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Ways to make the family harmonious

Respect and respect each other

Every family member should respect and respect each other, no matter their background, age, or gender.

Speak in polite and polite language

In communicating with family members, you should use polite and polite language, without using words that are rude or offensive to others.

Say hello to family members

Saying greetings is a very simple but very meaningful action in maintaining family harmony.

Attend family events

Attending family events, such as birthday celebrations or weddings, is one way to establish family harmony.

Helping a family member in need

Helping family members in need, both financially and non-financially, is one way to maintain family harmony.

Avoiding selfish attitudes

Avoiding selfish attitudes and always trying to think about the interests of others is one way to maintain family harmony.

Pray for the family

Praying for the family is one way to ask God for help so that the family is always in a state of prosperity and harmony.

A harmonious and happy home life is a dream for every couple. In Islam, Muslims have been given complete guidance to be able to create a sakinah, mawaddah, and rahmah household.

One of the keys to household happiness in Islam is the seriousness of married couples to understand and appreciate each other.

In addition to seriousness, there are several other things that need to be done in order to achieve household happiness. The key to happiness in question is certainly in line and in accordance with what Islam teaches.

For couples who are curious and want to practice it, see the explanation of the key to household happiness in Islam below.

According to the teachings of Islam, faith and godly charity are the basis of all happiness in the household. Couples who agree to realize the faith and godly charity in the household will be bestowed happiness by Allah SWT.

مَنْ عَمِلَ صَالِحًا مِّنْ ذَكَرٍ اَوْ اُنْثٰى وَهُوَ مُؤْمِنٌ فَلَنُحْيِيَنَّهٗ حَيٰوةً طَيِّبَةًۚ وَلَنَجْزِيَنَّهُمْ اَجْرَهُمْ بِاَحْسَنِ مَا كَانُوْا يَعْمَلُوْنَ

Meaning: “Whoever does good deeds, both men and women, in a state of faith, then We will surely give him a good life and We will reward him with a better reward than what they have done.” (QS. Nahl: 97)

Decorate the house with dhikr

Another factor that can bring happiness in the household is the habit of dhikr done by married couples. By increasing dhikr, the couple's household will become more calm and serene.

الَّذِيْنَ اٰمَنُوْا وَتَطْمَىِٕنُّ قُلُوْبُهُمْ بِذِكْرِ اللّٰهِ ۗ اَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللّٰهِ تَطْمَىِٕنُّ الْقُلُوْبُ ۗ

That is: “(i.e.) those who believe and their hearts become serene with the remembrance of Allah. Remember, only by remembering Allah does the heart become serene.” (QS. Ar-Ra’d: 28)

Applying balance

One of the household principles that Islam teaches to every married couple is balance. What is meant by balance in this case is to replace and complement each other.

In the letter of Al-Baqarah verse 228, Allah SWT said:

وَلَهُنَّ مِثْلُ الَّذِيْ عَلَيْهِنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوْفِۖ

Meaning: “And they (the women) have the right to be balanced with their obligations in a proper manner..” (QS. Al-Baqarah: 228)

Keeping love and affection

Love and affection are things that must exist in the interaction of married couples. Love usually takes place when the couple is young and productive, while affection appears when both are elderly.

With love and affection, a husband will try his best to make his wife happy. Vice versa, the wife will certainly do her best for the happiness of the husband.

Prioritizing duty from right

Husband-wife interaction in the teachings of Islam must be built on the right foundation, which is to prioritize obligations rather than rights. In the hadith of Imam Bukhari, Abu Darda is described as a very serious person in worship.

He does not dress up, does not pay attention to his eating and sleeping, and has no respect for the world at all. Salman Al-Farisi then advised Abu Darda with a sentence approved by the Prophet.

“Against your Lord there are obligations that you must fulfill, to your body there are obligations that you must fulfill, to your family there are obligations that you must fulfill. Then give the rights to the person who has the rights.” (CHR. Bukhari Muslims)

And I think personally, if a man has chosen you it means there is confidence to settle in your heart, but remember one month until 5 months he will change when he forgets that getting you alone is difficult, therefore keep loving words to the husband, so that the husband feels at home does not wander at home, basically, she is a jealous person

But remember that your jealousy is inappropriate when the husband is telling the truth, if you do not believe it then look for evidence that suggests that your husband is indeed turning away from you, it is only right for you to question your husband, I personally do not think it is good if excessive jealousy especially if the husband comes home late, remember that heaven is inhabited, so being a wife must know which to fight and which to leave

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