The Point of Time in the Heart of Gendhis

Forced to Join Divorce Management Team.

A healthy marriage world of love is not enough but in real life it takes commitment between married couples. To achieve commitment requires a lot of sacrifice between is to look after each other, believe, support, appreciate, feel comfortable with each other, not ashamed to admit mistakes and suppress egos with each other.

A happy marriage does not mean there is no quarrel and jealousy between the couple. Precisely the second is the spice of marriage to get to know each other better and still maintain boundaries without being as difficult to separate.

Indeed marriage is not as simple as we think, many phases in growth and development together considering two individuals are born and the parenting of two different families will have an impact in different mindsets as well. This is what causes divorce.

Divorce due to infidelity because commitment is not executed as it should be. As for the triggers of various factors such as being saturated, couples are too demanding, there is no relationship communication, couples are too possessive, not confident, less sexually satisfied and they already have a tendency to cheat.

The case that I am facing seems to be a lack of relationship communication because the husband and wife are busy working. Was busy reading the case file that I will handle suddenly the phone at the office desk rang directly I lifted.

"Hallo assalammu'alaikum Nay can go to my room?" said Mr. Emrick.

"Wa'alaikumsalam, either sir "I replied directly to Mr. Emrick's room...

"Nay's inside" replied Mr. Emrick.

I also entered his room and was welcome to sit in front of his desk.

"Can I help you sir?" .

"Nay tomorrow afternoon can you see the plaintiff?".

"She told me that tomorrow at one noon there is an empty time and asked to be found at restaurant x".

"I try sir" I replied firmly.

"The Suspect can be found at two noon in the mall, of course at cafe z".

"The day after tomorrow you are accompanied by Alvin, remembering the defendant's side of a man, you don't mind right?".

I'm breathing slowly." All right sir" I replied.

I'm lazy to think complicated again, don't want to have to face. After the conversation was over I walked out of the room and met Alvin on purpose. I am ready to face it normally.

"Nay we're having lunch with yuk? " ask Alvin.

"Sorry sir, I want to go to the campus to the Advisor" I replied.

It's lucky today to want guidance so it doesn't seem like a lie.

"Ooh, shall I take you?"

he still cheated when I refused.

"Sorry sir, I brought the bike because I want to go straight back from the guidance, thanks for the offer" I said politely.

Alvin seems disappointed by my rejection but I don't want him to misunderstand if we're close, I don't want him to think that I welcome him back. Precisely I want to stay away and away again if I can but in fact can not even be bound in work with him.

Guidance results for chapter three only there is a revision dikit, same supervisor I was immediately asked to compile until the last chapter. In fact, I was offered a mentor to be his assistant because he thought I was able to be a good teacher. I was ready with his offer, he seemed to like me with enthusiasm.

After guidance, I decided to go home because my body felt tired. No time to rest, no phone calls came in. I read the caller's contact made me smile, so tired to be lost when it comes to kangmas.

"Assalammu'alaikum Mas what again?" my many.

"Wa'alaikumsalam Nay, Mas has come home from work and stopped by the rice wrapper for the night" he replied.

"Ooh, even Nay has not bought, forgot earlier because the pep quickly rest".

"Sir, when Mas is beside you do not eat late, will be sick no one is treated".

"Let's just calm I'm good here".

"Mas I got a lecturer's assistant offer, what if I take it?" my many.

"It's very good Dik, take it Mas support for your added experience ntar if you have graduated".

"Yes Kakanda" I replied idly.

My answer made us laugh and ended our conversation. When going to take a shower suddenly there was a message notification, from Alvin, I took a breath, surprised he was still just sending messages.

/Nay tomorrow if I meet a client with me yes/

Message from him I don't bales, males aja, let him also know that I don't too baper meet him. Indeed, we must be firm and set clear boundaries with the man who approaches us so that he does not misunderstand our behavior.

Tomorrow before meeting the defendant, I got a task from my supervisor to replace him teaching in the class because he again has a task out of town. New experiences seem fun. After dhuhur I prepared to go to restaurant x by riding a motorcycle without heeding Alvin's pesen last night.

Until the restaurant at the request of my client came to the clerk to deliver a table that had been on the reservation on behalf of Ms. Ersa. Then I was escorted to the VIP room. While waiting for the client to come, I reread the client's file. Half an hour later, Miss Ersa arrived.

"Assalammu'alaikum Ma'am, sorry it was on the road got stuck".

"Wa'alaikumsalam Bu, yes takpapa Bu, relax because today the schedule is empty" I replied.

We talk pleasantries before going to the core of the problem so that the client is comfortable to tell the next story.

"Mom, do you still want to continue this case?".

"Don't want to try to make peace with your husband?" my many.

"Mom, not married yet? looks like young lady?".

"Not yet Ma I'm doing thesis work and internship at Mr. Emrick's office".

"Gini Mbak, the ideal married person will have a commitment to build a good household based on trust and loyalty to the couple, when trust and loyalty have been tarnished, the household cannot be upright as before".

"I still decided to divorce because when I slept imagining him making out with other women made me disgusted with my partner".

"Hate will affect my child's psychologist" explains Bu Ersa".

"I can feel what Mother feels, it is not easy to forgive people who have been present in our lives betrayed let alone there are children, it is very heavy for sure, Mom".

"Treason has a terrible impact on us". "Mom should be able to show her if she can do it on her own without it" I replied to reinforce.

"Thank you Ma'am, I've been relieved to be able to tell a story, all this time I have no friends to tell a story".

"Sama-sama Ma'am it is my duty to listen to my clients, if there is nothing else I excuse Ma'am" I said politely.

"Yes please" replied Ms. Ersa.

After I met the plaintiff, I decided to go to the office to report. There's only Alvin. Because I did not want to linger with him I immediately gave the same report as him as a representative of Mr. Emric.

"Sorry sir I want to surrender the results of the report with the Client, please cooperate" said I.

"Wouldn't want that cooperation you're Gendhis!" answer ketus Alvin.

" Well if I am considered not unwilling to cooperate with you, I decided to leave the team right now" I said firmly.

"Gendhis, that's why you're not responsible".

"Not responsible from where?try explaining? I have met clients still considered irresponsible faith" said I sewot.

After I finished talking, Mr. Emrick came to see us.

"What's this about? Why are you guys making a fuss in my office?".

"This Sir, Brother, you think I don't want to cooperate just because I don't invite him to meet with clients".

"Is that so true Alvin?" ask Mr. Emrick.

"Yes Bang, when last night I had a message waiting for me but he ignored me".

I heard him smile cynically,

"You're childish" I said.

"I'm sorry sir, I've submitted the results of the client's report with your brother".

Then I went out of the room to the parking lot of the motorcycle. Tired of work is not considered. I decided to go home because it was late at night. After isya when again reading the teaching material that was given by the lecturer, there was an incoming message.

/Gendhis sorry, I acted out of my control because you always ignored me./

/Tomple I picked up can't I?/.

/Sorry sir I got a teaching schedule tomorrow from the morning, please leave first/

It sucks, but if I don't, it's getting worse. I continue my study that is delayed.why there is less, o yes today I and Mas Nehan have no contact at all, maybe he was busy times to forget to send a message or phone. Rather than suspect mending me a phone call.

"Assalammu'alaikum Dik, ko all day contact Mas?".

"Wa'alaikumsalam Mas, yes today and tomorrow my schedule is full, had met the client".

"Ooh yes already gakpapa, the important thing is to take care of health".

"Yes, yes too" I replied.

After calling Mas Nehan I decided to sleep because I felt tired. Wake up early, ready to go to campus to help the lecturer give the class. Teaching is so fun. After dhuhur I got a message if I want to be picked up by Alvin at one hour on campus. I'm tired of arguing with you.

At one hour I got off campus he was waiting in the parking lot. He let me into his car. On the way to the Mall there was no conversation because I wasn't in the mood to talk to him. Until Cafe Z turned out the defendant had arrived first.

"Sorry we were late because we had to go to campus first" I said politely.

"Yes gakpapa Mas, Ma'am, call me Dodi".

"Sorry sir can I directly express the intent of our client?" Alvin.

"Yes please Mas" replied Mr. Dody.

"Please give Nay an explanation for Mr. Dody" Alvin said.

"My client decided to stay divorced from you, what do you think?".

"Sir, actually I do not want to separate from my wife, I still love Mbak with him" said Mr. Dody.

"If love why did you betray you?".

"When the betrayal took place where were the thoughts and hearts of the Father?" reply emotion.

"I'm khilaf Ma'am".

"More than once sir?" ask me again

"Nay, soak up your emotions" Alvin said.

True said Alvin I have no right to judge him, I have the right to listen to the opinions of both parties to find the truth.

"Sir, I'm sorry my client decided to part with you" Alvin said.

After listening to the defendant we decided to go home. I drove Alvin to college to get a bike.