helped his wives in carrying out household chores. Though the daily prophet has a busy and mobility is very high fulfill the obligation to convey the treatise of Allah Azza wa Jalla and busy regulating the Muslims.

Aisyah said, “Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wasalaam is busy helping his wife and if the time comes to pray then he went to pay it.”

Imam Al-Bukhari lists these words of Aisha in two chapters in his sahih, namely the Chapter of Muamalah A Man (husband) with his Wife and the Chapter of a Husband Helping His Wife.

Urwah asked Aisyah, “Wahai Ummul Mukminin, what does Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wasalaam do if he is with you at home?” Aisyah replied, “He did as one of you did if he was helping his wife, he fixed her sandals, sewed her clothes, and raised the water in the bucket.”

In Syama’il by At-Tirmidzi there is an addition, “Dan milking his goats..”.

Ibn Hajar explained the faida of this hadith by saying, “This Hadith advocates to be humble and abandon arrogance and let a husband help his wife.”

if today s**some husbands feel inferior and prestige if helping his wife wash, solve household affairs. They said, no more terms, wash your own clothes, tidy up the house that is not clean, and sew your own clothes. It is as if they make the wife a maid and indeed her duty is to serve the husband. Especially if they are husbands in dapper clothes, this kind of work is certainly not worth and does not deserve them to do. Or they feel this is just the job of mothers and husbands to be inappropriate and unworthy to do so."

"What is the right thing?" said Cilla spirit.

"Rubber" said the Akhwat.

And the Brotherhood just rounded its eyes of astonishment.

"Nah but Ikhwan especially ustadz Muza and Ustadz Rafan example yes Rasululloh, will you be the imam of Cilla" said Cilla.

"Huuu." the crowd cheered.

"What the hell, Cilla people to Ustadz Muza with Ustadz Rafan, you guys are busy" said Cilla a little annoyed.

"Wasn't it Ustadz?" cilla said smile so sweet.

"Yes yes" said Rafan.

"Allah will exemplify us, the Apostle Ulamulloh and the people" Muza said.

"Umm grateful, okay continue" said Cilla

From Anas bin Malik he narrated, “One time Nabi halalahu ‘alaihi wa sallam in place of one of his wives then his other wife sent a plate of food. So his wife who was with him hit the hand of the maid so that the plate fell and broke so that the food scattered. Then the Prophet sholallohu ‘alaihi wasalaam collected the fragments of the plate and collected the food that had been on the plate, he sholallohu ‘alaihi wasalaam said, “Your mothers are jealous.”.

Note, The prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wasalaam was not angry at all because of the actions of his wife which caused the rupture of the plate. Prophets

don't say, “Look! food scattering!! let's gather this scattering of food! this is mubadzir's deed!” But the Prophet kept it quiet and even humbly cleared the prophet to gather the broken plates and gather the scattered food, but beside him was a servant."

"Allohumma sholli 'alaa sayyidina muhammad" the Brotherhood said.

"Takbir" said Cilla.

"Allohu akbar" they said simultaneously and raised their hands.

"OKay..It is not enough to get there, the prophet also gave reasons to defend his wife's attitude so as not to be denounced. Prophet says, “Your mother is jealous.”

Nabi shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam faced his household problems calmly and wisely, however severe the problems were. He was also able to calm his wives if jealousy arose between them. Some husbands are not able to overcome the problems of his wife calmly, but his wife is not as much as the wife of the Prophet and his busyness is not as busy as the Prophet. Even among us who have a wife only one person is not able to overcome the problems between him and his wife.

Ibn Hajar said, “The words of the Prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, ‘your mother jealously’ is udzur of the Prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam so that what his wife does is not reproached. The Prophet understood that this attitude was common between a wife and her honeymoon out of jealousy. Jealousy is indeed a habit contained in yourself (women) that is impossible to resist.”

Ibn Hajar also said, “They (the lecturers of this hadith) said, that in this hadith there is a signal not to punish the jealous wantia because of the wrong attitude that arises from it. Because when jealous, his mind is closed due to anger fueled by jealousy. Abu Ya’la recorded a hadith with a sanad that hasan from Aisyah marfu’

“Jealous woman can not distinguish the bottom of the valley and the top.”

Ibn Mas’ud narrates a hadith from the Prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam,

“God establishes jealousy in the women, then whoever is patient with them, then to him the reward of the martyrs.” This hadith is narrated by Al-Bazar and he hints at the authenticity of this hadith. The narrators tsiqoh (believed) only the scholars dispute the credibility of a narrator named Ubaid bin AS-Sobbah.

From Anas ibn Malik, “Prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam came to Khaibar, when Allah inspired a deep sense of tenacity in his soul to conquer the fortress of Khaibar, until a news to him about the beauty of Shafiah bin Huyai bin Akhthab and the husband of Shafiah at that time had died with the age of their marriage is still early. Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam also asked him to be his wife. Then he made his way home to Medina.” Anas continued, “I saw the Prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam preparing a mosquito net on a camel for Shafiah then he shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam sitting near the camel and then putting his knees, he said, then Shafiah set foot on his knees to ride on a camel.” Is there a husband who may do only half of the effort made by the Prophet, such as opening the car door for the wife, bringing her groceries, and so on. Surely this is not much we find.

Note the treatment of the Prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wasalaam in such a tawadhu and romantic attitude towards his wives in front of the crowd without feeling prestige and awkward. This is an exemplary qudwah for the companions who saw the incident and for all of us, wallohu nature bishshowab."

"Thank you to all for listening, Cilla undur wasalaam, assalamu'alaikum warohmatullohi wabarokatuh" said Cilla.

"Wa'alaikumussalam warohmatullohi wabarokatuh." everyone answered.

"Maa shaa Allah shukron jazakillah khair Cilla, very much imbued sirohnya, for the Brotherhood should be able to follow the attitude of the prophet sholallohu 'alaihi wasalam.", said Shilla.

"sholallohu 'alaihi wasalam" said all.

"..in treating a wife like a queen, okay who's next?" said Shilla.