Second to Me and to You

well we're starting

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After Evan's rejection, and ending with his agreement, Lolita was finally able to sit quietly here, next to Hamid's master sitting next to her, and in front of them now sits a doctor L, SPKJ, who has been prostituting in the medical world, very experienced in his field

" how, doctor..."

" the condition of my son." said Mr. Hamid restlessly, as well as Lolita who tried to calm down, even though his heart was not

" well will I explain my diagnosis as a doctor..."

" i hope you can accept what I will say." said Doctor L with a serious but gentle look from his tone.

" inshaallah, doctor." said Hamid resignedly, Lolita looked at Hamid with a face that looks sad, representing her deepest feelings, Lolita touched the palm of Mr. Hamid's hand and held him warmly

" Daddy.." said Lolita without being able to say anything, as the contents of the head were too heavy to mention a single word after Daddy said, Hamid piled Lolita's hands, like they were channeling power to each other

" well, we'll start..."

" from my examination, and the report of the doctor who served the afternoon yesterday,..."

" and also from my counseling session with Mr. Evan, in Evan's inpatient room, earlier..."

" may I conclude at this time, if Mr. Evan suffers from suicidal thoughts, or who we are more familiar with indications of suicide,...." the doctor looked at Mr. Hamid's bead in the eye and spoke in a very polite tone, nothing, families of patients with special conditions like this tend not to be able to accept what happens to their family members, let alone a child,

" can it be cured, doctor." asked Hamid.

who has pressed his hand into a circle or clenched grip

" isheavenly..."

" not to mention that Mr. Evan was quickly brought here..."

" of course it will be very influential, will be the recovery of Mr. Evan..."

" the longer the delay in treatment will further aggravate the patient's condition..."

" that's what happens often..."

" you have decided the best.."

" i'm sure it's not easy for you, sir..."

" but rest assured...."

" inshaallah, Mr. Evan will recover." said the doctor gave moral support to Mr. Hamid at this consultation session.

" can be without drugs, doctor..."

" for my son.." said Hamid who does not want his son dependence on psycho drugs**** and the like.

" it could be, sir..."

" depends on the patient's condition...."

" we see first during the treatment process in the hospital, we do observation and psychotherapy..."

" if this works, thank God..."

" i can't guarantee it will work, sir.."

" that means under certain conditions, if we see the worst possibility, of course I have to give Mr. Evan drug therapy..."

" to give stability to the soul and physique of Mr. Evan." said the doctor seriously and gently.

" well..."

" i follow everything the doctor suggested." said Hamid resignedly.

" an indication of my ex-husband's illness, including what kind of doctor.." asked Lolita curiously.

" in the psychic, or medical, world, these indications are actually included in the emergency phase,"

" because for the patient is very at risk of self-harm,." said doctor L again explained to the family provide excellent service as a doctor who is expert in his field.

" especially according to Mr. evan, if after he was in the phase when post-divorce, ..."

"he often feels alone, feels useless, exactly desperate, Mr. Evan also sleeps irregularly, sometimes suddenly woke up while asleep, .."

" often insomnia due to excessive anxiety because of the fear of loss is so great, let alone ,sorry..."

" miss Lolita has had another possible companion, who is more credible than she is, young, handsome, looking more established than her Mr. Evan." said the doctor carefully.

" Oh yeah..."

" there are other things I should tell my family if the patient has been discharged from hospital care and done at home..."

" first of all, lose access for him to try to commit suicide, and the patient must continue to be accompanied, meaning the patient cannot live alone..."

-" even if Mr. Evan gets antidepressant drug therapy***, it must be consumed until I declare that the patient should not take the drug again, do not let the family stop themselves without consulting a doctor again, unless the family consults with another mental specialist"

-" and for Mr. Evan, after discharge from the hospital please do not let him consume alcohol and illicit drugs, ...."

" and most importantly,..."

" it's talk therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy for Mr. Evan." said the doctor in the same tone.

" here your role is very big Miss Lolita." said the doctor looking at Lolita's bead seriously.

" ma..I mean doctor." said Lolita slightly stuttered.

" here you go, miss..."

" everything that happened to Mr. Evan,..."

" the result of his guilt is too great, his love is too great, the decision you take, rather your decision is enough to make Mr. Evan very hit..."

" i don't blame your decision..."

" it is natural, very natural that if you take that step, any woman will never be able to experience what you feel.."

" but at this time, your role is very big for the mental health of Mr. Evan." said the doctor again.

" how long will it take for Evan to heal, doctor.?.." asked Lolita seriously

" depends on the patient's condition..."

" it could be four to five months..."

" it could be more...."

" as I said, it depends on the patient's condition, and the patient's wishes, as well as the patient's awareness..."

" about his current condition, about the relationship he and you..."

" the role of the family, your role, and one more suggestion I approach Mr. Evan with an ustadz, or someone who understands religion, so that Mr. Evan is aware of the meaning of life...." the doctor looked at Lolita and Mr. Hamid in turn

Hamid and Lolita fell silent, they pondered at each other what steps he would take next if it should be in the city of S**, what about the school of his two sons, if Evan to the city of J***, how about her lover Bobby, there's no way they'll sleep one more room three, get together ke* right his name, right, will make Lolita's good name will be bad in the eyes of people especially prospective in-laws who do not like her

while Hamid is silent, there is no way she and her family let Lolita and Evan together without marriage ties, while at that time alone, Lolita has solidified her choice to divorce her husband, it means thin hope for Evan and Lolita back together, to make Lolita plunge take care of Evan in this state

what is certain is that the current Lolita will swallow the fruit simalakama, which if not help Evan, will make Evan's condition worse, he said, if he helped then he would have to sacrifice four to five months at the earliest, no measure of the time needed for Evan's recovery

" son.." said Hamid, feeling bad.

" later we will discuss, Dad.." said Lolita with a smile on her beautiful face, so that Hamid does not worry about what Lolita will do later....

Lolita needs time to think clearly, not at this time, of course, because she is still hesitant to take any steps

" Oh, yeah..."

" on talk therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy for Mr. Evan, later at home..."

" some things to remember when doing this session, namely: stay calm, speak in a confident tone, validate the emotions of the interlocutor, and offer support to him." said the doctor again.

" this is the best way to help Mr. Evan, by listening to him when he conveys the feelings he feels, giving encouragement or support to him, and giving him other distractions such as sports, traveling, and giving him a boost, doing other activities that are more in a positive direction." said doctor L added his explanation again.

" is this the doctor's diagnosis of my son." asked Mr. Hamid.

" for now, I diagnose a.n.Elvano Adinata patient, the same as the initial diagnosis..."

" we'll see again during the hospital treatment, how the patient is, and we'll assess again, about one to two weeks...."

" because there is also a type or category of depression with a pattern almost the same as suicidal thoughts,.."

" it's even more dangerous..."

" aggressive levels are more erratic, anytime anywhere can happen at any time

Degs....

Degs.....

Deg......

mr. Hamid's heartbeat beat increasingly irregular, Lolita fell silent and pecked, the look of their faces both increasingly pias, hearing the speech of this specialist

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