MUZACHA (It's Love Or Obsession)
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For this episode a little story about menstruation may be useful....
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Acha who has cleaned the dining table, the weather feels very cold, Acha and Liani immediately wear a sweater, Acha does not forget to always carry a ledger in his hand, and they go straight to the park to teach, Acha and Liani always have a big book in their hands, step by step in meeting the conversation with Liani.
"Tomorrow will we give a surprise what to Bang Ustadz with Iki?" said Acha.
"How about you." said Liani who explained.
"It's good to be rich" said Acha.
They arrived at the park, where the children were joking with laughter, "Eh there is the mother of Master" Azam said.
The children immediately sat down neatly, "Assalamu'alaikum kids" Acha said softly.
"Wa'alaikumussalam warohmatullohi wabarokatu." answered their spirit.
Slightly whispering the conversation Naura and her compatriot, kaila, saw Naura who hugged the stomach, "It hurts." lamented Naura.
Kaila who saw that worried "Ra are you sick? I said Master's mother yeah."
Naura endured the pain, "Don't, it'll heal on its own" Naura said.
"What are you sick with?" kaila.
"My stomach mules La, I want to go to the bathroom first" said Naura.
"Yaudah Kaila interra, Ra, afraid you why later" said Kaila.
Naura smiled nodding, "Yaudah yes, thank you La." said Naura.
"Jaudah permission first there, if Kaila wants to go forward permission to mother" said Kaila.
"That's okay, let Naura get permission" Naura said.
"Sure, you're strong, right?" kaila is called Naura.
Naura immediately stood up and was about to advance forward, but Kaila immediately pulled Naura into her seat, "Why La?" whispered Naura.
"Ra... Are you menstruating?" whisky Kaila.
Naura furrowed her eyebrows in astonishment, "Haid?" naura said to Kaila, "Yes that skirt you are rich in blood" said Kaila.
"Blood?" naura Yaang's shock made her the center of attention of everyone in the class.
"Blood?" whispered the friends who were shocked.
Naura only cried because she was surprised by it, Azam immediately memorized the sister for fear of anything happening, "Blood? What does Ra mean? What are you sick with?" worry Azam.
"Naura has a stomachache." lamented Naura.
Acha and Liani immediately approached, "Why dear?" said Acha.
Naura looked a little tense between fear and worry, Kaila explained in a slight whisper, "So Naura hurts Mom's stomach, keeps wanting permission to the bathroom Kaila saw behind her skirt Naura a lot of her blood, she said, kaya Naura menstruation deh Bu." explained Kaila.
Acha and Liani stared at each other because they understood that a woman who was 9 years old less than 16 days hijriyyah would definitely experience it, "Kaila has experienced it?" acha said in a nod to Kaila, "Yes about 3 months ago, initially shocked but her mother kaila explained and now kaila is not afraid anymore" explained Kaila.
Acha pinched Kaila's nose, "That's smart, and we shouldn't be afraid and worried about it" Acha said.
Acha immediately took off the sweater she was wearing, "Naura stood up" said Acha.
Naura also did the thing that Acha said, Acha immediately tied her sweater arm around Naura's waist so that it covered the back.
Liani and Acha smilingly rubbed Naura's head gently, "Now Naura is coming with Mom to Mom's house" said Acha
Acha smiled, "Li.." said Acha, Liani nodded and smiled understanding what Acha meant was to keep the children for a while.
Acha and Naura's steps are seen to be a little away, the children look tense and worried especially Azam, Liani tried to calm the children from worry, "Eh calm the children were not a danger, the children were not a danger, Naura will be fine and will be back here soon, so we wait for Naura to be okay" said Liani, taken by the students
Kaila just chuckled at the tension of her friends.
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Naura was still crying and worried, Acha crouched down before Naura and wiped her tears, "Darling why are you crying, is her stomach still hurting?" said Acha.
Naura shook her head faintly, "It's been quite healed, but Naura was afraid Kaila said that Naura's period and a lot of blood in Naura's skirt no one was hurt." explained naura with tears.
Acha wiped away the tears that fell on Naura's cheeks, "Why should I be afraid and what should I fear?" said Acha smiling.
"Naura is afraid of anything happening to Naura, is menstruation a disease? And will it harm Naura?" naura said innocently.
Hearing that Acha laughed, Naura was immediately astonished to see Acha, "Why is Mom laughing?" naura said curiously.
"It's okay," said Acha, Acha pinched Naura's nose, "What Kaila said is true baby, you have your period, and that's a natural thing for every woman, women who are 9 years old less than 16 days hijriyyah will certainly one day experience menstruation, the minimum age and the maximum is not limited, and blood problems, menstruation is like that to bleed." clear Acha.
"So Naura's gonna have her period, too?" Naura.
Acha smiled, "Yes dear, menstruation has become a nature of a woman, and just calm you do not be afraid, menstruation does not come every day, in general women experience menstruation once 1 month, and you will not be afraid, and from now on Naura do not be afraid and shocked again, kaila has also experienced menstruation" said Acha.
"really?" naura said, Acha nodded faintly, "Yes dear."
Naura furrowed her brows, "Is this Mom?" said plain Naura.
Acha smiled, "This is called p*mbalut, commonly used when we are menstruating, so as not to penetrate our clothes." explained Acha.
"Owh is that" said Naura.
"Yeah now you go to the bathroom, can you use it?" said Acha.
Naura nodded faintly, "Yes, Kaila's mother taught us that" Naura said, and Naura went straight into the bathroom.
Acha smiled, "Maa shaa Allah once his mother Kaila he has taught putringa what will happen to women." Inner Acha.
Acha paced back and forth in front of the bathroom thinking of something, "Owh yes the idea came at the right time, I had to teach children about menstruation, he said, so that later those who have not experienced menstruation they are not surprised and afraid, they must know the nature of women." murmured Acha.
Naura came out of the bathroom, "Eh already Nak, yaudah now we go back to the park" said Acha nagged Naura.
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Classes of children are busy asking Liani, "Mom said Mother women will experience blood out of her k*maluan, what's her name Cica forgot, umm ha-had eh not what ha what is well," said Cica who was confused herself.
"Haid Ca" said Kaila.
"That's right menstruation" said Cica.
Everyone laughed seeing Cica, Acha and Naura coming, "Assalamu'alaikum? " say Acha and Naura.
"Wa'alaikumussalam," answered all.
"Dec how has it healed." worried Azam, Naura smiled nodding.
"Now Naura sits down to Naura's seat" said Acha.
Naura will take off Acha's sweater, "Eh don't take it off first" said Acha.
Naura nodded faintly, "Yes Bu" said Naura and immediately walked to her seat.
"Li how if we give a fiqih explanation about menstruation to children, so that someday those who have not menstruated are not surprised because they experience menstruation." whispered Acha.
"Good idea, the science must be taught in childhood" said Liani.
"Children, is it time to draw how if we change the schedule with fiqh menstruation? Taught her fiqih menstruation here so that those of you who have not experienced menstruation are not afraid and shocked when experiencing menstruation, how do you agree not?" said Acha.
"Again Ma'am added the science of religion also 'kan" said Azam.
"Yes Bu agreed." they answered after hearing Azam's words.
"Well get the notebook ready, let's start, you guys bring the book that's still empty, right?" said Acha.
"Yes take Mom." they answered.
"Well for this material special in the book is okay" said Acha.
"Okay ma'am." they answered.
Acha was busy explaining and the children were busy noting, "Haid It has become the nature of women, who enter the age of puberty, which is after the age of 9 years less than 16 days hijriyah, which is the age of 9 years, equivalent to 8 years 11 months 14 days, bleeding or can be called menstruation or menstruation,"
"The blood
coming from the uterus, that is called menstrual blood, and for the next blood will come out periodically usually once a month, women who after giving birth also experience blood out, and then the blood will come out, but it's not menstruation but puerperium,"
"So menstruation is blood that comes out of the uterus periodically through k*maluan, not after childbirth, and in adulthood is even
age 9 years less than 16 days hijriyah,"
"Learning menstruation for women is fardlu 'ain, so it is mandatory for every woman, because menstruation is related to various obligations as a Muslimah, such as about prayers that must be done and others, such as, and every woman must experience it,"
"For men the law of studying menstruation is fardlu kifayah, fardlu kifayah it is an obligation that is done by one person or a group of people then the duty falls, the duty falls, so for example, in our village there is no one to learn the science of religion at all, then one village will be exposed to sin, and if there is already one resident in our village who studies it, then one village will be exposed to sin, so the fall of sins and other obligations of the population, if fardlu 'others are obligatory for each individual and his sins will be borne individually."
"Allahua'lam, is that understandable?" said Acha.
"Yes ma'am." answered them.
"Well, don't be afraid and shocked again if you have your period, because all women will experience it and we should be able to accept it, just think of it as God's love for us." said Acha.
"Yes ready, ma'am."
"We have ended this lesson by saying lafadz hamdalah" said Acha.
"Alhamdulilbornobbil 'alamiin." says all.
One by one the students kissed the backs of Acha and Liani's hands, and after all the pergia, Naura and Kaila approached Acha, "Mother Master can b'da (after) our dzuhur visit mother's house?" Naura.
"Of course you can, mom's house is open to you" said Acha.
"Okay ma'am, we'll excuse you, assalamu'alaikum." said Kaila and Naura kissed the back of Acha's and Liani's hands.
"Wa'alaikumussalam be careful" said Acha and Liani.
After tidying up the book, Acha and Liani rushed back home.
