Married Man Bankrupt And Arogan

4. Father's Advice

After Anggara's return, I decided to clean up to my parents.  It feels like sweat on this body feels sticky. I also want to calm down after experiencing various events today.  

After taking a bath and eating I fell asleep in my room.  Right one third of the night in a quiet atmosphere I woke up and took ablution water.  Tonight I will perform the istiharah prayer as suggested by Anggara's brother.

The morning after breakfast, father and mother asked about the proposal Anggara.  My heart is still worried even though it is more stable to accept the proposal of Anggara for the good of us all.  I hope love will come later.

"Dad would rather you accept Anggara nak's proposal, not be ashamed if you fail to marry Andrea.  But it seems like a good young Anggara, even though his attitude looks cold and unromantic," the father suggested.

"As women we are better loved than loved, son, if we are loved, we will always be loved and cared for but if we are too loving then we will tend to be taken advantage of by men who feel loved," the opinion of the mother.

"Will it be okay if the mother and father's children marry a bankrupt man and are in poverty" I then tell the cause of the bankruptcy of Anggara's sister company"

"It's okay son, possessions are not the absolute condition that makes a person's marriage happy.  It is better to marry someone who has no wealth but has the sincere intention to live together and make each other happy.  Than many treasures but a traitor like Andrea," replied the father.

All attempts to deny that my marriage and Anggara's brother did not occur have been expressed in front of my father and mother.  But my father and mother still insisted that I accept Anggara's proposal.  

Finally, to please my father and mother and to avoid the shame of my failed marriage.  After praying istiharah with sincere intention and hope ridho from the divine I decided to accept the proposal of Anggara.may he really be a good man, he said, hopefully I can love her with all my heart after marriage.

After feeling steady with my decision, I immediately took my phone and called Anggara's sister through the number she left yesterday.

"Seriously you accepted my proposal Elena" 

Anggara's voice across there looks Enthusiastic.it sounds so happy with my decision.

"Thank you Elena, I'm so happy right now that my dream of marrying the woman I love so much is coming true.  I'll come to your house soon and take care of all the wedding necessities" Anggara said excitedly.

Today my sister and I Anggara will buy something for the wedding.  Anggara's brother was riding a metic motorcycle he had just bought.

When the new man came to kiss the hands of his father and mother, repeatedly thanked my parents for their willingness to accept him as a son-in-law when he was in a state of bankruptcy and slumped.

"We accept you not only because we are ashamed that the wedding invitation of Elena and Andrea has been spread and some wedding preparations have been prepared.  But we accept you because we see your sincerity and sincerity in loving our daughter" my father said.  While staring at the netra Anggara.  While Anggara's sister nodded her head to understand.

Back father continued to talk that the bankruptcy and poverty of Anggara brother at this time is not a problem, father said he did not need a rich son-in-law who can spoil me with his property.  But I want a daughter-in-law who loves her daughter and accepts me for who I am.  Able to guide a wife to get to heaven.

After a long conversation with my parents, Anggara said goodbye to father and mother to go to buy hand-drawn goods.  Of course it is with great pleasure that my father and mother allow it.

I'm piggybacking on a meticulous motorcycle for Anggara.  On the way from my house to the market.  Not a word came out of the mouth of the man who was going to be my husband.

About half an hour later we arrived at the parent market which is famous for being crowded because the price is relatively cheap.

"Sorry yes I can only buy things in this place, because if we are quick, the possibility of my money is not enough.  You see, I also have to calculate the cost of marriage and the cost of living after we get married"

I nodded at the sign.  Anggara also expressed his intention that after marriage he wanted to meet his needs from his own sweat not from the results of my parents' gifts.

In addition, he also does not want to use my work money for household purposes.  He wants his wife to live a rough life from his efforts.

The man just walked right away, without inviting me, he continued to step without paying attention to me behind him and jostling with market visitors.  I had just first gone to the market of course had difficulty following his long steps and occasionally almost collided with people who stepped hastily.

I saw him stop at a clothing store, and I stopped near him.  He looked at me.

"Let's choose his clothes, mukena and whatever is needed in the session, maybe you know better.  I'm sorry I don't know anything because I've never been married" Anggara said.  

I still remember the best gift Andrea gave me a week ago.  I also buy the same type of goods but the quality and price are different.  Of course, buying in the fifty percent price market is even cheaper.

"It turns out the price is very cheap.  All my life this time I bought something so cheap.  Though it never crossed my mind to buy my future wife this cheap stuff," said Anggara.

Anggara's spontaneous speech makes the store owner and his employees immediately look at it with a view of dislike.

"He.mas if you have a lot of money, please just buy clothes dibutik famous and expensive.  Do not buy here, but the goods here are also what you despise.  Pake is said to be all cheap stuff," said the store owner.

"Yes cheap ma'am, see the price is only hundreds of thousands.  I used to buy a piece of clothing cost tens or even hundreds of millions of bu, I was forced to buy here because my money was not enough to buy an expensive one," anggara immediately replied to the speech of the store owner in his arrogant style.

Watching Anggara's current style of speaking reminds me of Anggara's behavior and style a few years ago. Of course the character of Anggara's brother is what makes me never like the man.  Hopefully after becoming my husband little by little Anggara can behave and speak better words.  It was my prayer in my heart while continuing to pay attention to the debate of my future husband and the shop owner.

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