
For a moment I fell silent to compose a word to deny that mother's words were not absolutely true.
"Ah this mother is too much, if my advice is ma'am, but this is just advice yes not tell, if you think good mother do and if not yes already.
If I think the words of mom and dad are equally painful. But you know you were like that, selfish and want to win by yourself. If you talk like it, never feel afraid if there are people who are hurt by his words.
Same difference mothers who have intelligence overcome on average. It is certain that talking is always careful and weighty"
I had to vilify my father and favor my mother, so that she would not continue to be angry with me.
"Well, as a person who knows better and is more sane, you better meet your father, talk well and apologize, yes even though you are not wrong in my opinion. But trying to be magnanimous and admit to being wrong clearly looks more elegant than feeling right and pretentious but actually really hoping to be kind again, "I continued.
mother thought for a moment, her eyes looking at the floor with a blank look. I patiently waited for my mother's reaction, did she agree with me.
"Let's just apologize, I'm still hurt by your father's words. You have to prepare the words if the father later advises the mother as if the mother is wrong.
"Yes, I thought about cooking. But remember mom has been a week mother and father marahan it means that for a week mother ignored the duties of mother as wife. Do not let this actually make the father more accustomed to living without a mother at his side.
Especially if you want a relationship in bed, you are still angry. Father is also a human mother, although the father may not be intertwined*kuh, but what if the husband of the mother who is always friendly and romantic with the mother, the same mother, but what if the mother, secretly playing solo by imagining beautiful widows in our complex. Is mom willing? "
I'm trying to heat up mom so she has the desire to cure her problem the same dad.
"Or how about we just go ahead, in front there is Anggara's brother. I pretended to welcome the arrival of my favorite daughter-in-law and see the reaction of my father, if he looks good, yes I'm sorry, otherwise it's not necessary," I kept giving him input so he would consider his decision. Until finally mom agreed to go out of the room and meet Anggara brother who was chatting with dad.
I took my mother's hand to go downstairs where my father and husband were there
"Eh.. healthy mother, long time no see mother, Anggara kangen you want in omelin with mother, " said my husband while welcoming the arrival of mother, kiss her hands and embrace her. Anggara brother is strange too, sometimes jutek really, talk ketus including the same old man, but other times he can change his attitude to be very friendly and warm to anyone, he said, including my mother at this time. Hearing the babbling of his favorite son-in-law, mother immediately hit my husband's shoulder with a great deal of anxiety.
I'm fine, I'm just upset with someone, so I prefer to be alone in the room.
Beyond my expectations and mother, it turns out that father rose from his seat he hugged my mother. I'm sorry mom, I can't keep mom's feelings. Father has spoken harshly, supposedly as a priest in this family, as the head of the household as well, the father behaved legowo despite getting bad and painful speech from the lips of the mother.
"If mother's words according to father are hurtful, what is the news with father's words telling mother to seling*kuh only because father wants to look for younger and more bahenol, " say mom with a loud voice.
Sorry mom, I was talking like that because I was lured into mother's talk. If only you were being nice and keeping your mouth spoken, maybe you couldn't have spoken rudely like that time" said the father.
They argue with each other that their attitude is most correct. I looked towards Anggara's sister and asked her to mediate, with sign language of course.
Anggara approached the father and whispered something in his ear. My father seemed to be listening to the sentence after sentence spoken by my husband. After that Anggara brother went to step away leaving us to go to the kitchen where there is a dining table.
"Well dad admitted wrong mom, daddy can't keep daddy oral. Maybe because of the influence of age so easily angry. I'm sorry ma'am we're good again, we're dear. Anyway in the future dad will be a good husband, who always pleases mom, yes we do well mom, I'm sorry"
Dad kissed mom's palm and then she prostrated herself in front of the woman I love.
"Yes already... already..if indeed the father maksa asked to be forgiven forced to forgive. But promise never to say words that hurt the mother's feelings. Mother also promised to keep the mother's mouth so as not to hurt the father," said the mother sobbed. Dad hugged mom, we all felt we had to see both parents rekindle after a week of ceasefire.
I glanced at my husband and whispered, What sister has persuaded me to apologize to you. He nodded his head. I managed to give understanding to the father who wanted to repay the treatment of his mother by silencing her so that she felt tormented.
I told Dad, silencing a woman when she's angry is not the right attitude. Because it will make women more angry and unappreciated existence. It is better to apologize and admit wrong, because it makes him feel flattered and realize that he is wrong. Although in reality women never want to admit their mistakes, because women are the most righteous creatures. But yes it's okay, it's a risk we as men who marry women who always have to give up because we are more sane.
If we don't want to give in to women and always want to win, we don't have to marry women. This means that there is no choice but to give in and apologize, even if you feel wrong.
I pinched my husband's arm, it turned out that there was only reason to be able to make my parents who felt right could make mother confess her mistake indirectly.
"Let's Anggara, Elena we eat first, that assistant has provided lunch menu for us," said my mother who from earlier spoke with father, I don't know what they were talking about. But the real mother looks more cheerful.
When we started eating lunch. An assistant came to us. Ma'am, sir.there was Rabi's grandmother coming for a visit," said the mother and father's home assistant paid for by my husband.
"Just have him come in, and get our dinner shirts together. Because it's lunchtime" replied the father briefly.
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