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Third person in islam
The presence of a third party in a person's household. The word superstition literally means deceptive, deceptive, and destructive attempts. The term superstition can be understood as the actions of a third-party person that have an impact on the breakdown of one's household relationships. The word superstition can be found in the hadith of Prophet Muhammad. We will quote the hadith of the Prophet Muhammad on the following two narrations. As for the following is the hadith of Abu Dawud's history:
⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ Philippe ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ “From Abu Hurayra's best friend, Rasulullah saw bersabda, ‘Who destroys (sirr) one's wife or slave, then he is not part of us,’” (HR Abu Dawud).
Destroying the household of others is an act that is very proud of by the devil and hated by Allah SWT. In addition, the act of harming the harmony of a family is also considered a form of betrayal of fellow Muslims and is considered a great sin.
In this modern age, divorce cases caused by damage to households due to third parties, as if it had become commonplace. Not a few of them who blatantly even deliberately disturb the harmony of the household of others.
The Prophet said that SAW will not recognize a destroyer of the household of others as his people. From Abu Hurairah RA, the Prophet SAW said “...and who corrupts (relationship) a woman from her husband then she is not from (class) us.” (SR Ahmed).
“The Enemies of Allah” by Rizem Aizid, Imam Abdul Qoyim said the law destroys the households of others. “This work is one of the great sins. Shariah forbids asking for his brother's proposal, let alone destroying his brother's marriage relationship. This act of sin is nothing less than an abomination (zina). Threatening a person (husband) by damaging his wife and the crime of his bed is greater than taking his property unjustly. There is not even an equivalent (punishment) on his side except (with) draining his blood.”
In addition to being an enemy of Allah SWT, household destroyers are also subject to two laws, namely ukrawi and earthly law.. Anything yet?
The First
ukrawi law. Destroying the household of people burdened with ukrawi law for violating His Shari'a. The scholars agreed that the law disturbing and damaging relationships (household) is haram. So, anyone who damages the relationship will get sin and be threatened with the torment of hell.In fact, Imam al-Haitsami categorizes these sins as major sins. In his book, Al-Zawajir 'an Iqtiraf al-Kabair, Imam al-Haitsami mentions that the great sin of the 257th and 258th is to corrupt a woman to be separated from her husband and to corrupt a husband to be separated from his wife.
Second
worldly law. The scholars argue that the judge is authorized to impose ta'zir (punishment whose provisions are set by the judge or ruler) on condition that it does not exceed the weight of 40 lashes.
Among them there are those who argue, the law is a prison cage until he declared repentance or died (this opinion was issued by some adherents of the Hanafi School).
There are also those who argue, just given a hard lash, then published his actions so that people are wary of him and for others to take ibrah (this opinion according to some adherents of Hambali School).
What a terrible impact and punishment for the destroyer of people's households. May we survive the seduction of Satan. So that we do not fall into the destroyer of people's households. Thus, may we not be labelled as enemies of God. Amens
So as a wife, keep your beauty only for your husband, and as a husband keep your eyes from women who are not your wife, so as a husband or wife we mantut understand the feelings of our wives or our husbands, because the harmony of the household there will be estangnya, therefore who have married, take care
"Ria Andarista"
HOUSEKEEPING FOR THE NEWLYWEDS
Humans who have grown up and healthy sense want to live a happy life, enough clothing and food, a nice house, harmony in the household and get along with neighbors, a lot of clothing, a lot of clothing, and loved by the community wherever he is.The desire is very good, even in accordance with the development program in our country that we love. To achieve this desire can not only be wishful thinking, but requires knowledge followed by practice, along with the rapid discovery of science and technology that can not be separated in human life. Without being fortified with the values of Islamic teachings called faith taqwa in one's chest and soul this is inevitable. Many domestic conflicts occur resulting in persecution, physical, psychological violence, economic violence, and so on, so that there can not be harmony, peace, tranquility, mutual love between family members, and so on, this in turn leads to failure, mess and divorce.
His teaching is a religion that Allah ridhoi and revealed to the Prophet Muhammad SAW to be delivered to his people, as his apostolic treatise, which contains the core of his teachings beginning with the issue of aqidah, worship, morality, muamalah, muamalah, among them is the question: the law of God which governs marriage or marriage, including those that govern life and the guidance of a good and right way of marriage.
1.The purpose of marriage is to form a happy and eternal family.
2.Marriage according to religion and recorded.
3.The basis of marriage is monogamy.
4.Physical and spiritual maturity of the couple for the household.
5.Difficulty divorce.
Based on the Word of the Prophet SAW :
عَنْ اَبْنِ هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَ سَلَّمَ قَالَ: تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِأَرْبَعٍ لِمَالِهَا وَ لِحَسَبِهَا وَ لِجَمَالِهَا وَ لِدِيْنِهَا فَاظْفَرْبِذَاتِ الدِّيْنِ تِرَبَتْ يَدَاكَ (متفق عليه)
It means : “From Abu Hurairah r.a, from the Prophet SAW, he said: A woman is married for four reasons: because of her property, her position, her beauty, and her religion. Then let you choose the cause of his religion, you will surely be happy.” (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim, followed by imam seven)
Starting with looking for a mate or life partner that matches the criteria taught by Prophet Muhammad SAW, namely:
Descendants
Her beauty
Related to his wealth (economy)
His religion (prophetical Hadith)
Each life partner (husband-wife) understands the meaning and purpose and wisdom of carrying out marriage.
Each husband and wife is able to uphold the values of faith and devotion in the household (folat fardu, read the Qur’an, zikrullah, etc.)
Fulfilling the living standards or needs of life in the primary and secondary households (food, clothing, board, education and health)
Improve and maintain harmony and friendship among family members.
Maintaining the integrity, as well as the sustainability and eternity of the household, should not be defiled and damaged his marriage by the way the husband speaks the words: talak, divorce to his wife.
