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Wedding Exam

After breakfast in the afternoon now they also perform prayers jama'ah Then delisa feel restless because he saw arslan kiss the brow of risla

"Why I am, my heart feels tight to see them both" Delisha's heart

"Honey yuk to the room" said herlambang

"Yes" said delisha

Herlambang and delisha went to his room and

"Darling you, why are they here?" Ask arslan

"What's the reason?" Risla

"Yes, delisha"

"Darling me, Delisha, it's your past and I'm your wife, where there I'm jealous that you can meet again"

"Just say yes if you're gasuka they're here"

"Yes ayang, yaudah yuk we sleep"

"Yuk"

After they fell asleep, Delisha awoke to drink

"What time is it"

Delisha's eyes still feel sleepy about this already at 8 am

"Oh it's noon"

Then delisha sat on me with sleeping eyes

Suddenly Arslan saw a woman sitting on a bench, then Arslan held the woman's hair so she woke up

Delisha opened her eyes and glanced at the face of Arslan holding the hair of delisha

"A-arslan?"

"Delisha you sleep in a chair"

"I-I fell asleep"

"Your clothes get wet with gini"

"Yes my shirt was spilled drinking water"

Delisha opened one button in front of Arslan so that delisha bediri and fell

"E-eh, you're gapapa?" Ask arslan

Their position is now looking at each other so that Arslan saw the open delisha button suit, now Arslan holds the hand of delisha and kisses his lips

"Geez"

******* delisha makes arslan's style provoked but

"Astaghfirullah what is this" said Arslan who released him

"Sorry"

Delisha moved away from Arslan and into the room, she sat alone

"Astaghfirullah what I did earlier, you have to take care of you from other women"

Arslan went into the room and sat down and looked at his wife

Risla wakes up and holds Arslan's hair

"You haven't slept?"

"Hey, baby, are you awake?"

"Why did you wake up?" Ask risla

"I-I was drinking water"

"Em so, it's still malem ayang"

"Yes yuk is sleeping"

Arslan closed his eyes but still felt ******* from delisha so that arslan could not fall asleep

The next morning they would go to Bali together, delisha and arslan looking at each other flatly

"Nih slan make lo"Herlambang said

"What's this?"

"Sleeping clothes"

"You are well-existing" Risla said

"Once again yeah"

"Yes-yes, yaudah yuk is leaving"

"I'm allowed to be with my parents"

"Yaudah"

Arslan and Risla head to the house of umi to ask permission to go to Bali

"Assalamu'alaikum umi abi aisyah"

"Waalaikumsalam, where are you going?" Ask abah

"I want to go to Bali"

"Who's the guy?"

"With herlambang and also delisha, they also stayed overnight" Risla said

"What?" Umi

"Yes, umi was just one time"

"Risla Umi needs to talk to you for a second"

Then Risla followed umi to the room and

"Risla dengerin umi, delisha of arslan's past and they run a relationship more than one year what do you gatau?"

"I know umi, Arslan told me everything"

"Then why did you allow that woman into Arslan's life"

"Umi delisha is just arslan's past"

"Although it's the past of arslan but the name of love is not that you know, let alone delisha expect arslan as her husband but god instead predestine you"

"I'm a saouzon golau to my own husband"

"Promise well after leaving Bali you can bring delisha again"

"Yes umi, I'm only 2 days"

"Jude be careful"

"Yes"

After chatting with Umi, risla and Arlan go to Bali for their honeymoon

"Darling what umi said?" Arslan

"Umi want after returning from Bali we have children"

"God amen"

"Remain umi aja ngarepin we have children" said herlambang

"Herlambang is enough"

"Haha kidding"

The journey lasted for 1 hour50 minutes, the scenery is so beautiful and also luxurious

"This is our room" said Arslan

"Yes ayang"

"Jude, take a bath together"

"Corn"

Arslan and Risla took a bath together

"How many kids do you want?"

"I'm following you"

Then

"Arslan equals risla where well" asked herlambang

"So they went into the room"

"Allah has just arrived until the time has been passed"

Herlambang opens the door to Arslan's room and risla's

"Hey"

"Astaghfirullah" said arslan

"Lo is good, we also sampled"

"Yes lo if you want to follow dong sama delisha"

"I'm not rich, you are"

"Judah there and there is a disturbance"

Herlambang went from the room of the two of them so that delisha heard his romance

"Why you?"

"Em gapapa abi"

"Jaudah let us eat"

"Yes ayang"

Delisha feels jealous because her loved ones marry other women, must delisha know it has become the destiny of God

"I'm why, I'm married but my heart hurts when I see people who have stopped in our hearts now with other women"

"Honey" said herlambang

"I-iya bi"

"Why you?"

"Today I want to enjoy my time with you before I go to Turkey"

"W-what?"

"Just 1 month there"

"I'm gabisa coming?"

"You know, if you come, there must be a commotion"

"Bless me at home?"

"I'll titipin you same arslan"

"I think I'd rather be home alone than in someone else's house"

"Suttt it's my duty as a husband to take care of my wife"

"How can I stay at the house of the man I've loved all this time" Risla said

Evening arrived where they enjoy the time in the current herlambang want to talk to arslan

"Slans"

"Hem?"

"Gw would like to talk to you"

"What by the way?"

"But it's here"

"Yaudah"

Arslan followed in herlambang's footsteps after that

"Slan if you let me leave you something, what can I do?"Ask herlambang

"Astaghfirullah bang you are rich I am someone else, my house is always open for you"

"Thank God, thanks slan, I want a nitip"

"We're enjoying our night with our wives"

"But I want to"

"Udah bang, when you do not believe in your own friends?" Ask arslan

Herlambang was thin without arslan asking what herlambang put on arslan

WILL THEIR MARRIAGE BE TESTED?

Marriage is a decision made on the agreement of both parties, male or female. In marriage, loyalty and love will be tested by various household tests from various aspects.

It is not an easy thing to live a household relationship, especially to make it always harmonious.

There are always things that make this husband and wife relationship full of problems.

It is in these early years that the loyalty and love of each partner will usually be tested

The marriage test may not be for love alone but?

1.Phinatal problem

Financial is one thing that will greatly distinguish when you are still in a dating period and married.

Now, everything that concerns income and expenditure will become common property and responsibility.

Well usually, this adaptation process is often a debated household test.

Starting from how to manage finances, savings, fair financial division for each parent, and a variety of other problems.

Actually this should not be a problem, the key is just openness and communication with each other.

Everything can be communicated, as well as the responsibility of each.

From the beginning of the marriage even before the wedding, there has to be an agreement on financial matters.

2.Bad habits that disturb

Habits that you have before marriage may not be fully acceptable to the husband, and vice versa.

Habits, be part of the test of marriage and this is usually not about big things, about the habit of maintaining personal hygiene, eating habits, and sleep.

Although it looks trivial, things like this are usually often a recurring debate.

When you have become a husband and wife, you and your husband must open the door of understanding and the door of forgiveness as wide as possible

Because even the smallest household test will have a fatal impact if it cannot be communicated properly.

Child parenting

As a new parent, you and your husband will certainly need a lot of learning how to care for and raise the Little One.

Being a parent does not have a school. Therefore, parenting often becomes a household test in the early 5 years of marriage.

This learning process that sometimes triggers debate, especially usually you and your husband still bring the parenting pattern applied to each parent.

4.Conflin of in-laws

Not infrequently new couples may stay with in-laws for a while.

This is usually a problem and becomes one of the next household tests.

Because there may be things that are not suitable between you or your husband and in-laws or vice versa.

Do not immediately express emotions, do not also corner the husband because it is actually a difficult choice for them to mediate between the wife and the mother.

Just communicate everything slowly to find the middle way. Also give your husband an understanding of what things make you uncomfortable.

This one marriage test must be faced with full patience and good communication with in-laws.

5.Saturated

The possibility to be saturated in a relationship will be even greater when you are married, because every day meet and do the same routine.

Do not let saturation become a trigger for harmonious relationships, find things that can make the relationship more enjoyable.

Make a simple routine with your husband, for example by spending time together every weekend like a courtship person.

Or occasionally go on vacation together to make the relationship warmer. This trial or household test is indeed commonly experienced for young couples.

6.Relationships that are not quality

Connecting with a young couple is the fun part.

This relationship can establish intimacy, stress relief in the relationship, as well as a place for you and your husband to give each other pleasure.

But not infrequently, doing this relationship becomes one of the household tests in the first 5 years.

Usually the thing that is the debate around the frequency ***, the quality of sexual relations, and boredom in the style of sexual that-that's all.

This household test can be overcome by communication with a partner.

Invite what discussion partners each likes to have at *** so that both partners do not feel bored or bored.

With communication, the test of marriage on sexual relations can be overcome and increasingly provide intimate closeness between you and your husband

7.Inappropriate and draw time management

When you think getting married will simplify your life and save time, you're wrong.

Getting married, in addition to following your own schedule, must also understand the schedule of each partner.

Starting from the time to work, take care of children, pursue education, time alone, and take care of the house and pets.

Although it looks trivial and easy, time is one of the things that are often debated and become a household test in marriage.

Most new married couples struggle to balance family and work.

Carving out quality time for you or your husband will require sacrifices, such as reducing personal hobbies or time with friends.

So, it would be better to communicate it and divide it fairly in order to pass this household test that often happens at the beginning of marriage.

8.Duties of unfairly divided household work

Another thing that is often a test of the household at the beginning of marriage is the division of duties in the house.

Remember that married couples are a team that work hand in hand to build a harmonious family including doing homework.

Homework is not only the duty of the wife but also the husband. Therefore, at the beginning of the marriage should agree on how the division of labor.

That way, each other will not feel that A works more than B.

Stress and moral burden

Stress is often experienced by almost everyone. However, when you or your husband is stressed, this can worsen existing problems.

When one partner has a bad day, they will bring this unpleasant situation home and bring an uncomfortable atmosphere.

These household exams occur when we cannot control stress well. As a result, either the wife or husband vents these negative emotions to the couple.

10.Character togetherness

Listen to this, getting married does not mean leaving our affection for the old family, you know.

The marriage also brought together two different families. In other words, household tests that are often experienced are not far from family problems.

Because of this, you and your husband need to unite two families with two different customs and cultures.

Cooperation between husband and wife is needed to understand each other's habits and family members.

Always get used to maintaining two families, it will certainly be much easier to maintain the harmony of marriage.

Accepting and adapting to your partner's family is not easy. However, slowly but surely you and your husband can definitely do it.

11.Difference in principle of life

If a couple has differences in principles or views in crucial matters, this becomes a serious marriage test.

Not infrequently there are those who have big differences of opinion about religion or what habits should be taught to their children.

Other differences include how to discipline or nurture a child, right and wrong actions, or other ethical conflicts.

Everyone does not grow with the same values, morals, or goals. There is a lot of debate about right and wrong.

If a married couple cannot learn to conform to different values, the household life that is lived will certainly be difficult.

12.Jealousy!!

Who would have thought, household exams can also be from small things such as jealousy, you know.

Jealousy can make a marriage disharmonious, especially if there are unwarranted feelings of jealousy.

A person who is jealous can become exaggerated in their behavior and cannot control their emotions.

If you've ever felt jealous, see a marriage counselor to decide if this is a normal feeling or not.

Household exams that are being experienced may need to be discussed with a counselor who is more expert in this field.

This obligation must certainly be accompanied by the obligation of the husband to the wife, or the fulfillment of the rights of the wife to the husband, mutual take end give,” he said.