Second Woman

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Without me expecting Muthia to come to me and what surprised me even more was that Muthia offered financial help. Does he think I look so poor that I have to beg him for mercy, but I'll take advantage of that later, just wait for the next game, it's not over. Before I decide to step down, I have to make sure that my life will not be hard pennies, and that I will get as soon as possible, mastering the property of her husband and women.

"It's late in the afternoon, we should go home now, pity the children." Sandra spoke with a flat expression without wanting to look at her husband.

"All right." Aswin turned to Muthia and was answered with a nod and a warm smile, tenderness and understanding that always made Aswin feel comfortable for a long time to be close to Muthia.

"A little while, I was making a snack for a kid." Muthia goes to the kitchen to pick up some pastry jars and two brownie boxes to give to Sandra as by.

Sandra accepted it stiffly with a forced smile. "Thank you." With a cold face and unfriendly look, her eyes flushed from the rest of the crying a few minutes ago, Muthia tried to understand it.

"Yes, same tea, healthy healthy yes." Muthia grabs Sandra in an embrace before parting ways.

"Alright, we go first yes, mother heart at home, if anything immediately tell father." said Aswin.

"Yes, my father is also heartily driven, when it has reached the house of news." Muthia replied with a smile even though her heart was holding back the tightness.

Sandra just silently pecked beside the car door, her mind was already caught off guard at the closeness of her husband and honeymoon sister.

Aswin who realized Sandra's dislike, immediately followed towards Sandra waiting.

 

After the departure of the husband with his first wife, Muthia went into the house with feelings that I don't know, Muthia's mind and heart were filled with strange feelings that disturbed her mind.

'Why was I talking to Sandra's tea after that, my feelings became unsettled, I felt like there was something Sandra's tea was hiding, but what? I hope this is just my feeling.'

When the heart is unable to resist the feeling, that's when the soul is ensnared in helplessness, I am well aware that my presence has made other women hurt, that's why all this time I've always tried to be quiet and try to accept whatever treatment from my honey, I always try to position myself on him, but why I still haven't got the sincerity. If only I had survived not to accept Aswin kang on the grounds that I did not want to hurt, maybe this relationship would not be this complicated. But my defense collapsed when the plea from a wife for her husband, I should have understood better the conditions at that time, if there was not a single woman who could afford to share, after all, there will be jealousy and injuries that come to him.

God forgive me, if this self has hurt another woman, if I have to retreat for good, I will. Give the servant strength and the path to that good.

Muthia contemplates the journey of her story, becoming the second woman in her household, her immense love for Aswin is able to defeat the pain of injustice in sharing, currently only resigned and trying to make an effort in living the destiny, he said, to keep my soul sane and healthy.

Aswin chose to be quiet during the journey home, his heart was still gambled by what Sandra had done, but Aswin tried to realize and understand the attitude of his first wife, it was, although there is no denying there is a sense of annoyance and want to be angry, but all that will not be able to solve the problem, I don't know....

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- Learn the great love

Stop regretting something that happened. This will disrupt psychological stability. It will even hinder yourself in mapping out better action and direction of goals in the present and future.

If in the past doing something is not based on love. Don't regret. But make the trigger to create living spaces filled with feelings of love. If agreed with the theory developed by Erich Fromm in "The Art of Love" that Most people become "living void because of feelings without love". Because his mindset just wants to be loved and never wants to learn to love.

The mindset of just wanting to be loved is selfish love. A mindset that will not foster empathy for people who should get their love. Is it true that one does not love when married to another? If so, it should be that if someone has a great love then they should begin to learn to feel the depth of the heart of the person they do not love. What if it hit him?

Yes, in his theory Erich Fromm one of the great feelings of love must be the birth of empathy for his life partner. More than that, said Erich Fromm, must also be born behavior commitment, awareness, responsibility and loyalty.

The great owner of love, there is no remorse even though he does not love. Because regret is the radiance of selfish love that only rests on yourself without wanting to learn to share love with others. Fromm said that great love can be an active force that resides in a person. The power of learning to share is able to overcome the wall that separates a person with his partner.. Strengths that will inspire a person to learn to unite with his partner.

Great love is a symbol of one's strength to establish intimacy between two poles of different flavors in the context of intimacy (intimacy), where each learns to love each other in order to maintain the unity together. Fromm criticizes selfish people..According to him, selfish people will not be able to love others, they also will not be able to love themselves.

So, stop regretting when you feel you do not love someone when you will and have entered the household life. Don't be a coward, "you enjoy the physicality of the person loving you, but the other side never learns to love the person has willingly given his body to you"". Bob Marley, a reggae musician from Jamaica, said "the biggest coward is a man who wakes up a woman's love without intending to learn to love her back"

Learn love for Buya Hamka, according to him "love is like fighting in the battlefield. Great war in the human spirit. If he wins, he will be found sincere, broad-minded, patient and calm. If he loses, will be found people who are desperate, lost, weak hearted, small feelings and even sometimes lost confidence in themselves.

For Buya Hamka, "great love does not teach us to be weak, but to awaken strength. Love does not teach us to humiliate ourselves, but to exhale courage. Love does not weaken the spirit, but it awakens the spirit.

Learn also to Rumi a noble sufistic, according to him "great love will turn rudeness into tenderness, turn an irrepressible person into a firm opinion, turn a coward into a brave, turn suffering into happiness, and learning to be loved and loved can bring positive changes to life day and night.

Stop feeling unloving. Said Sir Muhammad Iqbal a poet of the world, be a dynamic person (insan kamil), "a moment of doubt and feeling empty of existing and no love in a life, a, I learned to love and be loved. While studying, then love announces that I am there to love and be loved".