
After my home application was completed a few weeks after that, the men asked my family to go to their house to determine the date, so that everything was finished quickly, so that we take care of the letter and others .
When the family mas andra told his house I said the same mother if the men sent home for a date for marriage.
Mom says wait for her legs to come home first her feet just a week away from home,
Why wait for him too this is the marriage of a mother's child not a child he's not my biological father anymore right, pas already home then lakinya I just told the mas if tomorrow they go home .
This guy promises to be ready for magrib but even ngaret even though it was from noon on the phone and just said yes yes and iyya and I said aja gini ngak hrus waiting for him too I feel most important.
In the afternoon I make the same cake to make it so that and already that afternoon all is ready for fruit - fruit n also already in sialin all already complete made in the bring later.
I also called my father I mean adek father who wants to be my guardian later .
If there were still my own father who would have married me at that time, yahhh caca kangen would have liked nanggis but this is a happy day for caca.
At eight o'clock nih belom also came to the person whose family mas andra already on the call, already on angry - angry because belom dateng also the end I told aja brother, brother, my father and my neighbors went there first so that someone represented there, ngak good people they have been waiting for a long time.
And the end of it already dapet date 18 February will coincide Friday, and on the men's side the nineteen date coincides Saturday right.
Because the day is only a month away if I wait for the mother who ngurus ngak going to utus has been two weeks left but she has not moved also akhit my own move.
Initially gur to the guardian office nagari so ask for a marriage license after that we nyiapin terms - the conditions again right, initially we to the puskesmas to inject me and my candidate, right, only if I inject catin if the candidate mah ngak right.
Tomorrow go photo for a wedding book and after that we took time to eat outside right I bent again on the waist can not come out again, because it is customary yes jafi ngikutin aja.
After that the stone to the office of KUA because it was less than ten days so asked for a letter of dispensation at the office of Camat and after it's back again k KUA so back and forth , after all finished we finally calm down.
Where we have to fight alone - without anyone willing to care even to help ngak no need to move together because we both who are going to be married fight together face all exams , obstacles to halal.
May our fatigue be a blessing and this struggle be a happiness, always just looking for the pleasure of his god towards his jannaj together