Mother To Aina

Mother To Aina
BUA 90



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Sunday mornings as usual, they go for a morning walk on the streets around the house to the playground. For them, the morning walk is very much useful, in addition to being healthy and fresh air, they can also introduce their children to the outside environment and also so that children can adapt and play with their peers in the home environment.


Although only woke up a few minutes ago and just a capital wash your face and brush your teeth, but Aina already seemed excited for the morning walk. Just came out the gate of the house Aina was already very happy like that.


Along the way to the playground, Aina never stopped asking questions. Ask him anything he sees right now.


"What tree is this?"


"What flower is this mother?"


"Oh, I have a caterpillar."


"This mother why the tree is not tall."


"Father, the mother has a walna walni bulung."


And many more questions from Aina. In addition to crowded because of the question Aina morning walk also enlivened by the ravings of Aidan who does not want to if and wants to always participate in the conversation.


"Papa cat!"


"So don't hold it!" he said as he ran closer to a white, hairy cat.


"Don't Brother!" alvin and Haifa said together. Aina whose position was several meters in front of Papa and her mother immediately turned her head. Haifa immediately walked closer towards Aina and crouched down in front of Aina.


"Don't hold ya," Haifa said gently.


"Why?"


"Silver is allergic, sneezing sneezes on my red sister's nose" Alvin said as he rubbed Aina's head.


"Don't ya, later if you sneeze continuously, brother's nose red-red continues to itch when you want to?" ask Haifa. Aina shook her head.


"Yes, I'm on the road again" said Alvin.


"Yuk," Haifa took along while guiding Aina's hand.


Arriving at the playground Aina immediately joined playing with some children who Aina already knew before. While Alvin, he accompanied Aidan to walk on the grass. Alvin and Haifa are teaching Aidan to walk on various textures. If on top of a hard and flat texture like the floor, Aidan is common. What they are teaching now is with different textures such as sandy, rocky textures and grassy soil like today.


Haifa's current job is as a documentation section that documents while watching her children while occasionally chatting with mothers who are there as well.


"Mbak Haifa is good, momong two children aided by her husband. I have 3 young children and one teenager can still be alone" said one of the mothers sitting in front of Haifa.


"Yes, thank God" Haifa replied.


"But we as wives must also be independent. Don't ask your husband for help, Haifa. Husbands are tired of work if we ask for help from our husbands a little, just as we have no use" said other mothers.


"Well yes, my husband is tired every day looking for money. So if the holiday is to rest. Don't even be told to momong child. The understanding of being the wife, let the husband feel at home. Moreover, have ART that helps homework, the time momong aja child aided by husband," mother mother who first memahuti again.


Haifa smiled, in her heart Haifa said, "this mother why the hell is even talking about the Haifa family."


"Yes mommy thanks for the input. But if the problem momong children, Haifa same Papa children do choose for momong the same. There are no rules of duty husband work, wife duty momong child. Because yes children also need Papa can't just be the same mother."


"So yes if the husband is busy everyday and a little time to play with children. This holiday would be suitable, for a quality time husband with children," not willing to be brave against mothers who are more senior than Haifa. But this is not the first time that Haifa talks about her family, because every Sunday morning they meet with Haifa always with Alvin so she thinks Haifa can't be her own child.


"Oh yes, Haifa, I saw her husband that Haifa did not wear a wedding ring. I usually see them always wearing. Is there no more marahan?" said the other mothers whose age did not seem to be far above Haifa.


"Haha yes mbak. My husband got fat after marriage. So the ring doesn't fit" Haifa said with a smile.


"Mbak Ayu also pay attention to my husband,"


"Bundaaa," called Aina as she ran towards Haifa.


"What son? Thirsty?"


Aina nodded.


"Here while sitting down drinking it," Haifa said as she lifted Aina up her lap.


"Have you not played? It was this dryness," Haifa said as she rubbed Aina's sweaty forehead.


"Not yet, as thick as again. Brother again look adek belajal way equally papa. Funny way in the grass, if jatoh even laugh," said Aina after drinking.


"Mother sister to Papa again ya."


"Yes. Be careful not to run."


"What age is Haifa's first child?"


"4 years old."


"It's been four years but calling the letter R is still unclear."


"Try the doctor or ma'am. Consultation, normal or not growing."


Haifa smiled, "Alhamdulillah not her brother is not adeknya often kok consul to doctor SPA. And the growth and development of the child is varied ma'am," Haifa replied.


"Huh young people today are very difficult yes, given the same input who are more experienced in his art denied continuously. Educated out. Inget loh mbak Haifa, education is sometimes less the same experience."


"Yes mom. Haifa absorbed all mother's input. But that does not mean all input we can apply. Because every life, every household must have its own pattern. If input from mothers fits in my household pattern, I apply really. But if it doesn't fit, I don't have to force it, right? Because forcing the unsuitable is the same as no use, right?"


"Yes Haifa's mom, excuse me. Assalamualaikum."


Haifa left the circle of four mothers. From the beginning it was not Haifa who joined the mothers either. Haifa sat alone and her mother approached Haifa.


"There is a Holy Brother here" Haifa said as he approached Alvin.


"I wanted to samperin Ma'am Haifa. But I'm lazy there's Adi et al. Must have been Ma'am Haifa was given advice huh?"


"Haha yes. How did the Saints know?"


"Before Haifa, I was here the youngest. So I'm the one with the same outlook."


"There is a Holy Father."


"Yes, that's how it is. Don't take heart."


"No, what to do. Oh, did her husband come to the park as well?"


"Tuh momong Rifki together with your husband."


"Look off for a moment."


"looks relaxed. But children are the same Father what Mother what Mother what Mother."


"It's the same with us."


At 10:00 they had their way home, because it was hot. And the sunlight above at 10:00 was already not good.


"Sister, on the side of the road do not be too middle," said Haifa when Aina who was still full power had walked far in front of him.


"If it's been playing from the morning but Aina seems to still be full of battery," said Alvin.


"Alhamdulillah, the sign is he is healthy Papa. No matter how happy this mending looks at it. Instead of seeing Aina quiet, limp, even heartless," Haifa said.


"You were such an exciting conversation with mom. Sampu no nyamperin Mas."


"Seru. There is Haifa... Ah yes Mas, here try my right hand?"


"Have that been?" alvin asked, handing over his right hand.


"Where's the wedding ring?"


"Oh, there was this morning abis kan Mas work out for a while. So the ring came off. It's a little narrow."


Haifa nodded, "Why? Angry because I don't wear a ring?" ask Alvin.


"Huh. No way. There was a mother who was very attentive to Mas. Sampe's not wearing a wedding ring."


"Mrs Gery, right?"


"Yes. How do you know?"


"Perhaps before she nyamperin you, she nyapa mas first. Keep her son playing with Aina."


"Haifa becomes more lazy if there is a mother gathering event in the neighborhood."


"Why? Not that you said her mother's mother was good."


"Some are just a few people who like to comment. But yes from a handful of people who like to comment that they can herd the conversation and become even hibah."


"Haifa is not a saint. There may be many sins from other holes. So why did Haifa add to the pit of sin from ghibah."


"Continue Haifa would like to ask, if Haifa is in a group. In the group there are those who are ghibah. Well if so Haifa is not sinful? Haifa is not in ghibah. But Haifa is in the group. So how's?"


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To be continued...


See you next part...


*Hayoo can anyone answer Haifa's questions?