Husband, If Your Father Is On Your Mother, Your Sins Are On Me

Episode 42

I had just returned from the kitchen and brought two glasses of cold drinks for me and my mother when I heard someone shouting at the door.

"Excuse me!"

Mom got up and walked outside. After putting the glass on the table, I went outside.

"Mom, why is evil with my son? My son was crying right home from here. He said he was kicked out and banned from playing here with mom!" The boy's mother spoke in a high tone.

Wow, not an enviable attitude. No matter how bad it is, there is a name that adab talks to an older person.

"I'm sorry, it's not like I forbid mom's kids from playing here. I don't forbid it at all. I'm just saying, if you want to play here don't fight with my granddaughter. Do not enter the room. My grandson was twice crying because he was thrown a toy with his mother's child, kept pinching too" Mother explained.

"Yes the name is also the children of ma'am, maklumin aja. Still don't know anything. My son's kasian, to the surprise of being kicked out and banned from playing!

Here goes! This type of parent, who always understands the behavior of his child even though it is wrong that actually makes the behavior of the child difficult to control.

"Which son knows, Mom! How does he know that what he did was wrong! His name is also children, yes the adults dong who understand! What dreams did I last night, just moved even a neighbor who does not understand the behavior of children!" The woman nagged the mother. And before mother returned her words, she had already turned around and passed away leaving us.

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"Lita, if you play with Dre, pay close attention. The boy next door is playing. If it's not bad, it's really naughty to wear it," Mother said to Lita who was holding Dre.

"Yes ma'am, relax, there's Lita. Lita Jitak is a child."

"Steh also wants nakol, to look at it," I said.

Actually, the kids don't understand anything. They tend to do as they please. It is the duty of parents to tell what is wrong and what is right and teach adab as early as possible in children so that children become accustomed.

For example, if a child is accustomed to enter the house by saying greetings. He will get used to it even though he does not understand if it is one of the adab entering the house. Or, if the child is accustomed to be polite in the home of others, the child will make it a habit and continue to be polite when he visits anyone's home so that he has unknowingly learned about the meeting.

In essence, even though children do not understand anything, it is not impossible to teach them praiseworthy actions early on to get used to it. Gradually, they would be able to because of ordinary, not because they understood.

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Dre was eating a chocolate Lita gave him in front of the television when the next child appeared. Without further ado, he snatched the chocolate Dre was holding. It is clear that my son was surprised, fortunately not to cry. Lita who also saw the behavior of the child immediately approached her and retook the chocolate she was holding. Big deal! The boy screamed and then cried, then threw a pillow that was nearby.

I immediately advanced to secure Dre from throwing pillows, and the child still went on a rampage. Lita looked at me confused.

"Biarin. At most her mother came here," I said casually.

Sure enough not long later, the next door neighbor came and immediately poked.

"My life is fine" replied Lita. His face is pias.

"lik! My son can cry rich so you must be rude! Why, you pinch my son right!?"

Lita shook her head, "I swear, I don't mind my mother's son. My mother's son who just knew-or chelped in kept calling my chocolate pounding."

"Keep the chocolate you took again?!" His eyes looked at the chocolate Lita was holding.

"Well, this guy has my bangs" replied Lita.

"Your staff are like little children! My son is talking because he doesn't know anything! Maklumin! His name is also a child! Besides that, you also nyubit right?! Why?!"

"Well, I'm not pinching Mom's son."

"Lied you! I can report you to the police! Use violence with a child!"

"Report please," I said.

The woman came back to me who was still holding Dre.

I looked at Lita and signaled her to get her to take Dre. Lita came straight to me.

"Please report to the police, in this house there is a cctv. We can see each other later at the police station."

The woman in front of me was silent. "Waste of time!" he said as he approached the child who had stopped raging. He seems to want to bring his son home.

"Cock waste of time? It was my own mother who said she wanted to report. I'm a mah hayu aja, there happens to be a cctv here. Could be evidence, right? If my sister is wrong, she is ready to accept her punishment. But if not, yes mom get ready I just report back," I said casually.

"Why do you want to report to me?!" his challenge.

I folded my hands on my chest and smiled cynically. "On the grounds of defamation for unsubstantiated accusations. On the basis of unpleasant treatment because without cause mom is angry here. And another one on the basis of trespassing into someone else's property because I saw the mother go in before I allowed it. And I have a cctv here as solid evidence."

I swear, I made this beautiful. The things I mentioned I saw in my favorite drama.

Besides, I also used the trick I used for Mrs Jejen. There is no cctv in this house.

"So you want to go to the police station? Come on, I'll change my clothes first, okay?" I smiled broadly.

The woman in front of me was silent. With a single jolt, he pulled his son out of the house.