Married Man Bankrupt And Arogan

86. Learn to Control Emotions

I was very surprised to see what Rahmat did, but I was also not surprised to see Mr. Rahmat could not be invited to consult to get the best solution, either, considering that Rabi's grandmother was also difficult to talk to either, she only wanted to be fulfilled no matter how the fate of others.

"It's too bad, Mr. Grace, it turns out that he and his mother are the same, selfish, indifferent and do not want to know. He only thinks about his mother and family, does not want to know how other people feel," grumbled bu kades.

"It's okay mom, it's our fault, so let us find another solution to solve this problem" I said to calm the lady down.

Ms. Kades and other residents continued to grumble to express their regret to the Rabi grandmother's family. But me and Anggara just keep quiet do not want to be motivated by them.

We then decided to go home after saying goodbye and thank you for the help of ma'am kades and some residents. Because thanks to their help we were able to meet the son of Rabi's grandmother, although our apology to Rabi's grandmother's family was rejected.

It took me a week to recover his condition as usual. Simultaneously Devan and Dila came home when me and Anggara's brother came from picking up father and mother from the hospital. For a week, my mother continued to accompany my father in the hospital without going home at all.

Dila and Devan greeted us at home, my two sisters loved me and my husband. Then Dila and Devan greeted and kissed the mother's hand and they both hugged the mother.

"Patient mother, mom, Dila really did not think that you could betray your mother, " said Dila as she sobbed.

"Mother rest easy there is Devan who will always be ready to take care of mother. As the only son Devan is ready to work in order to support the mother, if the father and mother divorce later," said Devan very emotional.

"Of course, don't talk about it first, we better go in first. Do not immediately comment that is not good. Because the news you hear is not necessarily in accordance with the reality that happened"

Mother walked while embracing the waist of her two twins, because it seemed like Dila and Devan were reluctant to greet the father. Maybe my two sisters have heard bad news about my father from the news on television or on social media. Too young age may make them unable to think clearly and more use feelings in dealing with this problem.

Me, dad, Dila and Devan's mom, our family were sitting in the living room. While Anggara brother entered his work room to work from home. After everything was ready to listen, my mother started talking to explain the real problem. All the mothers told Dila and Devan, so that they understood the problem that his parents were facing.

"Mom hope you two don't continue to blame your father, if there is something to blame, blame me. Because the mother is the source of the initial problems in this family.

I apologize to you, if you could be a good wife long ago, maybe this problem did not happen," said the mother with a hoarse voice holding back tears.

Devan, who was looking down, now raised his face slowly. He looked at my father's face with teary eyes. Then the only son of the father stepped closer to the father and rested before the father.

"As a father's only son, Devan was deeply ashamed of his father, for he was prejudiced against the man Devan was most proud of in the world. It turns out that Devan can not think of adulthood, Devan is still dominated by emotions when he heard the news about the father and how painful the speech of people out there.

Dad just smiled and rubbed the shoots to Devan while chuckling making Devan's face more reddened with embarrassment.

"Honestly, I'm so proud to have you Devan. What you did just showed me that mom and dad had been successful in educating you to be a responsible man. A reliable man in our family, in lieu of a father ready to protect your two sisters Dila and Elena, as well as your mother.

But your young age and your flight hours are not yet high, making your emotions easily overflow when you hear the news less pleasant, especially when you hear bad comments from outsiders about our family.

I hope you learn to control your emotions. You also have to be calm in dealing with problems and when hearing bad news about yourself and the people you care about.

Know son, when your soul is overcome with emotion, your sanity will be disturbed. So you are no longer able to think clearly to analyze whether the news is true or wrong.

Like when you hear the news about a good father from your friends or from social media. If at that time you were able to think clearly and flashback backwards, you would know who the father is, right?

Have you ever liked anyone other than your mother? Have you ever betrayed your mother's loyalty? Have you ever seen me play crazy with another woman? Never has he?

As long as you know your mother and have a loving relationship until we get married. I always keep my heart for your mother. I don't talk like this because I feel like you're always right. Actually the father is also very guilty for having told the subject of the father's household to others, moreover, father told the opposite sex and coincidence without father knowing it turns out that for a long time the woman harbored the same feeling of father.

But I hope this mistake can be a lesson for all father children, so as not to easily tell or complain to others, especially the opposite sex about household problems. Because it can make people who do not like us have a gap to destroy our households," my father advised us at length.

"That's what dad said, and who likes to confide in and huddle about her husband is a wife.yes, yeah yeah," Anggara's sister turned out to have sat next to me and suddenly she said.

"Not all wives do it either, the proof is that the father also does. Indeed, my brother never did, "my mouth was upset, I saw the others holding a smile.

Said the father who likes to tell the secrets of the household is most wives. It is often done by a husband. So both the wife and husband must be able to refrain from easily telling the problems in the household.

It's better that the household problems be solved alone and only the two of them know, I think anyway.

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