Mommy's Husband

SELFISH IN-LAWS

I deleted everything on my phone, games, youtube, all useless apps. I'm not saying he's on my phone, he doesn't want to change when he has kids. When my fiancee bought me a cell phone, she was in fact a collection of movies***, where there was a woman treated like this until she had a child she did not want to change.

2 Months I've been unable to bear the taste, it turns out my choice was wrong. Choosing to live with husband but husband slalu gives a bitter feeling, what kind of patience??..

Shopping money he's his own pengang, I just gave money pempes child. But I was never in jata. Every day my mother-in-law borrowed money, the youngest sister's tuition, Mr. Minjem's cigarette money to me. I'm just in the cash pempes money was not shopping kitchen, when I asked..

"why money do you all hold, you don't believe me??"..

"not to believe, I don't want you to bother about debt, let me take care of the debts. I want to take care of you, but you're bad at me"

I do not understand what the husband thinks, it is true that the wife does not have to interfere with debt problems but at least the husband must be responsible for his living.

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I finally asked to go home, I was fed up. During this time my relationship with my mother has improved, we often communicate with each other. Mother also often asked her grandchildren, we agreed to make a plan I would go home and asked my mother to pretend to meet all the needs of me and my son.

"mother only asks 1 request to you (mantu), her sister does not keep on the sibon, lonely mother here, 2 weeks let here 2 weeks let it be fair. I'll meet her needs here as long as I can be here for 2 weeks"

That's all my plan, I'm just asking my mom for help. I'm just saying it's not hard on the sibon"

Mother agreed to my request, for 2 weeks I went home. Given the treatment of a husband and in-laws who have their children humped my heart and my mind, That night my son was sick, I thought my husband would stay up late to accompany me. It turns out that he did not feel good to sleep well until last morning did not feel guilty he went to work as usual, his task has forgotten to be a father not with him even cuey and do not want to know. Mother-in-law let her child as she pleased, which I know usually her children in nasehatin like this have children, like this being a husband. She's the only one who has to bear the burden of being a mother.

My mother-in-law often left me home alone, I was at work every day, went home in the morning. I know the mother-in-law is the backbone of the family, the father-in-law has not been able to work because of the presence of him who is deaf, while the mother-in-law had to slam enough bones for her children and I was still hitchhiking to eat with her. Actually you can still look for work but not enough to meet all our shortcomings, you have said (his heart work).

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7 Months my son, I tried to work for 7 months my son. He slammed the bones for his grandson, because in bondowoso there is no work, the father came with me to situbondo he worked with the farmer there. Intention I do not want to take care of in-laws, because my father came with me. I'm trying to get a loan of money, I want to buy my own stove, I want to have my own kitchen, I want to cook for my husband and father. I finally borrowed my sister-in-law, but I still consulted the same husband mbk, and to the mother-in-law in-law. I don't know mother-in-law or in-law, I don't understand. What is clear is that he supports me every time I make a decision and the father-in-law of the mother-in-law also supports me. And I want to borrow it from my mother-in-law's son-in-law.

"dad, I'd like to borrow some money. Want to buy your own kitchen?!"

"borrow how much??" maybe the sister already knew from the mother, which must have been told.

"250 grand"

"enough??"

"yeah, pack it up"

Thank God I finally got a loan too, husband does not know this, my in-laws too, no one knows my plan. Though I had asked permission to the in-laws wanted to separate the kitchen but she forbade, I once consulted the husband but the husband refused. I immediately buy the same riya, I go to the market askin price one by one each store. Fortunately there is a cheap and very fitting in the bag can stove the same hose. Come work husband surprised already there is a stove in the house, only I wait for people who want to install the stove. Father I also asked where the money from when the work can still be a day, I do not want to depend on the same parents continue so I do my own business. An angry husband he quietly ignored me, maybe he wondered in his heart (where can money come from??).

The light is ready, everything has been fixed. Then the in-laws were shocked

"genua dika alaenna bing, cakna bule kan niser. Bule silver abentua ade'er not terro ask'a ka nak poto"

My in-laws are disappointed in me, he's really selfish. Why she doesn't feel like a woman, I want to be another woman. Just a trivial thing like this he was angry, and the husband never supported my will, he asked his parents' opinion but his parents' opinion was not as good as mine.

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Almost 7 months ago, you can collect 700 thousand money for 1 week here and I did not spend a penny for my own 7 monthly children. Husband is silent without any words to contribute 7 monthly rudi his own son. I can do anything, can only say a big thank you to both my parents. Slalu's husband wronged me because the custom of the 7-month situbondo was only the intention of walking. Rudi was born in bondowoso did not feel good to me as my parents.

After 7 months, we still live at home because our 2-week agreement is still here, while the husband he just drove, stayed 1 night and then went again, and picked it up.

When we returned to the situbondo house, I already had my own kitchen. Not happy but even hated, every day I cook slalu in comments by in-laws.

"isn't it okay to eat??"

"no"

"yes doc, don't you eat like that??" maybe he didn't hear me answer

"not buk"

"kalo don't have a side dish, take it there !! ask mom not to hesitate"

Good indeed good, but if the family has the right of each. As an in-laws must advise if the child and the ex are wrong, I think I am still on the right path. It's just that I wanted to be independent with my husband, but when I told you that I felt hurt, and my husband never responded.

Buying rice is also a problem, even though we only eat together. Children are still MPASI, buy rice 5 kg so storm one village. I cook rice 1 day 1kg, the problem is that rice 5kg is not good for 1 week is a problem in our household. Ampunnnn must be economical how to try, while the money shopping only 15 thousand a day. imagine it so I how....!!!! almost to death...