Merantau To Riau Islands

Love for Nana

Travel to Riau Islands

#Part 55

Ryan I admit to being the most active student on campus. Whatever events the campus does always come along. It doesn't feel like Ryan isn't coming. The show was lifeless.

Other than me who is rarely active, I am only active in the community that I like. I also do not rely on friends, because friends do not follow. We also do not participate, it does not have the ability to adjust to new people. Lack of confidence, that's not my type.

Silent

"Na, we've known you for a long time, I think I am?" Ryan chose to break the silence between us.

"It's a habit. Why?" Turned his face toward Ryan.

Ryan took a deep breath. "Nothing else is that?"

"We have known for a long time. We rarely meet because of the local differences. Others you quickly adjust to others, connect, nice to chat with them." As far as I was concerned, I had only ever seen the way he adapted to other students.

"For you, good at it, talk?"

"If you keep up, be polite. Yeah, it's comfortable." Yes, it must be polite, otherwise, which woman is comfortable with a bad man?

"Gini, Na! We have graduated. What's your next plan?" Plan, I don't know. Either a bachelor's degree is not going to stick to me? Become a neighbor's material.

"My plan, to go home. Find a job, go to Jakarta."

"No intention to find that life partner?" Life partner? Sure yeah. But, for now hold it first.

"There was. But, later, I'll work first. Happy for parents. After that, I'm looking for a life partner."

"How much money?"

"24 years."

"Well, it's been 24. Usually women when they are 23 years old. They don't want to be alone for too long anymore, I need certainty from lovers want to get married quickly, join the husband into the house of in-laws so ordinary IRT."

"Yes, it's they're not me, I don't want to rush. Being happy with your parents is more important than finding a partner. If my ideals want to repay the services for parents have been achieved just married. I am not a woman who wants to forget their service. I went to college in Batam with my own income does not burden my parents at all. Want to repay the services of those who have cared for me from childhood to the age of 18 years. It's each other's choice."

"Well, it's their duty to care for, raise and send us to college."

"It turns out this woman is an independent woman, not lazy, hoping full of family income. It seems this woman is very suitable to be made a wife. His mindset is also mature. Unfortunately it still closed his heart." Inner Ryan.

"I want to invite you to commit, we are adults, we have our own goals. Starting something from Zero, crawling together, climbing mountains, passing valleys, displeased with laughter and tears. I think it started something from Zero. More promising to create a family that is sadinah mawaddah and warrahmah. Is there a desire for that?"

"There was. But, later. There comes a time when I will find a life partner. Now, I want to hone my skills first. Because for me, women need skills for my future. I'm married, I don't want to stay at home. He lives in my house or we contract away from our parents, in-laws and brothers-in-law. Because for some people. They're deadly, domestic destroyers."

"Sorry, rude talk. As far as my experience most households are shaken by dog because of in-laws and in-laws. They like to interfere, like to blame one of the parties. Even if the blame is true. Living in the home of in-laws is also not mandatory nor is sunnah, the husband is obliged to separate the wife from her in-laws. Preparing proper clothing, food and boards so as not to be of marital origin, the wife and abandoned children end up taking refuge behind the word destiny. I don't want that to happen, love isn't everything.

"Economy, women are able to survive with a mediocre economy. To meet the nutrition of children simply cannot. Husband is one-sided, jealous mother does not know her son has a tough answer to his wife and children. The in-laws also do not know the son must precede his obligations to the wife until quite new parents. The parents-in-law also do not know that the child is not only his. But, it belongs to God, wife and child."

"You don't like in-laws?"

"Not dislike, just too love a servant, to create a bad attitude. Hurt the heart of a daughter-in-law. I don't like that experience of seeing the many reasons people fill PA offices. It also depends, if the nature is good, do not interfere, do not hurt the heart of the daughter-in-law like it. Consider the child's own son-in-law, who has been willing to leave the home of his parents who are comfortable for the sake of filial piety to his son. Not even in saying someone else who lives with his child. If they live. Man also lives on the earth of God.

if the daughter-in-law is not possible even a little who would disturb the in-laws because parents who are obedient and devoted have been taught from childhood. Loving the young is rare."

Hearing Nana's words, Ryan slightly understand the character of Nana, seprtinya not a woman carelessly. "Oh, yeah. Do you want to find an established man?"

"Not really, just don't want to continue a chaotic household like those who are divorced, because the economy, in-laws, in-laws, other women or men are sacrificing children. A father who has married again, many also forget the responsibility for their children. An orphan who is the responsibility of his guardian. There are many irresponsible guardians. Not my story. Experience from friends, relatives, neighbors and fellow nomads."

"Because of them you're suudzon."

"Be careful. Before happening. One more thing, I want a faithful man one to death, not two, three, or four. I don't like men who turn their hearts away easily. It is easy to say that love wants to marry him ends up neglecting his living. I don't like."

"If he's established?"

"Also do not like, because men are not my need. There are many paths to heaven. I don't want to follow the words of a man with a narrow mindset, saying only one way to heaven for a woman. Checking out the same as the others. But, according to my other lessons, there is no science in getting such a person."

"Do you want to be two after you get married?"

"If there is one, why two? I don't want to be a greedy man. Not enough, it is halal. But, not just anyone who is allowed polygamy. Most polygamy now also damages households. The first goes, the second also goes live our own men in old age."

"Personal experience?"

"Yes, there's been a lot of happenings in my family and that kind of environment."

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