My Dating Story's

My Dating Story's
After story



The man sat on a not-so-big couch in a modest house sipping his still-rising coffee, a little girl about 5 years old playing not far away, the man was wearing a sleeveless shirt and shorts, the man was Steven, he was married to Sally and had two children, a 7-year-old boy had just entered Elementary School, and the women are still in Kindergarten.


A year after no longer meeting with Vira, suddenly Sally again contacted him and said sorry about his decision to leave Steven, he begged Steven who was actually not 100% move-on from Sally, Steven was finally broken and they decided to run a serious relationship because of Steven's consideration of his age is no longer young, trying to understand each other again and accept each other. It wasn't until 1 year later that they got married and now they're 9 years old, and maybe they're not the most harmonious family ever, however, they seemed to be quite happy and did not regret their decision anymore.


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 The handsome man had long since returned to Indonesia, Singapore a country so beautiful but somehow he did not feel it to be the place to spend the rest of his life. He felt that something was lacking, which was missing and made his heart sometimes still ache, it had been more than 10 years since we last met and I decided to “disappear”. She still remembered the woman, her innocent-looking smile, as her face was annoyed when she was unwilling to lose and continued to bully him, she said, his eyes were twinkling as he looked at the man during the meeting at the reunion.  They have known each other since childhood and have been separated for years. 4 Years old when they first met who can only be remembered by Toma vaguely, a thin child who rarely smiles and likes to be alone. When they meet again she is much prettier than Toma remembers but the face of her childhood cannot be lost, and as for Toma all look the same which makes Toma very “gatal” want to keep teasing him. All her reactions Toma likes.


It has been about 2 years Toma returned to Jakarta, he was eager to find back his lost Viranya, but he was afraid, he was afraid of being hurt or hurt himself, he said, he was afraid that knowing the news now would make him very sad, actually Vira had contacted him a few years ago by commenting on his social media when he posted something, actually Vira had contacted him a few years ago, many who do comment and Toma delete comments Vira makes it as if there is no, Toma also got a private chat on the social media, and, and reading Vira's chat that made her cry and had to calm down and answer coldly and soberly, as if Vira wasn't the person she knew, and even he treats Vira colder than he does with someone he just met.


Toma is a man who is very sensitive to his feelings he knows what he is doing will make Vira confused, he knows Vira will forget him or bury him deeply in his memory, Toma wanted Vira to assume they were never close, Toma did not want to reopen the wound that had not healed yet. In the eyes of others he is one of the ideal men to marry. He is cheerful, sociable, attentive and now successful in his career, but somehow he can't see other women like he saw Vira, his first love, people say first love is not to be had, it seems like Toma must really understand that his love and Vira must indeed end because it was his choice many years ago and Toma is a coward of love.


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Wandy is not an ordinary man, so many women approach him, but marriage for him is not a playful commitment and he is not sure of himself is ready to become a husband and later become a father, he said, although he is now almost 40 and everyone around him feels he will be too late if not soon, Wandy realizes age is not a benchmark of readiness. His religion is the majority, even other than because his face can be said to be handsome and is often said to look like Idol or now the CEO in Idol drama he does not feel looking for a lifetime partner is easy, and his parents had already begun to give up trying to force him to search, and even they had several matchmaking times by introducing him to good women, but the habit that occurred several times he was not married because the woman who really wanted to get married as soon as possible and she was always not ready. He felt unstable and still needed some time. A delay that he himself did not know when it was finished.


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Aby was in a room that was quite large and busy looking at many brochures containing explanations of all products. Aby no longer works as Sales, after being married to Rely and having 2 children, Rely always supports her. Aby decided to open her own business because she felt her ability, experience and connections could be used for it. In this case Aby had contacted Vira because she remembered her ability in recruitment. And then he found out that Rely also helped him willingly, so he stopped Vira's efforts without sufficient explanation, and Vira felt that this was unprofessional.


Years have passed since Vira and Aby broke up and Aby is married to Rely aby happily, even as Rely says he is very jealous of Vira, Aby contacts Vira by showing her off, and Vira's confused response makes him know that Vira never loved him, maybe at that time Vira just accepted it, maybe, feeling used to him and he was just obsessed so indeed this relationship ended much better. And Rely is the right fit for me. Sometimes we have to go through the unexpected to reach our will. Pain in the path is inevitable, but if the results are the most appropriate. Now Aby's life is arguably beautiful according to him, getting a dream family as he expected and even starting his own business in Banten.


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