I'm a Savings Woman
From Rayhan and Izzah
After the signing of the wedding files is complete, there are additional events inserted.
Izzah and took microphones to give advice and advice to both their sons and daughters.
Rayhan spoke first.
"My kids..,
Today is one of the most historic days of your life. You have been lawfully made husband and wife, of your respective spouses, from whom shall be born the children of the sholeh and the sholeh, and you shall be a father and a mother, and you shall be, to later become a grandfather and a grandmother, ..insyaAllah."
"Marriage is half the journey of piety to Allah and part of the sunnah of the Prophet. There is no loveliest promise heard by a woman from a male voice, except the promise of a marriage contract." Rayhan.
"My son Arka, the wife is your rib, she is not a woman to be told. Treat her with tenderness, and she will be softer than you." Rayhan again.
"Specifically for my son-in-law Devan, it's been my responsibility to be the parent of my daughter Arsha. So take my daughter as a wife as well as a trust that you will be held responsible for. With him and with him you worship ALLAH Subhaanahu wa ta’alaa, in like, in sorrow."
Arsha couldn't help her feelings. Tears welled up in her eyes, and just flowed down her cheeks.
This time, it was Izzah's turn to speak.
"My daughter Arsha and also Nabila....
As a mother and father-in-law, the mother advised: accept and welcome your husband with all love and obedience. Serve it with warmth. Indulge him with your agility and intelligence. Help him with patience and prayer 0. Entertain him with advice. Arouse him with joy and tenderness. Close the flaws with your glory." Izzah said with a bad feeling.
"To besanku…
Accept each of them as an additional child for us. Understand their shortcomings, for they are young. Guide them, for it is their time to enter the real life.
Naturally, as a baby who is learning to stand and walk, of course, had experienced a fall to then get up and try again. Then help them until they are really strong to stand up and walk alone.
Help and guide them, but do not organize. Let.., for the fullness of themselves and the offspring that shall be born of their marriage be their own responsibility before ALLAH Subhaanahu wa ta’alaa. Appreciate the hopes and ideals they built upon the knowledge that had come to them.
Our too-distant and out-of-place involvement in their household matters will not help. On the contrary, they will never be strong. While they are required to be real fathers and real mothers in front of.
Know that they are not the only ones who are entering their new life, as husband and wife. We, too, parents, are entering our new life, namely the life of a future grandfather or grandmother – inshaAllah. So should this age and experience make us, parents, become more wise and patient, instead of getting more guided and overwhelmed by feelings. Our life experiences can indeed be a lesson, but not necessarily a reference for them.
If later - from this marriage - are born grandchildren for us. Love them without having to harass and drop the authority of their parents. How many stories in which grandfather or grandmother snatched the superiority of father and mother. So that children are more ta’at to their grandparents than to their parents. Really, will our grandchildren be children who ta’at to their parents or not, a little influenced by the way we spoil them." Izzah said at length.
Unknowingly, Arka and Arsha walked closer towards her parents. Both of them splashed in the arms of Rayhan and Izzah.
"Thank you, Dad, Mom." The two almost simultaneously.
Izzah codes his two sons-in-law, Nabila and Arka to get close. They all re-emerged one by one, like repeating the procession of sungkeman. This time, just standing up.
Followed by the besan and other large families, until everything gathered in one frame and shot.
