I Need Restu

Thirteen

After the magrib prayer I did not forget I asked the irham bang about my meeting with the kamila earlier,

"What Kamila said was that the picture might be finished tomorrow" I said to bang irham

"oh yes it's good that deck, later if it is finished tomorrow after our brother came home from work to mother's house" replied bang irham

"not tomorrow only bang" said I slightly reject the invitation bang irham

"tomorrow deck, not the mother has also often asked about the photos? bang irham again

" but bang" I said a little stifled

"already the deck, instead of faster to bring better photos? Regarding yesterday not to be input to the heart" response bang irham, it seems here bang irham understand a little bit of my unpleasant feelings when visiting at home mom

"well bang" I said apparently bang irham did not accept rejection

The next day after the irham bang came home from work, me and the irham bang left for mom's house. Previously we were here to deliver our wedding photos so do not forget also I gave news to bang irham.

Arriving bang irham at home is just changing his clothes because previously I was ready to wait for bang irham only, just, for fear of returning home last night, we decided to go to mother's house after bang irham came home from work.

When we arrived at my mother's house, I immediately gave our photo album and wedding CD starting from my marriage contract and bang irham as well as zahra and her husband.

The response of the mother-in-law when I and bang irham were still at home was nothing strange as usual so after seeing the album I and bang irham said goodbye to go to the house of friends bang irham the one who gave birth to his son after that then went back to the mother's house to have dinner together.

An hour later I and bang irham returned to mom's house, once at home our mother was a little surprised why there was a commotion not before leaving everything was fine and me and bang irham left was not long

"yes I'm having a hard time paying for a wedding, why are these wedding photos mostly of her with her family" the mother-in-law's voice sounded, what do you mean? Am I what I meant?

Me and bang irham rushed to see mom

"what is this mom? ask bang irham

" this is the photo why the cover photo of your wife? answer mom

"picture me and bang irham ma'am" I replied

"what do you mean these are photos of most of you and your family? mother's response

" jeez ma'am, my family is not here any party is present only my om and some of my cousins, my friends are only a few" I did not accept

"you know that he answers the more you visit" replied the mother-in-law

"it's not that I'm talking to you as you are" I said not to accept

"what's more, ma'am, this album is indeed arranged according to the series of events, but it was my marriage contract first so automatically this is our photo first" said bang irham helped explain, said, on one hand I was still surprised by the actions of my mother

"had it been your irham what has always defended your wife melia, since marriage you are more courageous with mother" the response of the mother did not accept with the defense of bang irham

"changed how mom, I'm talking facts mom" replied bang irham

"ah indeed you two are one server the more here the more you visit, just keep defending" again mother does not accept

"this mom how, this is a photo problem if it does not want to have a photo of me it is easy mom can be explained well" I said to mother

"want to explain how it is clear here that you are wrong" mother blamed me even more

"wrongly how else this ma'am is from there it is already this way" I said not accept

"you're so smart to answer" said my mother snapped at me

"what is this mom, this is just a matter of photos can be talked about well anyway what melia said there is a point too" said bang irham

"you why irham, is this how you talk to mom? This mother who is difficult to send you to school until you have a job like this, the mother who finances all your marriages then this is your answer, if indeed she is wrong yes it is wrong you are carrying an ugly influence on my son" said the fiery mother while referring to me

"this mom why the hell is mom? Already ma'am if this is the picture here later I take all my photos and melia hard do not have to fuss, let's deck us home" said bang irham who is still patient with mother's attitude, I who here have been controlled by anger and do not accept with the attitude of mother trying to control so as not to happen things that are not desired.

here I was silent when bang irham took me home, not a word came out of my mouth saying goodbye to the house people not.

I saw bang irham brought back the photo album that we had brought, it was free to visit here.

I don't know what exactly is the problem of mother, what do you want why mom is increasingly cornered me, not what is explained bang irham or I am indeed right, the photo is indeed sorted by series of events so it is only natural that in the album first my photo and bang irham attached.

If indeed the issue of the cover photo is only my photo and bang irham it would be natural that the cover is only for one photo anyway all can be talked about well.

It's not like my mom says there are more pictures of me and my family

I realize this party is completely the cost of the irham bang but isn't it really the initial deal like that? Therefore my parents do not burden the problem of marriage?

want patience how to face mom?

I still remember how many days ago when visiting mother did ask about income bang irham, mother did discuss but here indeed I did not respond too much to mother. Is not here indeed bang irham has an obligation to support me without forgetting his responsibility to his parents.

Financial matters let the irham bang regulate it, at least I know how much it earns and how much its expenditure and income and its obligations to me are fulfilled.

It is not good if in the household there is still parental intervention. Like a dish that has been seasoned properly, if a little more added salt will be the asianan that household