Merantau To Riau Islands

Talk to brother-in-law

"Wudhu first yuk, we congregate!

"Yes, Bang."

Long talk until do not remember the time Ashar lived a little. Fatih is being lulled in the dreamland, replace ablution and then pray congregation, Bang Faisal become Imam."

Allah akbar.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah's 

Finished greetings do not forget to kiss the back of the hands of the husband signifying children, sisters, and devoted wives. Praying for God, asking for forgiveness of sins, given health, facilitated sustenance and blessed this life.

While waiting for the azan magrib to arrive, we teach, Bang Faisal's voice is more melodious, maybe always teaching so as not to forget the recitation of the Qur'an. Usually people who love the world like to forget the same obligation to the almighty. But, as a good servant, try not to disbelieve with the blessings given by the almighty.

Azan magrib. We pray sunnah 2 Raka'at continued magrib prayer. After that shower because it was sultry with the weather changes that I experienced, the heat of the city of batam is moist can release sweat faster and remove dead skin cells.

While waiting, I tidied up the clothes in the room, the room that had been cleaned before I came, equipped with a 4-door closet commonly used by teenagers and fans, they have 2 fans Wind, they have 2 fans, the ones I wear belong to Bang Faisal, they wear the property of sister shela.  I just tidied up my stuff and rubbed while uploading Photos in the blue logo App.

I see, Bang Faisal really loved his wife, the strength of their love is also strong.The wife is also more beautiful, usually if married it's her beauty will fade it's not because, because, sister Shela diligent care, Bang Faisal also gave enough capital to buy skincare. 

I see, sister, Shela is also a righteous wife. I don't know when our relationship is like this. I live with brother-in-law, said the man-in-law is death. There is often a dispute for several reasons. Rarely does it get along, demons often interfere with husband and wife relationships through in-laws, and in-laws.

I looked out, saw Brother Shela tidying up the food at the dinner table. Put the plates, glasses, rice, side dishes that I brought earlier, and gulai our favorite jackfruit that was deliberately made by kak shela for us. 

"Yuk, Nana, we're eating."

"Bang yuk, we eat."

"Tomorrow." said Bang Faisal.

"Na, this is my sister's favorite jackfruit gulai."

"Well, thank you, brother, no need to bother.

"It's okay to relax, Mother also often send kebatam field cuisine.

"Yes, sis, while you have it, I also can't bear to eat well have a restaurant anyway. Like to remember his son either had eaten somehow not, eat sambal what?" what money is it not?"

"Yes, his name is a parent, which parent does not think about his child, different we are children either think of his parents either not."

"Mother."

"Yes, they have a certain reason, thinking too much about his work, his new family to forget to think about his parents who have contributed to his son."

"Many of my brothers, I often read the news in the sosmed, pity their brother, parents become beggars, homeless, live a kara in a hut bothered, in the public, on the streets, in the streets, under the bridge, over the edge and in the forest. I don't know where the kids are, I don't know where his brother doesn't care, care a little ajalah by putting him in a nursing home."

"Sometimes people's thoughts do not get to Na, they are big apart from parents, so many forget the same as others.

They have their own reasons, fear of being bothered, troublesome, when they are small also taken care of, take care of it, raise it, send it as high as possible, sell the house, the land, the garden, the rice fields, the heritage, the family, whatever is done by his parents when his son gets a good life, they have grown up forgetting everything, unless his parents left him when he was a child also taken care of others so they live. Not getting along with children by abandoning them in childhood, irresponsible, divorced forgetting the responsibility of their children.

"Keep, what do you think of a brother like that?"

"Yes according to the brother, the child who does not remember the services of his parents yes the child does not know himself, indeed a good parent he will not ask for the assortment, the same responsibility of his child no matter what happens, he will not ask, thinking about the future of his son and himself in old age trying to do the best after that resigned everything to God. 

As a child, remain filial to parents, whatever parents remain parents, because he is we are in this world. The problem of the sin of surrender to God, the law of the harvest applies, not in the world, in the hereafter will apply.

"Ever, I read, if the one who takes care of the parents is a boy, because the boy belongs to his parents at any time. If a daughter prefers a husband to a parent, if the husband does not allow his wife to be devoted to his parents, the wife must be manut must not be fainted, there is a proposition about that."

"According to the sister, it's a husband who does not know himself, wants the same child but does not want to be with his family, but married right, uniting both foreign families in the form of marriage, not taking a daughter from her parents. There is a proposition, but, to believe the proposition accompanied by adab and attitude of fellow humans habitinannas, the relationship between humans and other humans.

"Are they wrong, brother?"

"Wrongly, because the use of postulates is not accompanied by adab, even according to religion, using adab used to be new science."

"What else is there in the spirit of discussion of people, if parents are sick and die, if the husband does not allow his wife to visit the parents who have given birth to him. Ngenes was very heard, brother, I want to meet them if they do not have a son, his life is destitute in the future, want to know how he feels but, he said, I remember that bad prayer goes back to the one who said amit-amit."

"Yes, there is a proposition, but it is a long time ago where women only, in the kitchen, gargled and groomed, if married 100% of their lives serve the husband. But, which husband used to be, the husband who put forward a new adab of knowledge. A good husband must educate his devoted wife to him and his parents. That's what you learn about marriage and thank God your brother taught you the same thing."

"Yes, sister, because according to minang and matriliineal people, the parents are taken care of by their daughters, girls also become the property of their parents at any time, at any time, if a boy is an adult they get married leaving his home stay at home in-laws and migrate wherever they want, go home somehow, sending fees for parents and siblings who will take care of their parents. Alhamdulillah minang men do not distinguish between parents and where in-laws, not just minang in each region must exist, depending on the person. lase we do not become children who do not know themselves Amiin."

"Yes, Na, Amiin."

"Alhamdulillah brother get a good husband, do not forbid filial sister to parents sister, hopefully you are also like brother, Amiin!! 

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