Merantau To Riau Islands

The home of the future-in-law

Migrating to riau islands 84

The Part 84

People say before marriage there are indeed many storms that block the defense of prospective married couples. From parents, prospective in-laws, ex-lovers come again, there are winds will get a new job, revealed one by one shortcomings and mass of prospective couples.

The word ustadz is a test for couples who are getting married. Satan will continue to tempt the children of Adam to get lost and not to carry out the longest ritual of worship of all time. If the son of Adam is strong faith does not waver until marriage, when married later the devil will also always be tempting through the economy, husband, wife, parents, in-law, brother-in-law, child, others, man/other women or neighbors.

A wife may be sincere even though the mind is treated arbitrarily by her husband and family. The successful work of the devil makes the husband and his family hate a wife and daughter-in-law finally the wife chooses to lose for the sake of birth and inner happiness.

Likewise with me who is faced with the fact that the parents of prospective husbands still do not want to accept me for several reasons. He said I made his son into a dissident even though his son like that was from childhood.

Before meeting me he was already in a match he did not want to even fall into promiscuity. A woman can accept her future husband's past until she is married will not bring up her husband's past even though she is not sure her husband is changing or becoming more so.

But, not necessarily the prospective husband wants to accept the past of his future wife if it can be certain after marriage in a state of bickering, the husband will bring up the past of his wife. The wife's self-esteem becomes lower even though she is able to give birth, it can also be the backbone of the family even though her husband is alive.

There is also a husband as I see the lack of responsibility as a guardian for his nephew when the inheritance is not in favor of women.

The lack of empathy towards fellow women is very strong they can only say patient. When they get the same treatment, asking for solutions in humans is never obtained. Ask God for a solution whether the problem will end.

I became upset what steps should I take ?

"Till it too, Na! Prepare your mentality! We'll meet my parents." As a result of many thoughts I have not arrived in Depok.

"Before that we went somewhere, to my friend's house first to ask his parents to persuade my parents." Ryan wants to ask for parental blessing through the intermediary of others. I am afraid I am also lazy to meet his parents.

For now I am still worried whether I will marry him is not it? I doubt him, his parents and his past like that. It is unfair for a woman to accept herself as she is.

Two hours drive to his friend's house. I'm afraid to meet new people.

"Assynnya!"

"Girlwindsalam! Come also lo, ray!"

"Yes, dong!"

"Go in first."

"No need to sit outside, we're in a hurry. I'm critical."

"Yes, I've." Sitting outside they were busy chatting I was very uncomfortable with the situation how to get married and follow the husband to his house.

"You want to get married but you don't dare to talk to your parents. Yeah, take it easy let me help you. But, there is a price you have to pay!"

"How much should I pay?"

"Not much anyway. Give me a job at your place."

"That's easy. What's important is that you don't want to be lazy." We follow Ryan's friend named zeus somewhere we were taken by him.

"Assynnya!"

"Girlwindsalam! Turns out you guys come in."

"No, we're in a hurry. Ryan's father is sick. Oh, yeah, where's Daniel?"

"Daniel out for a second. Is your dad sick? Since when?"

"It was a year ago uncle."

"Look at our uncle straight to his point. They both want to get married but Ryan's parents do not want to bless them. Yeah, scared like we have young people like what we are. They want to ask uncle to persuade ryan's parents that they want to let them marry and want to accept Nazalia when ryan asks her to stay at his house later."

"Yes, uncle. I begged my uncle to persuade my parents. Tribal issues are not a problem for me, I hope my parents do not mind the origins of Nazalia and her family. I wanted to protect my wife from being so passive that the outside daughter-in-law was not well received following her husband into her in-laws' house. Yes, it can only be like that which I can describe. I want to live the household quietly."

"Then it's good. When are we going to your house?"

"Now they're in a hospital in this town."

It feels good that Ryan is indeed able to be a husband who keeps his promise. Not only spread the promise of false ends and the loss of the wife. Hopefully ryan can really protect his wife from death threats named in-laws after my mother never harassed her daughter-in-law.

Before going to the hospital we buy souvenirs first for those who are on guard at the hospital.

***

Arrived at the hospital to ryan's father's treatment room. My heart beats unbecoming. There was a fear of meeting his parents. When the daughter of the person who was brought to live in the house of her husband took a long time to acclimate. Sad to leave your parents and relatives.

When at home the husband is not even in good treatment even in say hitchhiking. Want me to squeeze the mouth of a person who talks like that. Son-in-law hitchhiking because his son has not been able to provide a home for his wife.

"Assynnya!"

"Waalaikum hail! You're ryan! Uh, zeus, Adrian. Please come in."

"Where are the children's fathers?" Ryan put the souvenirs in the hospital safe.

"Yes, it's still critical mas." A middle-aged man was lying in a cage with an infusion in both hands and oxygen hoses in his mouth and nose. The difference between life and death. Wanted me to ask what the disease was but was hoarse.

"According to ryan. His father's kids got sick already from a year ago?"

"It hurt more than a year ago. But, when I entered the hospital indeed from a year ago." they chatted long enough I've been claustrophobic. What's wrong with me? Meeting new people is like this. Since when have I been like this? Like his intention to get married I want to postpone it first.

Ryan seemed to understand my mood. Did ryan know? Sebeb since I first met I just quietly heard the chatter that people laugh I come to laugh often become the subject of ridicule of others. I just keep quiet, people laugh I laugh.

"Look, madam train. "

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