Lurah Pondokku Candidate My Husband

20. Official application 3

Today is a special day, why? Because today the Mas Ali family will come officially to my house and propose to me officially, in addition, will determine our wedding date as well.

Early in the morning Me and Mas Ali were preparing to go to Lilik's house he, before leaving we say goodbye and ask for blessings to Pak Kiai and also Bu Nyai. Then we both got on the bike there. Rumah Lilik is not too far from the cottage, only about 10 minutes away when using a motorbike.

By the time we got there, we were all ready and just waiting for both of us to arrive. I'm so dead actually. But I try to relax in front of all her family.

His parents did not join the proposal today, they live and settle in Sulawesi, has been more than 20 years transmigration there with Lilik other. Many of his family were in Purwokerto, because they were real and were born in Purwokerto.

The spokesman at the application was Lilik Wage, the younger brother of Mas Ali. While Lik Wasam is in charge of preparing all matters related to this application event. I sit in the front seat, because I usually like to get drunk when sitting in the back.

On the way there are not many conversations because all the focus is thinking about the event later in my house. Mas Ali himself looks a henchman, but usually he always makes a fuss when close to me.

After a four-hour journey, we finally reached my home. The group got a welcome from my extended family. I went straight into the house after experiencing and kissing my parents' hands.

The group from Purwokerto engaged in an exciting and familiar chat with my extended family. I who was very tired preferred to enter my room and lie down for a while, straightening my back which cape once it felt.

Sayup-sayup I heard that the application has already begun. My sister went into my room and asked me to join them there. Aki followed my sister and sat down next to her. While Mas Ali was sitting across from me, three meters away from me. Sometimes he glances at me.

The application event was started with solemnity, starting from the welcome of the men and then the welcome from the women. I don't know, a little lazy to discuss it actually, because what was discussed there was not respected by the man, the point about the cost of marriage that will be the responsibility of both parties is 50%: 50%. In reality when the wedding arrives, it is not the case.

After discussion, the wedding date was finally chosen, July 14. That's about four months from today. Today's event can be called engagement. He pinned the ring on my ring finger, I remember, it was me who chose it, as we walked together. At that time he did not say that the ring would be used for this event. If Aki knew, I would have picked the nicest and the most expensive.

After all agreed that the group finally came home, I also went with their entourage again. Because I was busy with KKN preparation and research.

I hugged my mother and father and cried for a moment, because to be honest, there was a sense of haru and did not believe that now I was the future wife of someone. It's still a dream to me.

They all let go of our group happily, funny no? I proposed to a man, came to my house with them, then after the event was over. I came back again with the men's party.

I stayed more in the car. Many thought about whether the decision I made was right or not. I don't know for sure either.

Really, in my mind, so important is the blessing of parents. But how else? They are very far away, separated by the sea and the ocean. Cannot be moved quickly.

My condition on the proposal is that I want my marriage dowry to be from her own work, not from her parents. He accepted my terms.

Based on the plan, he will return to Sulawesi before our wedding. So later he returned to Java with his parents as well and with his family who lived there.

Coincidentally the chosen wedding date is coinciding with a national holiday, a long holiday. So his cousin and his sister who is still school age also come to Java at our wedding later.

During the application process and we finally returned to the cottage, she did not speak to me at all. I don't know what's wrong with him. Is he mad at me? Butwhy? How strange.

After arriving at Lilik's house, I chose to return to the cottage alone. I'm still pissed at him, who's been ignoring him all day, don't know why. I cape and lazy to guess what happened to him.

After I went straight to sleep. It's tired of it. A long journey. Mr. Kiai actually proposed that our marriage be carried out when I had graduated, but Mas Ali did not want to, too long he said. So he asked for his time in speed because he avoided slander and satanic temptations.

Moreover, we live in one cottage, it is not good if it lingers as it is now, not in the status of marriage. I myself sometimes feel embarrassed if we get too close and meet outside the cottage. Ah. Just feel the sin of my heart. Do you understand what that means?

Aini just came home from her course, immediately approached me and asked about the proposal. I was lazy to tell the story, just pointing at the photos of the event are stored on my phone.

I continued my sleep very soundly. I didn't mind that there was an SMS message. I was tired of not having the energy to argue with him.

After sleeping for a long time, my body felt very fresh.dizzy feeling also disappeared. I'm getting ready to go out for a shower. But not yet to go to the bathroom, my hand has been pulled the same Mas Ali to the corner he looks angry at me. I was confused as to why he was so rich.

" Why from yesterday SMS I never reply? Do you know, I'm restless all the time, waiting for a reply from you "he grabbed my hand and looked at me sharply.

" I cape once, I don't hold a cell phone all day, I'm sorry" I said. I'm not lying, I was very cape yesterday and also today, this is just waking up, after sleeping all day. So I wonder why he had been quieting myself all day just because of SMS him that I did not reply. How boyish.