
When I arrived at the house bang irham, I was greeted by my cousin bang irham. "Melia at home you just take a shower and prepare later sister direct the potion to the house sister, will be bothered if here", well brother, sister, while packing I took my needs to wear nant in the house of sister sita. in the house of sister sita, yes the distance of the house bang irham and the house of sister sita is only three houses away. When I got there I packed up and went to the bathroom, finished taking a bath bang irham came to see me here, "how was it there deck? " Bang irham questioned the conditions at the venue of his sister zahra's groom's party. I also told him everything that happened from the car to the tipa there. " So I had a disagreement with andi kak (andi is the husband of zahra) ". " Why can deck" Bang irham looked surprised at my answer. "He complained about the delay of the car, he said he should just join his family's car group" I said, "indeed from the beginning I did not agree if they were married, either, but what do you want in the word mother does not want to be denied, andi seems to be mother's favorite daughter-in-law" Bang irham expressed his frustration.
I can only be silent, indeed andi the person of his care is quiet, so silent no one wants him to greet other than his wife and mother-in-law zahra. It did not feel like it was already six in the afternoon, zahra and her husband arrived they immediately to the house of sister sita, in the same way the bride and groom stay to fix zahra make up and they changed clothes, the clothes we wore tonight were red, and on the blue wedding, I remembered a few days before our wedding my mother-in-law had called me and scolded me "why else is there this pink color in the choice of colors melia clothes?", "who says mom" I said, "said irham, remember yes melia here you do not have the right to choose the color of any clothes, whatever it is, all absolute choices are my choices" said my mother-in-law fiery", I can only be silent and cry on one side here I'm alone there's nowhere I complain, there's no room for me to complain, this is my choice both bad I have to live, like and sorrow.
After the magrib prayer, we were taken to the reception venue, at the wedding of two couples in a pair. Various invited guests also came to congratulate us, yes that night I was just accompanied by my adoptive father who I used to call my uncle and cousin, my cousin, he came to represent my family wherever he always advised me to go forward in my choice, and surrender to the Creator.
When we were shaking hands, suddenly zahra yelled at me "sister, can be quiet do not move too much" I who was shocked by the speech of the silent zahra and I said " Sorry deck but it's narrow in front of here and I can't if I don't move a little" the zahra that grinned my words just looked at me cynically, I don't know what to do I can only hold back these tears that are coming out.
The number of invited guests who came were some from my cousin's cousin, there were also friends of my High School friends who came, they happened to be some who are still studying here. All kinds of gifts I receive.
At nine o'clock the guests began to dwindle, suddenly came to see me "this is your gift melia keep well and later you down to your residence", "well brother" I said while tidying up my kadoku gift. Guests were reduced to kamo gunakam for a photo session together, after taking pictures we returned to the house bang irham. Arriving at the house bang irham, we rushed to clean ourselves and sat together. Coincidentally at that time there was also the lover of the younger brother bang irham bayu (baby and zahra are the younger brother of bang irham). After that, my mother-in-law opened the invitation envelope and Sarah was in charge of noting the name of the invited guest who gave the envelope. After everything was calculated and recorded, in total all ten million five hundred thousand.The mother-in-law returned the ring money, and, my wedding ring and bang irham were originally bought using my money and the money the photographer had rented starting from my wedding contract and bang irham, zahra and andi and our reception tonight.
"it's money all ring money and photo money" said my mother-in-law while giving my money. "thank you mom" said I received the money. "count melia first" said baby lover sarah, " why do you have to count again if you don't believe? " my mother-in-law said, I just fell silent and again had to swallow the bitter pill, and hold back my tears.
At exactly twelve o'clock in the evening, Sahra came out with a birthday cake, yes the day tomorrow is indeed the birthday of the baby. For a moment I forgot my sadness, we also celebrated the birthday of the baby.
#flasback
"mom, after I get married with melia, we'll stay at the boarding house melia bu, we want to be independent" said bang irham while holding her mother's hand. My mother-in-law could only cry, at that time we said goodbye to my mother and father-in-law. "why not just stay here son, the house here is big, big, I'll make a room for you and irham" said my father-in-law. "no sir, we have agreed after marriage we will live independently, let us try to be happy in our way, if indeed one day we can not afford we will definitely ask for the direction of both father and mother" said bang irham wisely."alah well if it is your decision I can what" said the mother-in-law. "no ma'am, even if we live independently, we will still visit here often, where we live not far from here" I told my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law just fell silent, her attempt to cancel our plan for independent living failed, since then she inevitably agreed to our independent living.
#flasback off
"mother, we have to go to the boarding house tonight" said bang irham while eating the baby's birthday cake, "why should tonight, still tomorrow" said my mother-in-law who seemed still shocked and did not believe our decision, as well as others, but what would be said was our decision, our decision, inevitably we had to go to my boarding house that night, before I had asked permission from my boarding owner and advised my friend Uni not to lock the boarding fence.
"i've booked a taxi online packing" said bang irham while packing as well, "alh it's okay, tomorrow morning here let's say good fare to others" said my father-in-law. I immediately packed in aid of sarah, my mother-in-law looked surprised because I put all my cards in the bag provided by sarah. Before long our online car orders arrived, me and bang irham say goodbye to the house people.