Married Man Bankrupt And Arogan

19. How much you give

Dila immediately smiled and gave her two thumbs up.

"But that was before, big sister had never had sister Elena, big sister's heart was still curious.  Unlike the situation with later, the longer the age increases, ten or twenty years into the future, the condition of Elena's sister is no longer, beautiful and sexy as it is today, as well as your bed life.  Brother Elen may already feel boring in bed.   While out there, young women are still so exciting.  About the bed, young women who like the husband's treasure of people must be more agile, pisit and bite.   Can make Anggara will be enamored with them, just be careful," threatened Dila to Anggara who is still smiling.

The new father came straight to snatch Dila's head until he shouted to call dad. 

"Far away I give you in another city, what is just a bed business that you learn, so you are so fluent in talking about it" continued the father. 

Mom and I laughed and saw Dila holding her head.  Dad took a chair and sat down to join us.   While Anggara's brother began his work making dough to pick up bananas.  I also helped by peeling the bananas that had been purchased in the market.  I saw Dad was gonna start talking to us. 

"You heard all my sons and daughters-in-law.  In a marriage there are many trials, many twists.  Likewise, the name of love between husband and wife, the rate sometimes goes down, sometimes it goes up.

Plus the temptation of the neighboring grass that looks greener than the grass in the yard itself.  But one thing we must realize, we have the mind and mind that will control our actions that are not good. 

If you always follow the religious advice.   When you are not married and choose a wife, you always open your eyes wide to look at women from all sides.  From her beauty, character, intelligence, morals and faith. All you see, even if no woman is perfect.  Because you are also aware, you are not perfect either.   But I will choose the best woman according to my father and want to accept my father as he is of course. 

But after I made a choice to your mother and married her.  I bowed my gaze when I met another woman and I only looked at your mother's face, so that only your mother is the most beautiful according to father because I have no comparison, namely other women. 

Well as a husband or wife so that you are not easily tempted by the opposite sex then submit your views of the opposite sex who is not your mahram, your partner always seems the most attractive because you never see the other so you can't compare" said the father.

"Is it true that you are like that mom, sure you never look at other women," asked Dila.

My mother nodded her head.  According to my mother, father is not a romantic male figure, father is always indifferent and impressed indifferent, even when young father is very arrogant.  Father and mother married because they were betrothed, but they were both able to build commitment and try to foster love between the two.

Time passed and my brother Anggara and I continued to do our work, making some kinds of processed bananas.  Dila and Mom helped him too.

After all the work is done, we put it on the table.   Neighbors who had learned that my husband was selling cheese bananas, fried bananas and some other bananas came to the house.  While my husband delivered orders ordered by several people from social media.   

"Elen-elen, you are beautiful, educated, why choose the husband of a fried banana seller like this.   Mending you're Andrea's wife, so a second wife is fine.   You didn't take people's husbands.  It was the woman who captured Andrea.  Because you are too weak and pretentious to finally have a husband like this kere just a fryman.  Where the guy seems to be really jutek again.  You are patient, Elen," said my neighbor Lastri.  

Hearing the neighbor's words, Elena simply smiled, she remembered her husband's advice that others' opinions of us were none of our business, the most important being our opinions of ourselves.

"It's okay ma'am, property does not guarantee someone to be happy, the proof now I feel very happy, even though having a husband is not as rich as it is in the mind of the mother.  Mother is not rich either, but I see her life is happy" I replied casually. 

The mother always felt happy despite living a simple life because it was from childhood she always lived hard so yes already used to it.

After the woman came home shortly after a young girl came back, she would buy a cheese banana.  I also served him well.

"Kak Elen really want to marry the friedman and also want to be the brother of Elen so the fryer as well," selorohnya. 

"Yes, it may have been the fate of the deck brother to be a match with the fried man," I replied just so.

The girl immediately laughed at my answer, she said that a soul mate is a choice because we can still choose the better and reject the bad.  I also laughed back at his words. 

"You're right deck, we can choose who will be our husband, and according to brother, sister husband is the best man that sister has chosen.   If in your opinion he is not good yes it is your business that is important according to his brother he is the best, it is the brother who undergoes not you, "my answer. 

"It is very difficult to be advised if it has been eaten by love, hopefully do not let me fall in love.," said the young girl as she passed away. 

Time continues to pass, Anggara's brother has gone home, while the merchandise at home has lived a few more.   We finally closed. We sold and gave unsold fried bananas to my dad, mom and everyone in the house. 

Kak Anggara calculated today's income he handed over the money from the day's profit after withdrawing his capital to sell again tomorrow. 

"this is our money today, you save it, use it for our needs.   From now on you hold and manage our money.   You're okay to just get a little money as a living from me," asked Anggara. 

Hearing my husband's words I felt deeply moved.  Whatever my husband gave me, I am always grateful.   Because it includes sustenance and a beautiful gift.  

It is not his value that makes me happy to receive money from him but how he struggles to get it. 

"Thank you baby, you are the best friend God has given me"

My husband took me to rest after tidying up all the equipment for sale.  

Tomorrow I want to get up early, I want to prepare all my husband needs before he goes to the market to buy groceries.

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