Lurah Pondokku Candidate My Husband

37. Mental Preparation

Pov Alimudin's

My marriage is just counting the days, according to my intention, I returned to my house in Sulawesi is in addition to invite family to attend my wedding, my return is also to meet the expectations of my future wife to give dowry with the results of my work, and my family will be, not from my family's money. I'm just a santri, who's been busy reading books all my life.

I did work as a salesman and join my uncle working in the Las factory, but I did that just to find experience, my main focus is teaching and nyantri. That was my parents' hope long ago.

I work with my sister, go to the kebon, whatever work makes money, I do, as long as it is lawful.

Preparation to go to Java has been Fix 100%, Alhamdulillah we were given a wide windfall. At my wedding, the whole family came back to Java, my brother and three sisters, Lilik family, and my sister-in-law also attended my wedding. I pray it goes well. We traveled to Java Island by plane from Palu to Surabaya. Thank God everything is good.

On the eve of leaving, I called my future wife, her intention of leaving my family. But I misspoke, upset him and ended up hanging up unilaterally.

I was really confused, why would such a trivial thing, make him so upset with me? I called hundreds of times, sent a lot of messages, but none of them were picked up or answered until the next day.

When I read the reply, just say "Be careful and greet your family!" very simple.

Doesn't he know? Last night I couldn't sleep, because he ignored my messages and calls.

But yes, maybe there is something that makes him so upset on that day.

Maybe I called him at the wrong time. I try to think positively, so that the spirit in my heart is not extinguished.

"Let's go, pray for everyone to be safe on the way" said my father as we prepared to board the car that would take us to Palu Airport.

Everyone seemed happy, maybe it was just me who looked glum, "There's a problem? From earlier on, you were glum. What's up?" asked my brother while looking at me intensely.

"It's okay, I'm sleepy, I'm going to sleep. Wake up when we get there.

I fell asleep during the trip, I don't know what happened in the car that took me and my family to the airport. When I woke up, we were at the airport.

Suddenly my heart felt nervous, there was a kind of doubt that suddenly came to my heart.

Perhaps this is the temptation of Satan that always tempts every servant of God who intends to perfect his mother. I'm taking a breath.

Mental preparation to marriage is not light, it must be strong birth and bathin.

" I thought she would miss me, but as long as I got home, she didn't call me at all, my messages and calls often took a long time to get a response! " i'm a monologue myself.

"She must be busy with wedding preparations, no time to use a mobile phone. Don't hesitate just because of something small like that. On the female side of the family, now was a time when everything was busy taking care of everything. Be patient!" advice from my sister-in-law. I just nodded.

"Thank God we arrived safely. May the wedding be smooth without any hitch." When we arrived, we went to Lilik's house, we went to Cirebon from Liliku's house.

I was somewhat astonished by the rumors circulating in my village, which said that I married my childhood sweetheart. Which was found back. Nur and I met a few months ago. I was so curious, who breathed out such a strange rumor?

If the rumors are true, then my life story deserves to be a Chinese drama or Korean drama movie. They are loyal to one love throughout their lives.

The soul mate is strange and mysterious. There's a woman I've been chasing for years, I've been crying about, I can't eat and sleep about, but she's just my past.

But Nur? I only met her at a glance, maybe she was just a cameo in my life, it turns out that now she is my future wife and in a matter of days will soon be my legal wife.

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Cirebon, Nur's residence

Pov Nur's

I received word that a man's side would come today, delivering a handover to the bride. I am not allowed to meet my future husband. See you later on the show for the bride. Pamali said.

Because their house is far away, so they come one day before the event, so as not to be late on the marriage contract. After the dhuhur, we held a ceremony of siraman and sungkeman against our parents. Really, this show is so moving.

We all cried during the event, while washing our feet and bowls. The event asked for permission for us to release our single period. Even all who watched seemed to be mimicking tears as well. My mom even sniffled. Very moved.

I really did not expect, tomorrow I will officially bear the status as the wife of Lurah Pondokku who impressed cool and cool.

Miracles happen in my life. A soul mate is God's power, I believe that now.

My cabin friends came, as did Mr. Kiai and Ms. Nyai. Thank God, I am so happy. I invited my co-operative friends or college friends, but they didn't come. Maybe because of the distance and the Sibu factor with graduation preparations, I understand it.

Distance Cirebon - Purwokerto is not a close distance. I didn't have many friends during college. My friend can be counted on the fingers. I'd rather stay in my room than go for a walk and spend time with friends, it's not really me.

"Thank you for coming, yeah!" I said to my roommates at the cottage. Alhamdulillah, santri princess all present. If santri putra is only a few who are present. Strained by vehicle and distance.

But that's okay, the important thing is that the event runs smoothly and solemnly. I went straight to sleep tonight, preparing myself for tomorrow, the big day of my life.

"Honey, you must be patient and sincere in living a life in a household. Remember, in marriage must give up on each other, do not be selfish. All problems can be discussed with a cold head. Do not be rash in making decisions. Understood?" ask Mamahku.

Tonight I asked my mother to accompany me to sleep. Tomorrow I change status. As the wife of a lurah hut. It's amazing, isn't it?

May tomorrow's event run smoothly and without significant obstacles. During this process, neither I nor Mas Ali met or called each other, which was banned by our parents. Let me miss him said. But let it be, as long as it is for our happiness and kindness.