The Point of Time in the Heart of Gendhis

First LDR

I think after getting the Certificate of Physician Competence (Serkom ) and taking the doctor's oath, Mas Nehan was able to work in one of the hospitals in Yogyakarta, it turned out that my estimate missed. Mas Nehan must undergo an internship program for one year. This program is a government program in the maturation of physician competence. The placement of the program can be in all corners of Indonesia. In this case Mas Nehan was lucky to get a placement in Bandung.

With the placement in Bandung, we have to undergo a long-distance relationship with the term LDR. This is the toughest for us because during the relationship we always meet despite having each busy. Given that this is important for our future, we must learn sincerely and patiently because long distance relationships are not as simple as we think, with the technology instead of relationships will be fine, just fine, there must be obstacles in the future, which is important at this time we must think positively in order to live the activity with enthusiasm. Tomorrow is the departure of Mas Nehan to Bandung, somehow this makes me sad, scared and worried. Nano-nano is what I feel, but if I show sadness in front of him, he will definitely delay or cancel the departure. I returned the monologue had to be rigid so that he quickly finished his task.

This morning I was getting ready to go to Mas Nehan's house without telling him first. I want to spend some time together before his departure. I pressed the bell, the door was opened by Bik Tina.

"Assalammu'alaikum Bi, how are you? Where's mom Bi?" my many.

"Wa'alaikumsalam Mbak Nay, long time no play at home, Auntie kangen, Mother again in the kitchen, enter Mbak" replied Bik Tina.

I also immediately went to the kitchen, I saw Mama was cooking without paying attention around, hmm it seems like Mama is still engrossed. I tried to approach and hug Mama from behind, Mama was surprised.

"Nayra.iih makes a surprise Mom".

"Who do you think Mama is?".

"I'm going to Papa if Mama thinks of another guy".

"From that time Nay noticed Mama seemed to be daydreaming so don't know when Nay came?".

"Aduin just there to Papa, Mama is not afraid" said Mama.

"What's the problem, Ma?" ask Papa.

"Eeeh ga da nothing Pa, ni Nay again a fad to Mama".

I approached Papa to salim with my prank I whispered to Papa.

"Pa, be careful it looks like Mama's thinking new guy".

"Where is Ma? um Papa less saucy what?". Papa started sulking.

"Xixixi let's Ma answer Papa donk's question"

I blinked at Mama.

"Nay, beware if you like nosy, Mama Aduin Nehan if you start to have a crush on other guys" Mama also sulked.

"This can not be justified, Where ever Nay has a crush on men, if it is estimated that hehehe" I replied.

"Accusable who is Sister? Want to go to Bandung and keep looking for another guy like that".

I looked back and found that Nehan was behind me. Apes.apes there will be a craving.

"Iish who said I wanted to find another guy".

"Yah's permissioned?".

"Ashiik donk will be there to accompany Nay here" I said idly.

"Ga can be forever, even though Mas has many eyes here, beware if caught directly Mas halalin".

"Pity deh Nay" Mama mocked me.

"Ga fun, Pa?" Answer me while pouting.

"Papa don't want to ah come along Papa got his sap from your Mama" Papa's remark made all laugh.

After joking I let Mama tidy up the dining table for breakfast together. Before long Nehan called me to his room.

"De, later if Mas in Bandung often play at home so that Mama and Papa are not lonely because the children are far away all".

"Let's just relax if Nay doesn't come home to Solo, go home to Mama, Nay promised".

"Thank You".

"This semester's starting to compose the thesis, right?".

"Don't be delayed, the focus, Mas doain to be given smooth in the preparation of the thesis later".

"Aamiin thank you for your prayer Mas".

"Nay will be lonely from tomorrow hiks..hiks.." so baper nih.

"This is also later for our future, we must be patient.

"Yes Mas, Nay can understand, we have to fight for our future, Nay will also immediately finish the thesis so that we can be together again".

We just enjoyed the silence after talking to each other. I started to sincerely take it off. The path we must take must be separated to get back together. All are returned by the Owner of Life. Let God take care of our hearts. It doesn't feel like departure is just hours, Papa. Mama and I drove Mas Nehan to Adi Sucipto International Airport. We started shaking hands because soon Mas Nehan had to get on the plane.

"Ma, Pa, Nehan nitip Nayra huh? if you are naughty in your soul" said Mas Nehan.

"Take it easy, son, surely Nay we take care, focus the task , mopping up so you can immediately re-invite Nay" Papa advised.

"Sik, take good care of yourself as long as we are far apart" said Mas Nehan.

"Yes, take care of our health because it is far from us" I replied.

Finally the farewell happened. I just silently watched as Mas Nehan came in to check in. Mama hugged me to strengthen me. I asked for help to drive the driver to the boarding house because again wanted to be alone, Papa and Mama understand me. Around eleven o'clock in the evening Mas Nehan told me that he had reached Bandung and was heading to a hotel that had been bocked by phone.

The first weeks without Mas Nehan I went through activity without passion, it was heavy yes long-distance dating, the main cause was the moment of kangen, even though it had been a video call or phone but still could not erode it. Especially on a Sunday night where friends are on the diapelin, really bad for not being able to see our real boyfriend, just through gadgets, but all have risks.

The second month I was getting used to without Mas Nehan. Our advantage of long distance dating we become independent does not involve a mulu girlfriend when it comes to going anywhere. We are now not every day video calls or phones because we respect each other's busyness so we use whatsapp application more often. The second advantage, we rarely fight because Mas Nehan is gentle and patient impacting me to suppress my ego.

This week Mas Nehan went home, he said he had missed so much earlier on the phone. The news was like winning the hehehe lottery . Heart feels carefree like a first date, met like break even in pouring down kangen. The day we waited came, I picked him up myself by taxi service. Until the airport is still waiting at the arrival of the domestic. Duh why is this heart dag dig dug like that groggy. Shortly notice the plane from Bandung will soon land, added pounding my heart welcomes the brother xixixi. Actually, I have banned Mas Nehan for homecoming because he had only two days off, must be tired if balek balek Bandung - Yogyakarta, alternating, but Mas kekeh want to return because it is not strong enough to resist longing when we make a video call at leisure. But I actually also miss wanting to tell a lot of stories when I meet.

The plane was queuing at the baggage claim. I wait in front of the exit. When he came out the door he smiled at me. I smiled in response as I came out of hiding towards him who was waiting for me near the food stand. I approached him who looked at me, why we became so clumsy when we first met when the phone or video call was normal. Hold hands like that.

"How are you doing, brother?" Mas Nehan tried to brush off our stiffness even though every day already know the news of each of us, funny right.

"Alhamdulillah as I see it" I replied.

"So here what did you ride?".

"Taxi Mas, we're taking another taxi?".

"OK" replied Nehan.

Shortly we got out of the lobby to the taxi parking lot after I had booked a taxi when there was a notification of the plane landing. Mas Nehan invited me back to Mama Rani's house for a surprise love for going home without notice to Mama and Papa.

Severe..severe, we are equally nosy to ngerjain Mama. Until the yard we did not immediately get off the taxi when he saw Mama sitting alone on the front porch.

"Mas, Mama must be surprised to have a taxi but the passengers are not down" said I.

"Calm down, let Mama get confused".

"Pity Mama, don't have me" I keep going down without obeying Mas Nehan's words.

"Nayra, who's who's who's who".

"Hayoo Mama wishes who came?"tanyaku nosy.

"Mama kangen Masmu nduk, usually never far from Mama, sometimes Mama like to think whether she is well monitored".

I tried to play a show

"Doain aja Ma may Mas healthy there" sad face acting.

"That's why the tax ain't goin' around?" ask Mama.

"Nay just came by Ma, but Nay took a package from Bandung"

I acted back to open the back door

"Ma, here's the package, where's the package?".

Mama who was looking at the fruitful mango turned to look at me.

"Rather!" yell Mama.

Mas Nehan approached Mama Salim, kissed and hugged Mama. Papa inside heard Mama's scream, rushed out of the house in the air there was a problem.

"Iish you guys really like Mama's fad"began the drama.

We also crucified Papa and apologized to Papa and Mama for our messiness. At first Mama sulk but not long because defeated with the desire of the child.