
I try to be strong and comfort myself by continuing to think positively. I instill in my heart and mind that God has opened the way to make my parents happy by being devoted to both. Although there has been no fancy things or things that I managed to give them. It only helps with the cost of everyday life. At least I can still buy them some decent rice to eat and a simple side dish for them. No longer want to be repeated in my life, when I have to eat rice aking with them because at home there is no longer a supply of rice to cook.
2017 Was a year of sadness for us. At the end of the year, my father had an ischemic stroke and had to be hospitalized for a week. Because of the age of getting older and the threat of stroke that can occur repeatedly, my father finally could not work anymore. Savings money as an emergency fund reserve that amount is not how much, used up for my father's medical and physiotherapy costs in the hospital.
Finally, until now, my mother and I have been the driving force behind the family's economy after my father could no longer work. There is still a second sister who must be financed in the XI SMK class. I also realized that my mother's age was getting older, as was my own age. There was already a lot of pain that my mother was complaining about. Therefore I try not to be discouraged from being the backbone of this family. The scorn and scorn of the people around me no longer hear and I care. For me, the most important thing is to still be able to find and support my family with halal and good sustenance. Even though the sustenance I get is mediocre.
We will never feel calm if we continue to seek perfection in life. Want to be safe and comfortable in every journey of life. Happy and miserable has become the destiny of every human being on earth without exception. Happy and miserable God gives equally, regardless of tribe, race, or class. However, in this life there is always room and opportunity for improvement, no matter how much suffering and misery befalls. Mutual help and cooperation in a family must not stop until the family bond is completely separated by death.
#Family is a place where people are able to accept the advantages and disadvantages of each member. If you have a family that is full of love, attention, and appreciation, then you can say you are one of the lucky people.
Many people do not have the luck to have a loving family. Sometimes people have toxic families. Therefore, if you have a family full of affection, you must be grateful.Even though everyone has different experiences in the family, but everyone must still try to maintain the integrity of the family. Keeping the family united and happy is a duty that must be fulfilled.