Lembayung Dusk

learn from our errors and move on..

Mom Twilight

Arriving at my son's school, I was welcomed by a teacher named Mr. Rahmat.he is a BK teacher at this school.

Hearing the word BK, surely everyone's assumption is only for troubled children. Before arriving here, I tried to understand again the understanding of Counseling Guidance.

Looking on the internet and find that from various definitions of guidance and counseling, you can conclude the definition of guidance and counseling (BK), which is a series of activities in the form of assistance carried out by an expert to the counselor by how to face-to-face either individually or several people, by providing additional knowledge to overcome the problems experienced by the consultant in a continuous and systematic way.

With the understanding of guidance and counseling above, it is expected that a student can understand and not misinterpret about guidance and counseling, especially seeing a BK Teacher at school so as not to be seen as a teacher who only takes care of troubled students at school. Whereas a BK is not only working or in school but a BK is addressing for someone who has a problem.

I don't understand it, because I used to also go to school Although only until the 2nd grade of High School, in my school there are also BK teachers. But I never had any problems that could interfere with the continuity of my study program when I was in school.

"Please enter.please sit down ma'am! with her mother Dusk? " Task a father who sits in his oversized chair.

"Rubber sir. " I answered politely.

"In fact, several times Rahmat father asked the son of Dusk to bring parents or guardians to school to consult. "

"But I was just told by Mr. Grace, that his Father Dusk is not here. It just so happened that my mom was in Bandung! "

"Rubber sir"

"I'm sorry ma'am, if I may ask.. is the father still there? "

"I don't know sir" I replied as if.

"Well, then, I just want to say that all this time the son of Dusk has committed a lot of school violations. and for the last one. Friday yesterday, yesterday, Twilight committed violent acts against a student named Kevin. "

"When asked the reason why did the action, Dusk did not answer anything and admitted his mistake.For that I ask sincerely so that the mother as the parent of Dusk is able to accompany her, give more attention so that Dusk does not seek other attention by breaking the rules."

"I'm sorry, mother, because as I know, actually Dusk is a smart child.so we from the school are still trying to maintain Dusk to stay in school here. With the hope of change.. "

I am increasingly powerless to withstand the aches and pains that radiate from my chest. Instantly the cry broke and went out in front of Mr. KepSek and Mr. Rahmat.

"Now we are waiting for parents from the son of Kevin. because if from the school will give one more opportunity to try to improve grades and everything. We will probably only give a suspension or suspension for approximately 1 week. "

"But with a note, parents and son Kevin forgive Dusk. "

"Good pa. "

"sir Mercy, may I ask you to bring the twilight boy here! "

"Well sir" replied Mr. Grace, and immediately left the room.

For a few minutes, I was silent.

"Sorry ma'am, I received a call first" his permission while out of the room, about 5 minutes.

"Senja is actually a good child ma'am, I know she will not immediately hit if without cause. from some students who are in Kindergarten.. it turns out that Kevin really wants to do the bullying by saying things that make Dusk angry"

"It's a personal matter, I think it's very unethical to talk about it, but I've talked about it with Kevin's father. "

I sobbed again, apparently my son suffered so much all this time without anyone noticing him.

I was wrong. O Allah, forgive me!

From the direction of the door came the sound of middle steps entering the room, I turned my head towards her.

It looks like my son is surprised to find me in this room. He kept his head down.

Shortly after, Kevin was seen coming with his parents.

"So this is the one who beat up my son? "

At once I was shocked and turned to look at Kevin's parents, children who he said were beaten by Dusk.

"You're not wrong. I would also do the same if anyone did what my son did. My son was wrong! " Say Kevin's father next. "Come on Kevin. You apologize to Dusk! otherwise, you already know the consequences of refuting father right? ".

Kevin extended his hand towards Dusk doubtfully.

"Ma-sorry I am Ja! "

"I'm sorry too! "

"Alhamdulillah.it seems like this problem is enough here, for the future, you ask the boy of Dusk and son Kevin so that there is no more misunderstanding. " Said Mr. KepSek mediate.

"But the punishment for both of you is still in effect. 1 week suspension! " Said he was firm.

Twilight and Kevin nodded, they both said goodbye to each class to follow the learning activities until the end, because tomorrow the punishment has come into effect.

"I'm sorry sir" they said at the same time.

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Twilight

"So this is the one who beat up my son? "

I'm unmoving.

"You're not wrong. I'll also do the same if anyone does what my son did. My son is wrong! " Say Kevin's father.

"Come on Kevin. You apologize to Dusk! otherwise, you already know the consequences of refuting father right? ".

Kevin reached out his hand at me doubtfully, and I saw the discomfort of his gestures.

"Ma-sorry I am Ja! " Say to me.

"I'm sorry too! " I returned his hand.

"Alhamdulillah.it seems like this problem is enough here, for the future, you ask the boy of Dusk and son Kevin so that there is no more misunderstanding. " Said Mr. KepSek ."But the punishment for both of you is still in effect. 1 week suspension! " Said he was firm.

Me and Kevin nodded simultaneously, we both agreed to go to class to each follow the learning activities until the end, because tomorrow the punishment has come into effect.

"I'm sorry sir" I said

"I'm sorry sir. " Kevin said goodbye at the same time as me.

While outdoors, I deliberately took slow steps and allowed Kevin to walk first. But..

"Lu this time can get away, but watch it later! " Tampering him as he passed by leaving me.

"Hhhh.. " I took a deep breath and exhaled slowly. Step into the class and follow the lesson again.

Ok Dusk..

It is important that we force ourselves for making mistakes. We need to learn from our errors and move on.

(It is important for us to forgive ourselves when we make mistakes. We have to learn from our mistakes and move on.)

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