Husband, If Your Father Is On Your Mother, Your Sins Are On Me

Episode 39's

We all left Susi when she calmed down. Instead of going home, Ms. Jejen and Ms. Romlah even stopped by my house.

"Re..," said Mrs Jejen.

"Yes, you know, ice syrup, right? Quiet." Calm." I went into the kitchen to make my guests drink.

"Let's be with me, Neng" Mbak Tinah offered.

"So Adek Dre already I bribe, not long sleepy keep asking to watch tivi, fitting I look again even already sleeping."

"Yes Ma'am, I saw this," I said grin.

I went back to the terrace where the mothers were sitting. It turns out that Bu Indah, Bu Mumun and Bu rt are already on the terrace.

"Wow, at this gathering," I smiled.

"Bu Rere, thank you very much. I was confused when Ms. Romlah went home to make ngasi tau. His father is still at work. I was confused later if Bu Susi's husband had to how to. Just until there he knew the man had left," said Bu rt at length.

Mbak Tinah came and served a drink, not long after he returned with an additional glass.

"Eh Mbak Tinah, Mbak sekampung is not the same as her husband Bu Susi?" Miss Romlah asked.

"Here Ma'am, sit down" I asked.

"Yes, I'm a village, like Susi's husband." Ma'am Tinah spoke after sitting next to me.

"From the first it was a bad habit. But after the same marriage Susi changed. Diligent work, friendly, willing to get along. Don't know why it's so anymore."

We all fell silent

"Would we report to the police?" said Bu rt

To be honest, I also had time to think about the idea of Miss Rt.

"Yes, we should have reported it earlier" said Bu Mumun

"Yes report it aja kanya, kasian sebadan-bodies all bruises," Bu Jejen added.

I was still silent when Miss asked me. "What do you think about Bu Rere?"

"I don't know, Mom. I'm afraid that if we take action, then Ms. Susi's husband even more angry. Later, Susi's mother again affected," I revealed what I had been thinking.

All the mothers nodded their heads.

"So how good is it?" ask Bu rt again. Anxiety was clearly reflected in him.

It was quiet for a while until I finally opened my voice.

"If my advice, the most entitled to reprimand it sir rt. Because they live in this rt region. So mending Mr. rt who spoke directly. If you need to make a statement, if once again Bu Susi's husband violates, the residents can report him to the police."

We spent half an hour later talking about something else.

***

"Neng, was there a commotion?" ask Mas Yandri

I looked at him in wonder, "Kok Mas know there was a storm?" askaku.

Mas Yandri ruffled my hair tightly.

"You're a habit, Mas's question is answered by another question."

I shook his hand slowly. I used to hate having my hair ruffled the most.

"Jawab used to question Neng, let Neng story is good," I said

"From Mr. Rt's status," Mas Yandri laughed.

"Well, how can you? What status?" I'm getting curious.

Mas Yandri picked up his phone and read out Mr rt's status

"Going home instead of being treated to coffee, even treated to stories of husband and wife quarrels. I guess soap operas turn out to be real stories."

I laughed so hard that I had a stomachache. Yandri laughed too. After a while, I told the details of the events of Susi.

"Udah bener Neng, if that's not meddling his name. Follow the intervention if Neng bergorin Bu Susi to kill her husband," said Mas Yandri.

"Yes Mas, Neng also thought about it first. Fear of even missteps. Oh yes, Mommy, Neng wants it."

Mas Yandri put down the phone and turned completely to face me. "What?"

"Can a husband beat his own wife?"

Mas Yandri was silent for a while.

"Because men use logic more often, so a little less able to control Neng's feelings. One of them is emotion. I don't know what the scientific explanation is."

I'm nodding.

"Example gini gamblangnya. Rich time yesterday Mas angry with you. Mas logic says that Mas must find out the truth, if necessary use his own eyes. But the heart of Mas had guessed that nothing, well between feelings and logic mas it was the winning feeling. That's why I'm angry with you.

For the case of beating, there is a possibility that the husband is out of control because it has been controlled by emotions. This control has many causes. It could be due to fatigue at work, saturated with life so-so, a wife who is much demanding, a problem child, etc.

But usually after losing control, in this case, the logic will take over again. The husband thought. Why would I hit my own wife? Why would I hurt the woman I love? etc. And that makes the husband very miserable. Most promise not to repeat, but usually if a man once out of control, will become a habit."

I nodded increasingly understanding. Mas Yandri's explanation is quite acceptable.