Young Jurist

233. Origin of the name of princess Tiwi

Finally Ali ibn Abi Talib also ventured to meet the Prophet to convey his heart, asking the daughter of the prophet to be his wife. At first he just sat next to the Prophet and long bowed silently. Until the Prophet asked ”, son of Abu Talib, what do you want?”

For a moment Ali was silent, and with a trembling voice he replied, ” O Messenger of Allah, I want to ask Fatimah” Hearing Ali's answer he SAW not surprised. "Good, O Ibn Abu Talib, in recent times many have proposed to my daughter, but she always refused, therefore, wait for my daughter's answer”

Then the Prophet left Ali and asked his daughter, when asked Fatimah was silent and the Prophet concluded that Fatimah's silence was a sign of his agreement.

The Prophet then approached Ali and said, "Do you have something that you will make a dowry, O Ali?

Ali replied ” My parents are the loggers for you, Messenger of Allah, there is nothing I hide from you, I only have a camel to help me water the plants, a sword and a armor of iron.”

With a smile the Prophet said.

"O Ali, you cannot be separated from your sword, for with it you defend yourself from the enemies of Allah SWT, and it is also impossible for you to part with your strand because it is you need to help you irrigate your crops, I accept your armor dowry, sell it and make it a dowry for my daughter.”

"O Ali, you must rejoice because God has already married you in Heaven before I marry you on Earth." Narrated by Umm Salamah ra.

Ali ibn Abi Talib sold the armor for 400 dirhams and handed the money to the Prophet Muhammad, and the Prophet divided the money into 3 parts. One part for household needs, one part for fragrances and another part is returned to Ali bin Abi Thalib as a fee for banquets for guests who attend parties.

After everything is ready, with a feeling of satisfaction and happy heart and witnessed by the companions of the Prophet uttered the word ijab kabul marriage of his daughter.

Then the Prophet said:"Allah Azza wa Jalla ordered me to marry Fatimah Princess Khadijah to Ali bin Abi Talib, Then behold I have married her to a dowry of four hundred dihram (the value of an armor) and Ali Ridho (received) the mahar.

So married Ali with Fatimah Their marriage was full of wisdom even though in the middle of poverty Even mentioned by the Prophet was very moved to see the hand of Fatimah who was rough because it had to lay siege to wheat to help her husband.

And at night after being memorized by Allah SWT, there was a very stirring dialogue. One day after the two were married, Fatimah said to Ali,

“I'm sorry, because before marrying you, I once felt in love with a young man and I wanted to marry him”, I've never felt like falling in love with him,

Ali asked her why she did not want to marry him, and whether Fatimah regretted marrying him.

Smiling Fatimah replied, “The young man is you.”

Subhanallah, it is the best compliment from a wife who can make her husband happy.

Ali and Fatimah loved each other because of God they loved in silence, keeping their love and God united in the sacred bond of marriage. May we be able to obey the life of the son and daughter-in-law of the Prophet dear.

"Maa shaa Allah mas, I was moved by the story of both. Of course I totally agree. May all the good that is in him, may be down to our beautiful daughter."

"Aamiin yes rabbal alamin."

After hearing a long story told by his father, baby Fatim who had been crying since, now seemed to be asleep.

"Oh my God, maybe our baby likes the name you give. The proof, now he was asleep, but since then continued to fuss." with sparkling eyes, Tiwi kissed his daughter's forehead slowly. She put the baby in the box and looked after him, while Adam took a bath first.

In the afternoon, after the processed goat meat is finished in cooking, and has been arranged in containers, the food is distributed to neighbors around. Not to forget, those who received food also thanked and prayed for all the goodness of Baby Fatim.

At night, the stars in the sky appear to shine brightly. The weather is not cold and not hot. One by one the invited guests began to arrive and were immediately greeted by Tiwi family. Although the home of fellow doctors is quite far away, it does not dampen their intention to attend an aqiqah event that night.

After all the invited guests came, the aqiqah event was immediately started. MC started with a greeting, then continued reading the holy verse of the Quran, and a welcome from the family.

Adam who was sitting on the stage, immediately shifted his body for a bit more forward. After that, he began to give a welcome.

"Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wa barokatuh. Thank you for the presence of the father/mother, brothers/sisters, for his willingness to attend the aqiqah event of our first daughter.

In accordance with the name we pinned on our daughter, Fatimah Az-Zahra. We have a great hope that our daughter will inherit all the virtues of attitude, nature and everything from her Fatimah Az-Zahra, the beloved daughter of the prophet.

We also hope that our daughter, will be a devoted child, not only for her parents, but also devoted to religion and Nusa and the nation, this Indonesian homeland we love.

And once again, for all the prayers and attendance of the invited guests, we thank you very much. A word of welcome from me. If there is a word that is less pleasing, then please with a willingness to forgive. Wassalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wa barokatuh." so said the greeting from Adam.

After finishing giving a speech, the event continued with a baby haircut. Tiwi stood up while holding baby Fatim. Mr. Ustadz, Mr. Somad, Adam and other brothers stood up and took turns cutting a little baby Fatim hair.

The hair cutting event was completed, followed by a lecture by mr. ustadz, on the importance of aqiqah. Then continue with a prayer together and finally enjoy the dishes that have been provided.

The aqiqah event for the daughters of Tiwi and Adam was finally completed. Ladies and gentlemen, start leaving the venue. Not to forget, the family gave a snack parcel to the audience.

After the end of the event, Tiwi held baby Fatim in the room, while Adam intended to help clean up the rest of the event, making Mr. Somad amazed by the personality of his son-in-law. Although born from a group of rich people, but still want to help do any work.